i had a free day off yesterday and i decided to chill with some freinds and the girl i want to be my girlfreind. i realized that over and over she was failing Kino. i started to get agrivated (didnt show it of course) and finally asked her why she was doing that. she told me that since our bitchy freind was there she didnt want to do anything until we had Isolation. but really, if she is into it enough she will not even care about whos there to pass kino. so i finally just stopped her in the middle of our freinds kitchen and kissed her right in front of our bitchy freind. from then on in i kept doing all sorts of kino while building up sexual tension. its when you slowly get them to want sex but teasing them in a way, finally if you escalate this tension they will want sex and take you to Isolation instead of you taking her to isolation. so finally i got her so strung up on sexual tension that she grabbed my arm and dragged me to the nearest room and took off both our clothes (if you have her do it its a bit more dominant). we had sex for about two hours and it was the best ive ever had.
mainly the point of this is that our bitchy freind was just an obsticle and if you make the girl you desire interested enough it doesnt matter whos there or whats in the way of your kino.
and two sexual tension should be used to get her to make the first move so she feels that shes in control of her own sexual encounter and wont feel bad about doing things with you (and will have no token resistance)
keep in mind i dont know the actual definition of sexual tension because my freind passed this info on to me, but.. it works insanely well.
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