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    yomerol is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Dating a girl, not sure if she is into me

    A brief description of what I have been to with a girl I met through a friend in common:

    I met this girl 4 years ago at my old job and we were just good co-workers. She left her job and after that I didn't see her until 3 months ago because a friend that both of us have in common invited me to get some drinks with them to which I accepted.
    We had a nice time just as friends and that was all. Next day she phoned me to say that was nice seeing each other and to keep in touch.
    I have gone out with her 4 times in the night but neither of those nights I have been able to kiss her. It is just that I haven't seen if she is interested or not as I have tried to hold his hand and do some escalation but it hasn't worked at all.

    After those 4 dates(1 month ago) I decided to stop looking at her and move forward and then I got her call last week asking why she hasn't heard anything of me. I told her I was out of country(which was true) and that's why I didn't text or call her(not!!!!! )
    So anyway, she told me she was calling to hang out to what I responded what had her planned and all I got was:" Lets think about something and schedule in the week" , to which I agreed.
    Having received no calls or texts from her in the next days -silly of me thinking she would plan something - I called her on Friday to see what was her up to for that night or weekend and told me she was meeting with our friend we have in common and invited me with them to have something to drink. With some hesitation I accepted but told her that I wasn't sure to come as I had already plans.
    So she told she would call me later to tell where would we meet with our friend and with that in mind I called her later to cancel but to do some rain-check on Saturday or Sunday afternoon.She responded that she would be available only at night but again I already had plans for the night. For the last time I asked her how Sunday afternoon sounded for her and she told me she wasn't sure at what time she would finish to do some things and just told me :"Text me on Saturday's afternoon to see what happens". I didn't text her as I was going to be busy on Sunday besides I was thinking she would flake.

    At this point I don't know what to do with this girl, I mean I stopped looking at her and then she came back but not sure if she is looking a friend or if she has some interest on me.
    Should I ask her out one last time or wait for her to contact me as it was she who called me. Not sure if I am approaching to friend-zone or there is a chance with her.
    If she agrees, how should I work things with her?

    Any advice on how to proceed???

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    yomerol is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Dating a girl, not sure if she is into me

    Anyone out there? I'm pretty sure someone have been in the same situation.

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    Default Re: Dating a girl, not sure if she is into me

    First off, this is probably in the wrong section. Maybe it should belong in the ask an expert section, you would probably get an answer quicker.

    So, are you really into her? It seems that you have oneitus with this girl? Maybe freeze her out. It seems that during the Freeze Out, she initiated the contact with you. During the freeze out, go out sarging, or other dates with other people. It would get your mind off her at the moment. When she calls and wants to plan, don't ask what her plans are. Just say that you will plan to be at so-in-so place at so-in-so time. If she says she's busy or only available at another time, then just blow her off.

    She seems that she wants you to chase her. Make her chase you.

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    yomerol is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Dating a girl, not sure if she is into me

    Can any moderator move the thread to the right sub-forum?
    Thank you saguviper for the advice, I will take it on count.


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