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Thread: Not sure what you would call this...

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    Post Not sure what you would call this...

    Afternoon. Evening or Morning to those of you not from my fair Isle.


    I was on a night out a few weeks ago with a few guys and this girl I have a thing for (HB 8). I have noticed slight IOIs round this bird in the past, but wasn't sure if I should act on them. Anyway, we were at a bar. A singer was performing. I asked the HB to accompany me outside for a cigarette. She doesn't smoke yet obliged my invitation regardless. We talked for a while then she inadvertently let out that she thought I was cute. Some of you may have acted there and then, I didn't feel it right.

    We went upstairs to a club area. I, the HB and the other guys we were with had a booth which we occupied most of the night. She had got cold and ended up cuddling up against me most of the time we were there. Again some would make a move. Too public for my liking so I left it.

    As she was driving she dropped me home. We sat in her car for a while talking. I bought up the fact she thought I was cute. I then told her; you like me, I can tell. K-close followed suit. We are now in the early stages of dating.


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    I reflected on my actions. I came to the realisation that I had inadvertently told girls they were attracted to me before. It has worked well, especially with older women I might add.
    Obviously doing this could go either way. You can just as easily be called an obnoxious d*ck and turned down there an then.

    I'm going to start using this a bit more in the field if things with this bird don't progress further. I am also intrigued to see if anyone else has used techniques like this before too.


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    Default Re: Not sure what you would call this...

    That all depends upon your framing and many other things but if stated with confidence, even if she is unsure, that will likely make the decision for her. However if you sound or any of your nonverbals show you aren't sure it is game over.

    It is a very direct way of setting attraction and defining that you realize potential in the situation being more than just friends. It establishes that you realize and accept it to be more than a friendly interaction.

    It really does serve many utilities; it shows confidence, establishes what is expected of the relationship, builds escalation and makes you different from the other guys that don't have the balls to say it.
    Last edited by hometownextra; 11-10-2013 at 11:32 AM. Reason: Missed point
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    Default Re: Not sure what you would call this...

    Quote Originally Posted by Banners90 View Post
    Afternoon. Evening or Morning to those of you not from my fair Isle.


    I was on a night out a few weeks ago with a few guys and this girl I have a thing for (HB 8). I have noticed slight IOIs round this bird in the past, but wasn't sure if I should act on them. Anyway, we were at a bar. A singer was performing. I asked the HB to accompany me outside for a cigarette. She doesn't smoke yet obliged my invitation regardless. We talked for a while then she inadvertently let out that she thought I was cute. Some of you may have acted there and then, I didn't feel it right.

    We went upstairs to a club area. I, the HB and the other guys we were with had a booth which we occupied most of the night. She had got cold and ended up cuddling up against me most of the time we were there. Again some would make a move. Too public for my liking so I left it.

    As she was driving she dropped me home. We sat in her car for a while talking. I bought up the fact she thought I was cute. I then told her; you like me, I can tell. K-close followed suit. We are now in the early stages of dating.


    *****


    I reflected on my actions. I came to the realisation that I had inadvertently told girls they were attracted to me before. It has worked well, especially with older women I might add.
    Obviously doing this could go either way. You can just as easily be called an obnoxious d*ck and turned down there an then.

    I'm going to start using this a bit more in the field if things with this bird don't progress further. I am also intrigued to see if anyone else has used techniques like this before too.


    Peace
    I agree with Hometownextra. It's ballsy. Very direct. If you have a certain amount of attraction with her, I can see it working. Personally, I would just go for the kiss and skip the line. I'd love to hear how it works out when you play with the line more.


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