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Thread: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

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    Default My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    So me and one of my good buddies are hanging out at his house smoking hookah and I am on the forums reading and I decide that I might be ready for a bar pick up. Now we are dressed like sh!t. I mean we are in flip flops and jeans and a crappy shirt. Clean but not a shirt you would take out. Not only that but we were soooo tired I don't even have my hair done. I mean I look horrible to go out but we still decide to go out. We go to a local bar and Instantly I get aa. I mean I was over thinking it. Its like I couldn't remember anything I had learned the past few weeks. So then me and my buddy decide that our goal is to get a N close tonight. As I am over thinking it He looks at me and tells me fuck it man we just need to have fun and have no expectation. It hit me like a truck. I looked around and saw that all the guys were not smiling and just standing around. Now this bar is has a live band so I start walking to the middle where the band is playing instead of the corners where all the guys were standing. Me and my buddy start having fun just hanging out and I start looking around. I see an Asian girl on her phone texting and remember somewhere either in the forums or alpha male that when a girl is on her phone she is super bored. Now I ignore this because I still have a little AA and tell me and my buddy for us to get another drink. While we are at a bar we start talking and I see this asian girl that was texting behind my friend and I Instantly just ask her an Opinion opener from a situation thats actually going on in our friends life. It goes off amazingly. When this happens her friends comes by and starts to listen to us and she joins in. Now this is the first time I do this so I am trying to remember everything ive read. I start negging them and kinoing which goes amazing and they actually start getting much closer which I then take the liberty to Kino more and make fun of them for getting into our personal space. My friend is awesome and lets me take the lead and I see that this super cute asian girl actually switches places with her firend to get closer to me and I start negging her. Anyways It goes amazingly well that we forget the time and the bar actually kicks us out. When this happens this guy starts talking to them and we turn away to show higher value and it works wonders, we close the tab and we go outside and while the girls are surrounded by guys trying to pick them up. and we walk passed them and we are standing like 20 feet away from them and me and my friend start talking to each other. Then one of the girls steps away away from all the guys and comes to us. When this happens i take advantage, and N close the first girl. Then I say we have to go before while the cops are giving this guy a Sobriety test and I say by. This is when the second girl ASK ME for my number and gives me a hug. Then they tell us to call them when we go out next time and me and my friend take off. And there you go guys, this was my first EVER bar pull. I learned so much from this and Had an awesome wing man. Please let me know if i could have done anything different and I want to thank the community again for all your guys help. I will post tomorrow when I get home because I have a date with a girl I met in college, I wrote about her In my first post about my first and second field report. If you do go check that out its the first one that I am taking out again. See you guys tomorrow. And thanks again all.

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    Default Re: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    Nice one. And an important reminder to just have fun and not have too many expectations. Sometimes I drive myself crazy over-thinking everything.

    (But dude - paragraphs!)

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    Default Re: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    Quote Originally Posted by EliTurk89 View Post
    So me and one of my good buddies are hanging out at his house smoking hookah and I am on the forums reading and I decide that I might be ready for a bar pick up. Now we are dressed like sh!t. I mean we are in flip flops and jeans and a crappy shirt. Clean but not a shirt you would take out. Not only that but we were soooo tired I don't even have my hair done. I mean I look horrible to go out but we still decide to go out.

    We go to a local bar and Instantly I get aa. I mean I was over thinking it. Its like I couldn't remember anything I had learned the past few weeks. So then me and my buddy decide that our goal is to get a N close tonight. As I am over thinking it He looks at me and tells me fark it man we just need to have fun and have no expectation.

    It hit me like a truck. I looked around and saw that all the guys were not smiling and just standing around. Now this bar is has a live band so I start walking to the middle where the band is playing instead of the corners where all the guys were standing.

    Me and my buddy start having fun just hanging out and I start looking around. I see an Asian girl on her phone texting and remember somewhere either in the forums or alpha male that when a girl is on her phone she is super bored. Now I ignore this because I still have a little AA and tell me and my buddy for us to get another drink.

    While we are at a bar we start talking and I see this asian girl that was texting behind my friend and I Instantly just ask her an Opinion opener from a situation thats actually going on in our friends life. It goes off amazingly. When this happens her friends comes by and starts to listen to us and she joins in. Now this is the first time I do this so I am trying to remember everything ive read.

    I start negging them and kinoing which goes amazing and they actually start getting much closer which I then take the liberty to Kino more and make fun of them for getting into our personal space. My friend is awesome and lets me take the lead and I see that this super cute asian girl actually switches places with her firend to get closer to me and I start negging her.

    Anyways It goes amazingly well that we forget the time and the bar actually kicks us out. When this happens this guy starts talking to them and we turn away to show higher value and it works wonders, we close the tab and we go outside and while the girls are surrounded by guys trying to pick them up. and we walk passed them and we are standing like 20 feet away from them and me and my friend start talking to each other.

    Then one of the girls steps away away from all the guys and comes to us. When this happens i take advantage, and N close the first girl. Then I say we have to go before while the cops are giving this guy a Sobriety test and I say by. This is when the second girl ASK ME for my number and gives me a hug. Then they tell us to call them when we go out next time and me and my friend take off. And there you go guys, this was my first EVER bar pull.

    I learned so much from this and Had an awesome wing man. Please let me know if i could have done anything different and I want to thank the community again for all your guys help.

    I will post tomorrow when I get home because I have a date with a girl I met in college, I wrote about her In my first post about my first and second field report. If you do go check that out its the first one that I am taking out again. See you guys tomorrow. And thanks again all.
    You did great!

    As mentioned by Afflixion paragraphs are your friends. I broke up your post into some paragraphs to make it MUCH easier to read. Most guys won't read a big post without some breaks in it it. It's much easier on the eyes.

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    Default Re: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    You did great!

    As mentioned by Afflixion paragraphs are your friends. I broke up your post into some paragraphs to make it MUCH easier to read. Most guys won't read a big post without some breaks in it it. It's much easier on the eyes.
    Haha I was a little drunk writing it. Thanks Ill fix it right now. Wait it looks like I can't Edit it.

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    Default Re: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    Well that's what you call beginner's luck. I love that stuff helped me out tons and now I got skills son don't need no luck on my side. However this is a perfect example why NOT to have aa. Had you not experimented and field tested you would feel like dirt. However AA still impacts my inner game till I pass a couple sh!t tests or get some compliance to liven up a bit. There is a certain kind of Inner Game I am going for called "Indifference" you touched on this slightly saying you didn't care. That's what I call quality over quantity. Remember your Outer Game for the Ice Cold Stunners you want to be dressed to kill mate. But other than that I wish every night was like this but some nights are a bust so remember don't get obsessed with success or you'll come off too cocky. I say this because SOOO many chicks tried to hookup with me when I was getting good that I ignored them because I was too dang cocky. Again me having those inner game issues but I am trying to learn to be more humble and receptive when women are making passes to leave with me and hang out with me. Just takes time.
    "It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo

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    Default Re: My First Bar Pick Up Awesome

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjacK View Post
    Well that's what you call beginner's luck. I love that stuff helped me out tons and now I got skills son don't need no luck on my side. However this is a perfect example why NOT to have aa. Had you not experimented and field tested you would feel like dirt. However AA still impacts my inner game till I pass a couple sh!t tests or get some compliance to liven up a bit. There is a certain kind of Inner Game I am going for called "Indifference" you touched on this slightly saying you didn't care. That's what I call quality over quantity. Remember your Outer Game for the Ice Cold Stunners you want to be dressed to kill mate. But other than that I wish every night was like this but some nights are a bust so remember don't get obsessed with success or you'll come off too cocky. I say this because SOOO many chicks tried to hookup with me when I was getting good that I ignored them because I was too dang cocky. Again me having those inner game issues but I am trying to learn to be more humble and receptive when women are making passes to leave with me and hang out with me. Just takes time.
    Yeah, I figured that, I will go out tonight again to try and hone in my Inner game an this time I'm going well dressed Haha. I still need a lot of work so going to practice. Thanks for the tip on not Ignoring the HB's. Also Thanks on the tip about success. I think I'm going to try to just have fun as much as I can while sprinkle some game in there. Wish me luck guys, I will post what happens and I hope everyone Happy Gaming.


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