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  1. #1
    smoothcriminal Guest

    Question Don't know what to do...

    Last week, I went to a Book shop and plan to buy a good book to read. A pretty lady was reading a book that interests me(or maybe it was just the beautiful lady). I tried to look for other copies of the book but there were none. The only copy left was the one with the lady.At the back of my mind, I wanted to know her name and her number.But I was stuck. I don't know what to do in such situation? Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal such situation and what pick up lines are best?

  2. #2
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    I assume this is done during day time so there's no point in using a canned speech and I personally love being natural rather than the mystery style after I've learned about it. The reason is because in every situation, the outcome and the reaction from the girl is different so it is difficult to use a canned speech and expect the same results.

    What you want to do is approach her from the side so that you end up standing next to each other. You do a double take on the book and you say "Hey, can I have my book back please?". Be sure to use a light tone as if signaling that you're only joking with her.

    2 possible outcomes:

    a) That's not your book, I got it from the shelf.

    b) Oh, sorry here you go.

    Let's talk about outcome A

    So she negs you here a little. She's definitely not the submissive type of girl and you can then use this to your advantage by saying "Yeah it is, I had my eyes on it for a while and it's been waiting for me."

    Outcome B

    She seems to be afraid of what just happened but not to worry, you can say "oh, haha I'm just kidding. I'm interested in that book as well. You can have the book back but under the condition you tell me why you like this book."

    Both outcome A and B are basically openers. It disables the Bitch Shield and lets you engage in a light fun conversation with her.

    In outcome A it is likely that she will try to say something back in a joking way as if you guys are having a little puppy fight. It eases up the situation and gets her interested in you. However, you don't want to stay in outcome A state forever you have to break out of this shortly and change the topic to carry on the convo or it will die.

    In outcome B, I've lead you up to the point where you are at the qualification stage. She has to prove herself to you that she's worthy of that book. It's also a playful way to tease her a little. Again, you must change the topic soon to find out more information about her or you will be stuck with conversations just revolving around the book which is no good.

    hope this helps.

  3. #3
    royalflash Guest

    Wink Re: Don't know what to do...

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe View Post
    I assume this is done during day time so there's no point in using a canned speech and I personally love being natural rather than the mystery style after I've learned about it. The reason is because in every situation, the outcome and the reaction from the girl is different so it is difficult to use a canned speech and expect the same results.

    What you want to do is approach her from the side so that you end up standing next to each other. You do a double take on the book and you say "Hey, can I have my book back please?". Be sure to use a light tone as if signaling that you're only joking with her.

    2 possible outcomes:

    a) That's not your book, I got it from the shelf.

    b) Oh, sorry here you go.

    Let's talk about outcome A

    So she negs you here a little. She's definitely not the submissive type of girl and you can then use this to your advantage by saying "Yeah it is, I had my eyes on it for a while and it's been waiting for me."

    Outcome B

    She seems to be afraid of what just happened but not to worry, you can say "oh, haha I'm just kidding. I'm interested in that book as well. You can have the book back but under the condition you tell me why you like this book."

    Both outcome A and B are basically openers. It disables the Bitch Shield and lets you engage in a light fun conversation with her.

    In outcome A it is likely that she will try to say something back in a joking way as if you guys are having a little puppy fight. It eases up the situation and gets her interested in you. However, you don't want to stay in outcome A state forever you have to break out of this shortly and change the topic to carry on the convo or it will die.

    In outcome B, I've lead you up to the point where you are at the qualification stage. She has to prove herself to you that she's worthy of that book. It's also a playful way to tease her a little. Again, you must change the topic soon to find out more information about her or you will be stuck with conversations just revolving around the book which is no good.

    hope this helps.
    Great advice from mystery_wannabe. Either of the openers will lead you to an opportunity to get to know the girl. Just be confident and creative in your conversation with her. Also, be careful not to just make the conversation revolve around the book topic

  4. #4
    HotRod Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    You can also use some opening pick up lines such as "Hey, u like the book? Me also." That way, she would think that you have the same taste of books. From there you discuss a little bit about it and move on to more serious matter-asking her number,can I buy you a coffee stuff..

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    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    Quote Originally Posted by HotRod View Post
    You can also use some opening pick up lines such as "Hey, u like the book? Me also." That way, she would think that you have the same taste of books. From there you discuss a little bit about it and move on to more serious matter-asking her number,can I buy you a coffee stuff..

    I believe your opening line would work well too. However, I would refrain from offering her a drink before she's even earned it. It will make you appear very submissive.

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    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    Quote Originally Posted by HotRod View Post
    You can also use some opening pick up lines such as "Hey, u like the book? Me also." That way, she would think that you have the same taste of books. From there you discuss a little bit about it and move on to more serious matter-asking her number,can I buy you a coffee stuff..
    Just to Disarm her a little more, I think I would invert that:

    "Hey you like that book? Worst book I ever read" (Make a comical sour face).

  7. #7
    slasherguy Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    All the responses here are good insights. There are a lot of ways on how to handle the situation. It depends upon you what fits you right and whether you can pull it off. Remember, not all girls are the same. Some would submit to your pick up lines and some will not. Just be cautious in using such.

  8. #8
    TopGuy Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    There's a lot of techniques out there on how to get successful in using a pick up line. What are the pick up lines that you used that were successful before? Try to use it in your present escapades and see which pick up lines work and don't work.

  9. #9
    bloodDiamond Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    Initiate a good conversation. Bring out an idea that you think it can make her interested. This way, you can develop rapport and things will follow after.

  10. #10
    smoothcriminal Guest

    Default Re: Don't know what to do...

    In order for you to have a good rapport with her, plan carefully in your first few interactions with her. We always know that in order to have a good relationship you must gain the person's trust. Maker her feel comfortable with you.



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