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    Default What is this girl thinking

    I pulled this girl in a club 3/4 weeks ago and we went back and F-closed. Over 1 hour LMR but got there in the end lol. Spent the whole next day with her and it couldn't have got better. Then texting back and forth had a coffee date 3 days later. Again couldn't have gone better and her laughing loads, was great.
    Big problem however was that she was leaving long distance for a new job in a week!!

    In total, the days leading up to her having left we text over 150 times!! Huge conversation that was consistently interesting. Anyhow I couldnt get her to meet again in the final 2 days as she was too busy...

    Now she has gone, about a week ago I get a random text asking how i was doing etc. We had a few short exchanges but that was it. Now I feel like wtf, is she just loving the attention of texting, as she hasnt exactly made an effort to want to meet again although everything went perfect and because I really like this girl, I've been very careful not to lower my value and sound too needy.

    What should I do from here?? I woud love to meet again but don't know whats going through her head. Am I merely an option??

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    Default Re: What is this girl thinking

    How much long distance we talking? I mean, if she's that far away maybe she is just sad about leaving and is having trouble letting you go knowing that she has to.
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    Default Re: What is this girl thinking

    Thanks for the swift reply. 200 miles to be exact. I mean we had only known each other for a couple of weeks. I wouldn't say it's a case of oneitis, I mean we bonded better than anyone else but I've learned not to become too emotionally attached. I just don't understand why she would text back and forth for absolutely ages if she never intended to meet again. Maybe so she didn't feel like a slut... I really don't know. I mean if I was a priority you'd make time so I guess that was a blow. I think I'll text her again in a couple of weeks see what happens, but I'm not getting my hopes up. Cheers.

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    Default Re: What is this girl thinking

    200 miles is quite a distance to meet up especially if you only knew each other a few weeks. My advice would be remove her from your memory and move on. She may be texting just because she is bored/doesnt have many friends in this new place, or she may just be genuinely missing you and just using you as someone to chat to

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    Default Re: What is this girl thinking

    You're thinking logically. Emotions aren't logic lol. I think it may be time to let it go. Long distance sucks.
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