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    Default First day sargin!

    My First day sargin and i was at the train station (doing daygame because i am too young to do night game), I saw this HB 7.5 and didn't have the balls to approach her, but when i saw her walking to the bus stop i decided to man up and talk to her. at the time i still had alot of aa and messed up on two words, but the good thing was that she was in grade 9 (one grade younger than me) so she never had a guy approach her like that before ( guess AA happens to everyone). I figuered that i produced some attraction because she asked me some questions to, We talked a little bit and the conversation ranged from where we live to french to schools, and then her bus came so i decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up one day and hang out, she said maybe and then when i asked her if there were any way to contact her she shrugged and then i hinted phone number. at that point she was just said taht the phone she was holding wasn't hers and that it was her mom's (i dotn quite believe it so ya) and then i persisted and asked if there was any other way of contacting her. she just shrugged so i decided to end the conversation and say goodbye, but i didnt know what god into me but i didnt reach in for the hug. I started writing this in my phone the second we parted so i could have it down fresh. i know some places that i could improce but feel free to give out comments or opinions weather its negative or positive because i would appercieate it all.
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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Hm, it's hard to say honestly. Once you start approaching more you'll realize that some girls are just flakes. lol
    I think you messed up on the contact part. One thing that works for me when getting the Number Close is to say something like, I'd love to take you out sometime, and then just pull out your phone. Put the pressure on her more than you. You could also just go direct what's your phone number? If you ask permission for her phone number it lowers your value in comparison to hers. Try implementing that and let me know how it goes! Keep positing man!

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Its good your are making effort to talk to women, and even went ahead to generate a bit off attraction.avoid sticking in the interaction too long.

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    to make sure you build attraction, make sure your interactions are not just interviews. Asking questions is good but story telling lets you put in a lot of dhv's to really build attraction. Also keep things brief, and show a willingness to leave. Good job getting over the Approach Anxiety. Keep at it man.

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Well guys this was a long time ago when i posted this and ive improved alot more im my eyes and i think the approaches that i've done in school is getting alot better. But i honestly haven't been sarging specifically cus im busy. But on story telling i got lots of stories but how do i make it so its actually funny at the same time.
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    Don't TRY to be funny. Me, I'm not naturally a story telling funny guy. I'm bad at telling funny stories. What I opt to do is to just keep light sarcastic remarks and keep the conversation real light, and joke around. But, my goal isn't to make the girl have beer come out of her nose. I'm sure there is material out there on how to tell better, funny stories. However, I find it much easier to just keep a light, easygoing mannerism about me. Keep posting man!

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Since your in the younger age category, realize some things on here wont work properly on girls that age. Girls that are not nearly full developed emotionally and mentally, so to properly game them can be different then going for one 20 years old. Just keep that in mind

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Ya that's the hard part for me, trying to adjust to my age.
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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    Hey BigT, nice report, I got to give props to you for approaching at your age lol. I did not hear about "Game" until freshman year at college so it's good you are starting early.

    Quote Originally Posted by espmma View Post
    One thing that works for me when getting the Number Close is to say something like, I'd love to take you out sometime, and then just pull out your phone.
    I agree with espmma here, this shows more confidence and leading the interaction. If she legit was borrowing her mom's phone and insists she can't give out her number, try her house phone or better yet, facebook or other social media if you have a smartphone ready and confirm her profile for a friend request right there on the spot. If anything go for email but only as last resort.

    Once you start getting better at the interaction with building attraction, comfort, etc.. she will want to help you solidify a Day 2 and look for ways to keep in touch, but you shouldn't rely on her for this. Until then, just keep practicing and go for solid approaches, interactions, and closes. Good luck!

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    Default Re: First day sargin!

    okay guys thanks for all the tips haha its nerve racking to do it at my age too haha especially with LGs everywhere. Right now instead of just straight up approaching im just gaming hbs thats happened to be in a situation such as a group project. but i might just do a second sarging attempt once this horrific Calgary winter clears.
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