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Thread: I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

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    Default I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

    This has not happened 10 times yet, only 4 times so far so I might be jumping the gun here.

    I keep my old text streams and I couldn't help but notice a pattern. When I set up a first date I use and odd time like 8:09pm for example. If the woman does not comment at all on that odd time then she flakes.

    Typically I get some response from an odd timed date even a "lol 8:09 eh" is an acknowledgement.

    Anyone else notice this?

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    Default Re: I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

    So what's the whole point that you're trying to get a crossed?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

    I have mixed feelings about asking a girl for a date via text. I think it comes down to how much comfort and repoire you have built up.

    One thing though, make a deffinate date. Thursday at 9:00, I'll pick you up from your place. Or if she still doesn't really want you to now where she lives, Thursday at 9:00 at "**********" someplace nutral. Don't say, I'll call to confirm, if she says anything to that affect, she is already giving herself a way out. At that time, just tell her, "I'm a busy guy, if that night doesn't work, we can make another day". It's called a Take Away, if she wants to see you she will say, "No Thursday at 9:00 is fine".

    If she wants to bail, she will say, OK maybe another time. From there play it, call her a week later, and repeat process. After 2 times she can't confirm. Tell her to call you when she has free time. Don't call, don't text. (Sorry about the spelling, I'm kinda tired)

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    Default Re: I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    So what's the whole point that you're trying to get a crossed?
    My point is its a way to tell if she's going to flake. It happens to all of us and sometimes its unavoidable no matter what you do. But sometimes when you see it coming and you do it first it makes her more attracted to you.

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    Default Re: I Now Know How to Tell if the 1st Date is Going to Flake

    Quote Originally Posted by The Bartender View Post
    This has not happened 10 times yet, only 4 times so far so I might be jumping the gun here.

    I keep my old text streams and I couldn't help but notice a pattern. When I set up a first date I use and odd time like 8:09pm for example. If the woman does not comment at all on that odd time then she flakes.

    Typically I get some response from an odd timed date even a "lol 8:09 eh" is an acknowledgement.

    Anyone else notice this?
    Yes that is a good trap you can set up to predict flakes. It makes sense cause when she wants to flake just for the heck of it the time you set won't make a difference to her, she will unconsciously ignore it so that it won't even make her feel bad about flaking. It's like denial.

    It's funny how women have been falling into the same patterns and using the same tricks for ages. The fucking oldest tricks in the book.


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