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    RockNRollOutlaw is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Scoping out Shopping Centre/Mall

    I was working late today and decided to go for a long drive afterwards to wind down. On my drive, I saw a Shopping Centre (I believe Americans call it the Mall) and decided to stop there and scope it out to see if there is any opportunities for street/day gaming (I had did something like this in the past although it was always after a night-out when I was still a bit drunk and buzzing with adrenaline but never done it sober). I am 40 and although I am tall, good looking, look younger and have a slim athletic build, I do know my limits in what I can responsibly expect to pickup woman. I go for woman in their thirties upwards and realise my options are limited but I thought I'd have a look around and see if there was any woman I could approach. I always look for eye contact in woman and while it wasn't busy, it's a bit hard to walk through the centre while looking about for eye contact. I just walked around a few times, browsing in shops and then out again but didn't really see anything. However, one time I caught a woman coming towards me and she was staring at me. She wasn't all that good looking, was a bit scruffy, wearing tracksuit but was slim. She walked right past me and it occurred to me that I should have made a move! I then bought a pack of cigarettes (I'm an occasional smoker) and hung about outside the shopping centre entrance smoking a few times to watch the world go by as well as looking to see if I could get eye contact as well as the type of woman who came in and out in order to guage size of age group I am after. Not much there. As it was getting a bit late, I decided to leave and sitting on a seat outside the car park was a woman who judging by the bags she had with her, had just been finished shopping. She was old, late forties, early fifties but she was hot. Her hair was done up, caked up in makeup and jewellery, tanned and the way she was sitting, she was showing a lot of leg that was toned. She was lighting up a cigarette and I saw that as an opening. It got out my pack of cigarettes to go over and ask for a light but I hesitated. I wasn't sure if maybe her partner was about and didn't want to take a chance. Unfortunately she lit her cigarette, got up and walked away. It wasn't a success and I'm not sure that a shopping centre is the ideal place for me but it good experience and made me realise that I need to be quick thinking on my feet and seize the moment.

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    Default Re: Scoping out Shopping Centre/Mall

    Hey

    I have clients who want to learn shopping center game. I don't really recommend it but if you must you must think of it like this.

    Imagine you met a women there, and a few weeks later you are hanging out with friends and they ask how you met.
    Now in the ideal world it would be like, she was doing some shopping and you popped in to get something from Sainsburys and you met outside while having a smoke.

    See, it must come across like it was spontaneous that you met and that you were actually on your own mission with no intention to meet women.

    As for the hesitation, always know what you are going to say. I am also a casual smoker so I am talking from experience.
    Go up to her and ask for a light then make a comment about how us smokers are the social outcast and how they make us smoke outside, be a little funny.
    From there you will know know to continue or not, there is no risk cause you simply making a conversation.
    If her response is open and continues the conversation, introduce yourself and shake her hand. It is important that physical contact is established as soon as possible.

    If you have more more questions, pop me a line and I would be happy to help.

    Regards

    Guy Mitchley

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    Default Re: Scoping out Shopping Centre/Mall

    Thanks Guy for tips and if I need any help in the future, I'll drop a line. I waited to reply to this so that I didn't self-analyse too much. The simple reason that I had hesitated with the older HB was inexperience. All I needed to have done was to go over, make the opening with asking for a light for my cigarette, then take it from there. If I got any ioi's then I continue else leave so I wouldn't look like an AFC. If she had a partner and he arrived all I needed to have done was make a short face saving conversation with him then exit. As to any future gaming at shopping centre, as I mentioned in another thread, a lot of woman in my work are in senior positions, you see the same in newspapers, TV and the corporate mail coming through the day. Woman are becoming more affluent, independent and again if media parts are believed, increasingly single. What I need to find out is what they do. They just don't go to work and disappear from the face of the Earth. They must go out get to shop, get something to eat, have a coffee, something. It's just a case of finding where these type of woman who fit the age group I am after do outside of going to pubs/clubs and see if there is any chance of openings. Just another thing I had forgotten to mention. As I had walked along the shopping centre yesterday, there was these two guys selling insurance or something, you know the kind of thing, they have a pitched stall and stop people and asking them if they want to buy the product. One of the guys was standing there but from what I say, he was right in amongst the woman, I mean he was using body language with them and it looked like he had them eating out his hand. I had arrived late on and don't know how long he was at it but his enthusiasm was inspiring. There was a nearby cafe and I wished that the stall was closer so I could have sat down and observe him in action to try and get a few tips.


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