This has not happened 10 times yet, only 4 times so far so I might be jumping the gun here.
I keep my old text streams and I couldn't help but notice a pattern. When I set up a first date I use and odd time like 8:09pm for example. If the woman does not comment at all on that odd time then she flakes.
Typically I get some response from an odd timed date even a "lol 8:09 eh" is an acknowledgement.
Anyone else notice this?