So recently, prior to my arrival in another state, I decide to hop on a dating site to rope an area tour guide. I successfully hook a few and roughly a day or so after I arrive one of them asks to meet. Im not intothe whole online dating but figured I wohanguse it to my advantage in a new area. I agree and we meet up. After a bit of small talk I come up with a plan to go bowling, my intent was to use the activity as a tool for some serious Kino and ice breaking. So we begin our game and I offer her a wager, who ever wins gets something from the other, after going back and forth about what it is the winner gets I decide on an erotic dance. Everthing went according to plan as I threw the game to make her feel like this wasn't a ploy just to get her to do something sexual to me, all while I flirted and warmed her up to true idea completely. Upon conclusion, I admit my loss and tell her that my own plan backfired on me and I was really looking forward to that dance from her. After leaving I teased her about cheating and told her I didn't feel comfortable doing it since we just met. After we went and had a few drinks and talked more, then out of nowhere she says she's been thinking about and looking forward to that dance since I brought it up and she doesn't want to waste any more time becauseI could be staling so I didn't have to do it. After a lil debate we decide to go back to my telly, this is where I dropped the ball in my opinion, instead of seducing her I show no interest in any sexual contact hoping she jumps to the occasion after professing her shyness and giving me signals I ignore them and tell her she had to sleep on the floor if she stays, guess she took that as a hint because she decided to leave shortly after. After many ffailed attempts to get her to stay I walk her out and she reminds me im not off the hook for that dance, she then leaves.
Should I have swooned her with the dance that possibly couldn't ended up in an f-close? Or should I have kept it the way I did, since then we've continued to talk, but it seems like she a lil stand offish and dissapointed at the outcome. We have yet to hang out again. what could Ihave done differently?