Headed downtown for dranksgiving...or whatever they called the day before thanksgiving drinking thing.
FR #11 Nightgame
Jeezuz christ this was one cold ass night. And my nutz took a bit to warm up.
Started off by entering a low key bar. After about 5 minutes of stagnation decided to approach a 2 set, a HB8 and a 6.
Me: Hey, how's your night going?
Them: Good, how about your's?
Me: Freaking awesome!! You guys look interesting, I'm going to talk to you.
Them: (laughing) haha, okay.
Me: Are you guys celebrating something?
Me: Hell yeah. I just wanted an excuse to drink. I can't wait to eat tomorrow, my god.
*somebody leaves their seat more near to the bar*
Them: We should go grab those seats
MeWHY DID I DO THIS?!) Haha, alright. Well, I gotta get back to my friends anyways, have a good night.
There was only one more set in the room. A HB8 and a UG. My wing and I approached. I can't quite remember the specifics of this conversation. But, we were joking around a lot, the HB8 was pretty sexual, and straight forward. (yep, turned me on) We fluffed the shit for awhile, I tried to incorporate a bit of kino, touched the HB twice lightly on the arm, when making a point, etc. But, we stayed in the set way too long, and I didn't escalate more when I should have. Tried to Number Close at the end, she then showed me her wedding ring. (sigh) I feel like I could've got the F close from this girl(she was only in town for the a day). But at the same time my morality would've been hurt. Ah well.
After this, plenty of blowouts. Tried to wing my boy, as he was talking to her friend.
Me: Whatsup, are you having a good night?
Her: (quietly) yeah.
Me: Psh, you need more energy than that. You've gotta be like F- yeah!!!
Her: no response (GTFO look)
Me: You don't like talking do you?
Her: (shakes her head)
ended up leaving the set. she was a UG anyways, and god was she a b1tch.
A girl drunk af bumps into me at the bat, she's a HB8
Me: Hey now, I know I'm cute, but this is too fast for me.
Her: (Drunken laugh)
Wing: Man, this girl is mean.(jokingly) She told me to shut the f up earlier.
Me: Whatttt? Idk if we can be friends now
Her. (drunken laugh) I'm so drunk
Me: Psh, I bet you can do better than that.
She ends up walking away in a drunken stupor. I end up re approaching about 15 minutes later.
Me: *lightly bump into her* huh, didn't see you there.
Me: Geez, I was trying to get away. Are you following me or something?
Her: Ahh, I'm too drunk for this! (walks away drunkenly giggling)
We decided to leave the bar and hit another venue. By this time I have a vodka and redbull and jeezuz, I am super hyper. Hit a bar, that's got a big dance floor game kind of vibe. I abhor dance floor game. I find a HB8 and and a HB7 dancing together, so I go up and start dancing in the same area. The HB7 leaves, so I decided to back it up into the HB8, and I try to back her up and dance with her.
Her: I don't dance like that.
Me: Yeah right, you definitely do.
Her: (laugh) I have a boyfriend
Me: Me too.
Her: (profusely laughing)
Me: Maybe they can get together, we'll have a double date.
Her: (Laughing pretty hard) I've got to go!
In hindsight I should have approached earlier. I just hate dance floor game. Something I need to work on forsure. As I was leaving I was just so hyper. Ended up seeing the same girl as I was leaving.
Me: Whooo! (other generic, drunken, hyper noises)
Hb 7 and 8: laughing at me
Me: Sorry, I'll turn it down. I know I'm like up here, I need to be down here. I just kept walking. I heard her saying, that's the guy and pointing at me as I was leaving. Huh, guess I made some sort of impression. Whatever it was.
Overall, it was a weird night. Downtown wasn't really the best venue for that particular night. Looking forward to when all these special nights are over with.
Goals: Incorporate a new PUA technique each time I go out.
Improve my dance floor game. I'll have to look up some material for this.
I need to escalate sooner and stay in interactions for less time.