I can't figure out exactly what the hell just happened last night and it's taking my head for a bit of a spin. I even had weird dreams about it all night long.
So yesterday I started talking to a girl on Plenty of Fish (HB8).. Sent 3 or 4 messages back and forth and then I got to the point and said I'd like to hangout and gave her my number. She then gave me hers.
We started texting and later in the day I get a message from her "What are ya doing tonight?" I told her I'm thinking of staying in and having a movie night and maybe a glass of wine, and she said she's doing the same.. After a little careful caressing if you will, I mentioned that I'd be up for hanging out tonight with her and watching movies. She said we could watch one at her place.. At this point I'm thinking this is gonna be one awesome booty call. Not exactly...
This girl is 22 and lives with her parents. I had to wait to go over until her parents went to bed.. I was 100% sure in my mind that she would be a bubbly and immature young girl looking for a good time with a cool guy, and I would be that guy and we would bang all night til the sun comes up...
I get to her house and she comes out to meet me. Instantly I'm taken aback by the way she makes long and deep eye contact while talking to me. Slightly hungover and tired, I wasn't in a Mindset for any kind of real date or conversation. We go inside and her mom greets me and shakes my hand. So much for your parents being in bed. Luckily her dad wasn't there, lol. The house was huge and beautiful, And I instantly felt weird being there and didn't know what to make of it, normally it wouldn't phase me.
I'll skip going into strict detail about the entire night. Basically she was extremely mature for a 22 year old. I swear this girl was intellectually a 35 year old. I couldn't stop noticing how good she was at speaking, and how calm she seemed, which made me a little nervous to be honest. She asked a lot of questions and stared right in my eyes the entire time we talked. It was weird and it made me think I could actually like this girl.. She was also very pretty, with bright blue eyes.
We watched a movie and talked through most of it. But guys, I was nervous the entire time, I kind of froze up. I never get that way around girls so I have no idea why. I just couldn't get comfortable which is not like me. A glass of wine or a beer would have helped I think, but I've never needed it that badly to loosen up. I didn't game her at all but I still feel like when I left, which was pretty early, she seemed interested.. Maybe because I didn't put the moves on her. She mentioned that I could stay longer but I told her I had to be up early..
I'm wondering if you guys can help me figure out exactly what happened in my head.. I'm kind of confused about it. I've only been single 3 months and I haven't met a girl that I actually felt like I could like... Like as in relationship material. So maybe that's part of it. I'd like to see her again and I think she'd be into it.