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    Default 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Ok first I want to thank all you guys for posting all the stories and motivational post to keep all of us going forward to our goals. Special thanks to Xaviar and Macdaddyjack for all you post as well, Couldn't have gotten this far without your guys post.

    Anyway so about 3 weeks ago after reading Alpha Male By john alexander and Macdaddyjack's Inner game post I started making goals for myself to change my Beta ways as a AFC. A little about myself is that I am 24, Just started college, was never great with girls accept for a few lays here and there but could never keep them hooked and so forth( same old afc story). In March I tore my ACL riding a motorcycle and was in bed rest for about a month till I could walk again. During this time I got pretty fat and reached 310( was always fat but always floated around 270-280). When I started healing the ACL injury I realized that I didn"t want to be like this anymore and started working out and eating right. Started working out and eating right on 6/30/2013 and haven"t stopped since. Now(10/2/2013 I am at 245 and still dropping. This gave me a little confidence to start talking to girls and such. Now after I read/listened to alpha male I realized I was a total beta male and started changing myself. I set goals to talk to as many girls as I could starting in school. I set a few goals to accomplish.

    1. Talk to at least 4 new girls a week and get their numbers.
    2. Go on a date with a girl at least once every two weeks.
    3. Study Game at least 1 hour a day and read the PUA Forums.
    4. Post What happens and ask for help when needed.
    (Let me know if I should add something)

    Well I have accomplished my goals and this is my first Field Report.

    The First girl was a girl I met on the first day of one of my classes. She was pretty cool and but never asked for her number till a couple of weeks ago. Then we started talking in class more and started to be friends( which is where I didn't want to be), Well one day after class we were walking to my car and she started talking that she went on a date with this guy recently and that he ended up being her bosses brother and she didn't know if she wanted to date him because of that(Total Friend zone sh!t). That's when I decided to do something about it. She was parked on a different parking long across from mine so when we got to the car I told her to hop in so she could finish the story(she followed me to the car without me telling her so don't know if that was a sign or anything). When we got by here car instead of just letting her out I parked next to her car and told her to keep going, I started changing the subject so and we talked for about 2 hours in my car. She ended up telling me she was a virgin and started telling me how hard that was and such. Well after about 2 hours her brother calls and cuts our conversation short and she tells me she has to go, I grab her number and go home. When I get home ( around 11PM now) she text me and we text for a few mins then she calls me for a bit. The next few days we text back and forth quite a bit. Then One night we were talking and we start talking and I don't really know how it came up but I think I asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said Yes. and After that we talk a little more and We get a little sexual and we end up having phone sex.(Now I'm Not sure if I should have done that but we never talk about it after that or what to have done to escalate that). Anyways The next day I asked her out on a date which she says yeah to and we plan to go out in a couple of days. Now the next few days I don't text that much because my phone for some reason stopped receiving text messages meanwhile I'm thinking I got left hanging lol, But on the day of the date she calls me and asks where to meet me. We end up going to a little food place close to the school because I just got off and she just go off work. When we are there I tell her about the text and she said she did respond and shows me she did(I didnt ask she showed me on her own.). Then I pull some beta crap and start talking about how much i like her and whatnot and at the end of the date I kind of ask her where we see both of us going. She says she really likes talking to me but I seem like a guy that hits the ground running and she wants to be just friends. I know I messed up and I text her a few times now and then and we are still friends and I have not acted really weird or anything just like before. Now If you guys see any way I can move this back towards more then friends please let me know because this girl i would actually date.

    Ok now tonight I just got home from a date with a second girl, This girl I have talked after What happened above and it was kind of weird because when I got this girls number I was walking out of class with the girl from the first date. I started talking making little jokes about her and she joked back so I asked for her number. Now with this girl I talked to quite a bit and tried to build more attraction because I didn't want the same thing happening as the above girl. I texted this girl for quite a bit and this Friday I went to go see Don jon and told her she should come with me and she did. This time though No talk about feelings or anything just joking around and then I took her to a friends house to smoke hookah with us, ended up a fun date. Then we started talking/ texting even more and she told me she liked me and such so I set up another date. Now then today we go out and I take her to a view point and such and escalating kino and such then I go in for the kiss and she kisses me back. Now after the kiss we talk a little and then we go back in the car since its getting cold but we go into the back seat instead of the front. We make out some more and I start escalating, then I start fooling around with her and she allows it, and it goes on till we get to the point where I want to go further but I ask her, as we are fooling around, she said yeah but then I think it gets a little awkward because my back seat is kind of small so I say lets go further in the viewpoint where we could keep going(It was lonely nobody there at like 1 am). As we walk to where the spot was she changes her mind and I totally act cool about it and say yeah that's fine and lets head back to the car(I'm guessing Buyers Remorse). She asks if I can take her home and I say sure no problem. As we go down we are talking and somehow she said that she really likes talking to me(second time a girl says this to me in the same week lol.) and we should just stay friends. Now I think I know why this one Happened but I would like your opinions on this. Anyways Drive her home she hugs me and she acted cool as I drove her home. Now I don't really care about this girl so its ok but I would like feed back so I can get better and this doesn't happen to me again.

    Again thanks ahead of time guys for your help and I hope to hear some great responses.

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    They both gave you the shots and you were asking for their opinion.


    I want to go further but I ask her, as we are fooling around, she said yeah but then I think it gets a little awkward because my back seat is kind of small so I say lets go further in the viewpoint where we could keep going(It was lonely nobody there at like 1 am)
    A second location is best in this one.

    Your goals are spot on.stop seeking the girls reaction on some level and take things ahead.Avoid having conversation during escalation it relieves the Tension somewhat.its as if 'you are coming back to it'


    Freeze girl one out and reengage her later.if you must see her everyday just say hi but don't have a conversation till the period is off.then you may move in.Peace

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    They both gave you the shots and you were asking for their opinion.


    I want to go further but I ask her, as we are fooling around, she said yeah but then I think it gets a little awkward because my back seat is kind of small so I say lets go further in the viewpoint where we could keep going(It was lonely nobody there at like 1 am)
    A second location is best in this one.

    Your goals are spot on.stop seeking the girls reaction on some level and take things ahead.Avoid having conversation during escalation it relieves the Tension somewhat.its as if 'you are coming back to it'


    Freeze girl one out and reengage her later.if you must see her everyday just say hi but don't have a conversation till the period is off.then you may move in.Peace
    Sick bro, thanks man. One questions which one do I Freeze Out? the first date or second?

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    5. Study (your college classes)
    6. Go to the gym.

    These might seem obvious but many aspiring PUAs in college overlook this. They caught up too much in the game and all these other (missing) aspects in their life drag them down.

    How do I know this? Because the exact same thing happened to me on my freshman year.

    You need to be in your top form mentally and physically to be "the man".
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    5. Study (your college classes)
    6. Go to the gym.

    These might seem obvious but many aspiring PUAs in college overlook this. They caught up too much in the game and all these other (missing) aspects in their life drag them down.

    How do I know this? Because the exact same thing happened to me on my freshman year.

    You need to be in your top form mentally and physically to be "the man".

    Yeah, Im still doing well in school. have straight A's. I'm pretty good at managing my time. I go out after homework, I had to quit video games though to go out and talk to girls and such lol. And Yeah I am hitting the gym hard.

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Girl one 4 days max!

    The other one anytime you see her engage her as normal make sure your content is emotionally charged.

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Girl one 4 days max!

    The other one anytime you see her engage her as normal make sure your content is emotionally charged.
    Alright will text her today, i think its been 4 days. Also What do you mean by emotionally charged?

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Build attraction more...
    Invite her out if you are getting indicators of interest.
    Have a second location
    Close her.

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    Default Re: 1st and 2nd Field Report Any Advice Appreciated

    Both of these girls are rejecting you. I know that may sound harsh, but don't worry about it, most girls will flake and reject. That's just part of dating women.

    My advice is to just stop talking to both girls completely. Both of them are wasting your time that you could be having an actual intimate relationship with other women.

    Simply said, pursue other women. By stopping talking to the two girls you talked about you are showing you are alpha, that you always have other girls that you are getting with and you don't care about individual girls.

    One of the most powerful attitudes you can have is the "I don't care" attitude. RSDTyler speaks about this in one of his vids. When women see you don't need their validation, some will start to seek your validation. Women are biologically programmed to get with guys that have an abundance of women.

    I say a man with options is the most lethal PUA.

    Try to adopt that Mindset.


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