Hey guys I'm new to the forums! Been reading lots of posts and threads around here since being single again (2.5 months now) and trying to brush up on my game again. It's been 4 years! I'm tall and girls find me quite attractive, so I have that to my advantage.. So anyways, I've been doing the Plenty of Fish thing, trying out lots of different online game strategies and building my own. I've gotten 6 numbers in 2 months and met up with 2 of them, an HB 8 and an HB 9. So I've been pretty lucky! My text game is super tight I think (I did my homework lol!), and that's probably why I was able to set up dates after meeting girls online.
I was supposed to have a date last night with the HB 9 I mentioned above but she flaked saying she was having her period. Fair enough. I had been pretty psyched about the date and the thought of heading downtown, and still wanted to go out. None of my buddies wanted to go out, or already had plans, so I started thinking about going out solo.. I had read a few posts saying this was a good way to practice sarging, so I thought screw it, put on a nice shirt and jacket, did my hair and headed out.
I get to the bar early, around 8:30. I decided to hit up a popular bar/club that I know is always jam packed with women. A big bar with lots of seating (hard to sit at a table by yourself, I don't recommend it) and a nice big dance floor. I picked a good night because there was a live band. The dance floor is my kingdom, I like to dance and it has to be by far the best and easiest place to start conversation with a chick. I take a seat at the bar and order a beer, I talk to the bartender and ask him about the band, and tell him my friends will be a while.. I don't want to look like I'm alone so I make friends with him first. He offers me a shot on the house, and I oblige. The place is literally full of hotties, and at this point I'm starting to think I should probably think about trying to make some friends, some people I can hangout with so I don't look like a total loser... I notice at the other end of the bar a dude that seems to also be alone. I start walking over and as soon as I get near the guy he says "your friends can't get in either?!" and we start chatting.. He tells me his girlfriend and her friends are waiting in line to get in, and I tell him that my friends who are from out of town can't find the place.. We have a beer and chat and I feel a bit better because at least now I don't look alone. At this point I'm getting some eye contact from a couple cute girls at an adjacent table, and I make sure when they see me looking, to look away and not make it obvious I'm checking them out. The blonde is really hot, and I'm totally digging her tight dress and great legs. I go outside for a smoke and when I come back, my new buddy is gone. Awesome. Now I'm alone again and that's not good for my cause. At this point the band has started playing and I can't help but notice the ridiculous amount of hot girls on the dance floor. My drink is empty so I hit the bar for another one and make my way to the dance floor. This is where things get interesting. When I get on the dance floor the first thing I look for is a set including ONE guy - who looks approachable, not a douchebag - that is dancing with a group of attractive girls. I notice a group just like this and make an approach. I chat with the guy and introduce myself and he introduces me to his friends. We dance and laugh and I neg a couple of the girls a bit and can't help but notice the tall, HB 8, half asian looking girl is dancing awfully close, so I put my arm around her and dance with her. I ask her her name and neg her a bit, I tell her to stop stepping on my feet and ask her friends "is she always like this?!".. Before I know it, and after chatting a bit and getting all kinds of ioi's etc from her, she asks if I want to go sit and have a drink. Do I ever! We sit and chat for about 5 minutes, it's going alright but had I known I only had 5 minutes I may have tried a little Kino etc.. But the conversation basically only gets as far as telling each other what we do and where we're from etc before one of her friends comes running over saying her other friend is throwing up in the bathroom, so off she goes. Darn. I know this chick is totally into me and I'm pretty sure I can close, so not feeling too badly about it I head back to the d floor, rather than sit around on my ass like a chump. I spot two hotties (easily HB 8's - the blonde maybe an 8.5) a blonde and a brunette, dancing with each other. I dance NEAR them but not WITH them, and pretend not to notice them. One of the two girls starts dancing with me and I ask her her name, before she can answer her friend is dancing with us. So now I'm grinding with two hot half drunk chicks. Cool. I ask the other one her name and tell them I'll probably just get them mixed up anyways, and I neg them both. I play it Cocky-Funny, like I usually do. Now, this happened very fast and all I remember really is all of a sudden the brunette was gone, she just kind of trailed off, and so now I'm dancing with the hot blonde and she won't stop making eye contact and smiling at me.. At this point I realize something - the girls from the table where I was sitting at the beginning of the night, this was them! I remember thinking the blonde was super cute, and now look at me! I'm feeling pretty good at this point of the night, trust me! So anyways, after about 5 minutes of dancing and staring into this girls eyes we're making out. We make out on the dance floor for a good 4 songs, but I don't want to end up being that guy.. So I ask her if she wants to get a drink, and I get a big nod and a smile. I put my hand out and she takes it, and I find us a table. We sit there and chat and she tells me about her life and her dog and shows me pics on her phone. She's basically in my lap and things are looking very solid, insane kino, seems like a sure thing. We spend the entire night together.. Talking, kissing, holding each other. I tease her and make fun of her a lot but also show her I give a shit and that I'm not a douchebag. I ask her what she's doing after and she says she has to go home because she has loads of school work the next morning. We exchange numbers and agree that we will hangout in the near future. I go home with a big smile on my face and an epic story to tell. I didn't expect any of it to happen on my first solo sarge...
So that's it. My first night out by myself.. I'm wondering if there's anything you guys want to comment on, or that you can give me any advice with. I don't know if there's anything I could have done to get her to come back to my apartment. She seemed very comfortable with me and extremely interested. Maybe she just didn't want to come off looking like a slut? Should I text her today or wait a while? I definitely want to see her again. I would love to read similar stories about sarging solo, or techniques on the dance floor!
Also I want to add that my main issue is that I always feel like I have to have a beer or two in me before I can be really social, I definitely get the nerves happening at the thought of approaching people when I'm sober.. After a couple drinks though I'm good to go. I've read a lot that a lot of guys won't drink at all while sarging. Any comments on this topic would be great too.
Thanks guys and happy sarging!!!