FR: Practicing Night Game
Hey bros! I know I haven't been posting much FRs lately. Mostly because, I spared this summer for working out, studying my classes and reading PUA material in order to start my next college semester locked and loaded. But here's one.
Be warned: It includes all tiny details, cos that's how I write! Have fun.
As you can relate I also needed field practice so, even if my town is kinda dead at the moment, I got an unexpected invitation from one of my (girl) friends to a club and I said why the hell not, let's do this.
Normally, my night game usually relies on social proof. I bring couple mixed friends, some wings on occasion, pull HBs into our circle and work from that. However, this time was different. I only knew the girl who invited me, so the set was ready waiting for me. And relying social proof wasn't really gonna save me, so I knew I had to play hard.
I went to the place and it just SUCKED! Music was sh1t, it was near empty and I was the only non-smoker. (There was this dude in the group who kept offering me cigarettes and I came this close to smack him in the face, lol.)
After the formal introductions, I decided I hate the place so went out for some air. But I didn't want to ruin the night because all the girls were cute as hell and opportunities were endless. So, I gave my wing a call to make him motivate me. He basically said: "Man the fark up and go have some fun." which was exactly what I needed.
Went back in the club with fire, music was getting better and I should say I had a hard time picking my target, hah. Before working on my target, I won the dudes' hearts. (All AFCs, obviously they were only there to smoke and drink.)
Then I moved onto the cute HB7 because it was her b-day and she hosted everything.
Me: So tell me, which one has a boyfriend here?
HB7: No one at all. (gave me a smile and put her hand right on my back)
Me: Whoa girl, hands off. You have to buy me a drink before you hit on me like that. (Good old push/pull)
HB7: Whatever you say.
She wandered off to get me a drink (lol) and I went onto my target, HB8. She was chilling with another HB7 chatting, giggling, glancing at boys, all that girly stuff.
I opened HB7 with a little neg: "Wow that's a nice necklace! Too bad it's the third time I'm seeing it today."
HB7: Hahah, you're so bad!
Me: Okay, stand up for a minute though I need to see it up close.
She stood up, I gave her a spin, stole her spot, sat down and locked in next to my target, HB8.
HB7: Ohh, I should have seen it coming. (huge smile)
I leaned back, got some kino on, initiated convo with both of 'em. It was going pretty well until I notice that HB7 was constantly texting with some (girl) friend of hers. I playfully told to put her phone down and in the meanwhile I couldn't help myself from having a peek at the texts. And the excerpt I stumbled upon, was actually pleasing:
HB7: This guy sitting next to me, is cuuteeee.
HB7's friend: Really?
HB7: Yess! Omg!
HB7's friend: Well you should eat him up then.
Thanks for that winging, I guess, lol. Huge confidence boost. They were feeling me. But come on Wolf, stick to your target. HB7 wandered off to dance and I've got some sort of isolation with my target, within the group. She was obviously interested in me, asking questions, smiling, playing with her hair and all. However, she kinda went into "personal" grounds too quickly. Started asking questions about my school and stuff. I felt like we shouldn't have gone into comfort stage just now, so after some Q & A, I told her to come dance.
I was still surprised how she could go personal this quick. So, I thought, maybe sometimes I don't really even have to speak to attract a girl. To make sure, I did some kino compliance tests while dancing and she passed them all, pronto.
I was ready to isolate for real this time and get the close done. But I had to go out for a minute because I've got an important call. Suddenly the target pops outside and says she was looking for me everywhere. Turned out she has to leave because her parents are here to pick her up and she lives uptown, about half an hour away. There were 2 girl friend of hers to say goodbye and I couldn't let it slip away.
Me: You know I have to get your number.
Target: Oh really? Okay, sure. (shy smile)
Other 2 HBs: Oh wow! Just like that huh. (giggle)
So I took the number, she went home and I went home about half an hour after.
You might say the loot doesn't look much, but who cares, I had fun and everyone was having fun mostly thanks to me. And another detail, turns out the target, the "texting" HB and the "buy me a drink first" HB are all from my school. This should be an interesting semester.
Lastly, my two questions:
Is my theory about attraction true? Could my target get attracted before I barely speak to her, just because I'm chatting with other ladies (jealousy?/pre-selection?), have solid body language and giving love/having fun?
I think I could have gone for a few more closes but the "girl code" got to me. I thought they would gossip about me having multiple closes, label me as a "player" and blow me off completely. Did I do the right thing with having only one close?
That's it folks! Thanks for reading.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.