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    Default What did I do wrong?

    Met this girl whilst doing daygame. Got coffee with her for an hour, and we had fun. Made out a bit. Near the end of the date, whilst we were walking she said "I don't usually this (date/makeout I assume) with guys I just met", which I just ignored (a mistake in hindsight). Anyway dropped her off at the station, and since her phone broke literally earlier that day before I met her, I gave her my number (she made a point of asking for it), and I took her facebook. Anyway before we said our goodbyes, we talked a bit about trying to meet up again before she went away to uni a few days later, she seemed...quite keen on it.

    Added her on fb last wednes, she accepted a few days later. I did get a bit worried before she accepted, as I sent her a message saying it was good to met you and some inside joke. I assume she didn't see that message as if you send a message to someone you're not friends with, it goes to the Other folder which very few people know of. Anyway, since me and her were very pressed for time (she was leaving on sunday to go to uni), I messaged her soon after she accepted me, asking for her number. She hasn't replied since.

    But I know that she has been on facebook, just earlier tonight in fact, as she's accepted more friends. So....what did I do wrong?

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    What you did wrong was getting carried away due to your success by closing. You got too excited and let it get to your head, which made you worry and send her that message before she accepts, shows neediness.

    Also, when she said she normally doesn't do this you should've worked on the comfort factor to make her feel good about it. Think about it, learn and move to the next one!

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    How many days go by between your facebook visits?

    Rhetorical question, the answer is none.

    She's on facebook every day, just like you. If she didn't accept day one, it was deliberate. There's a reason she plays the game, because people who don't come across as desperate and low value.

    "I messaged her soon after she accepted me, asking for her number"

    You showed too much interest right away. If you're not sure, don't show more than she shows you. You really need to read up on how the game works, we can't give you a play by play here
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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ellagon View Post
    Met this girl whilst doing daygame. Got coffee with her for an hour, and we had fun. Made out a bit. Near the end of the date, whilst we were walking she said "I don't usually this (date/makeout I assume) with guys I just met", which I just ignored (a mistake in hindsight). Anyway dropped her off at the station, and since her phone broke literally earlier that day before I met her, I gave her my number (she made a point of asking for it), and I took her facebook. Anyway before we said our goodbyes, we talked a bit about trying to meet up again before she went away to uni a few days later, she seemed...quite keen on it.

    Added her on fb last wednes, she accepted a few days later. I did get a bit worried before she accepted, as I sent her a message saying it was good to met you and some inside joke. I assume she didn't see that message as if you send a message to someone you're not friends with, it goes to the Other folder which very few people know of. Anyway, since me and her were very pressed for time (she was leaving on sunday to go to uni), I messaged her soon after she accepted me, asking for her number. She hasn't replied since.

    But I know that she has been on facebook, just earlier tonight in fact, as she's accepted more friends. So....what did I do wrong?
    I'm starting to get this "My phone is broke, but I'm on facebook." BS myself lately. I got rid of my facebook account because I got sick of all the drama from women constantly being put out there, stalkers and stuff writing up my new conquests and saying nasty stuff, making drama. I tell them that too. If they can't give me a number to call in a few days, then they are just teasing and not worth the effort or time to worry about. Whenever a girl offers face book I look at them blankly and say "Hey, do you remember when girls used to keep a diary and would freak out if their brother so much as touched the cover? Yeah, we've come a long way with Facebook!"

    As far as this chick goes. It is never a done deal until you are in bed with her. I've had plenty of chicks who were in the mood to make out and play around one day and then disappear never to be seen again. Sometimes they have boyfriends, sometimes they were just out teasing, and sometimes they just get cold feet. Just write her off and continue with a new one.

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    Thanks for the replies. Her phone was broken, she showed it to me pretty early on actually in the date. But yeah, I get what all of you saying. The big problem was I think, this happened last wednesday (the 4th) and she was leaving on the 8th. So we had a timeframe of 2 days to see each other again (neither of us could make the thursday) so I suppose I just panicked a bit.

    I think, if she still doesn't reply to my message in a few days, I'll write something on her wall, some jokey comment or something and try to start from Step 1 again. But in any case...I'm just going to try and move on.

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    Default Re: What did I do wrong?

    I'll write something on her wall, some jokey comment or something and try to start from Step 1 again. But in any case...I'm just going to try and move on.
    Writing on her wall when she is in that state is bad sort of in this dynamic.at least she was attracted to you.u may have more women in your life..


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