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Thread: What the fark happened last night...

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    Default What the fark happened last night...

    I can't figure out exactly what the hell just happened last night and it's taking my head for a bit of a spin. I even had weird dreams about it all night long.

    So yesterday I started talking to a girl on Plenty of Fish (HB8).. Sent 3 or 4 messages back and forth and then I got to the point and said I'd like to hangout and gave her my number. She then gave me hers.

    We started texting and later in the day I get a message from her "What are ya doing tonight?" I told her I'm thinking of staying in and having a movie night and maybe a glass of wine, and she said she's doing the same.. After a little careful caressing if you will, I mentioned that I'd be up for hanging out tonight with her and watching movies. She said we could watch one at her place.. At this point I'm thinking this is gonna be one awesome booty call. Not exactly...

    This girl is 22 and lives with her parents. I had to wait to go over until her parents went to bed.. I was 100% sure in my mind that she would be a bubbly and immature young girl looking for a good time with a cool guy, and I would be that guy and we would bang all night til the sun comes up...

    I get to her house and she comes out to meet me. Instantly I'm taken aback by the way she makes long and deep eye contact while talking to me. Slightly hungover and tired, I wasn't in a Mindset for any kind of real date or conversation. We go inside and her mom greets me and shakes my hand. So much for your parents being in bed. Luckily her dad wasn't there, lol. The house was huge and beautiful, And I instantly felt weird being there and didn't know what to make of it, normally it wouldn't phase me.

    I'll skip going into strict detail about the entire night. Basically she was extremely mature for a 22 year old. I swear this girl was intellectually a 35 year old. I couldn't stop noticing how good she was at speaking, and how calm she seemed, which made me a little nervous to be honest. She asked a lot of questions and stared right in my eyes the entire time we talked. It was weird and it made me think I could actually like this girl.. She was also very pretty, with bright blue eyes.

    We watched a movie and talked through most of it. But guys, I was nervous the entire time, I kind of froze up. I never get that way around girls so I have no idea why. I just couldn't get comfortable which is not like me. A glass of wine or a beer would have helped I think, but I've never needed it that badly to loosen up. I didn't game her at all but I still feel like when I left, which was pretty early, she seemed interested.. Maybe because I didn't put the moves on her. She mentioned that I could stay longer but I told her I had to be up early..

    I'm wondering if you guys can help me figure out exactly what happened in my head.. I'm kind of confused about it. I've only been single 3 months and I haven't met a girl that I actually felt like I could like... Like as in relationship material. So maybe that's part of it. I'd like to see her again and I think she'd be into it.

    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: What the fark happened last night...

    Hey man everyone gets nervous from time to time it comes through on your writing when you said "Instantly I'm taken aback by the way she makes long and deep eye contact while talking to me". Hangout with her again and build more comfort so you relax a bit more. Let us know how it goes.
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    Default Re: What the fark happened last night...

    Hey this happens to the best PUAs. For those who were never married/divorced, playing the field gets old eventually and deep down inside for us guys, it's a search to find the best woman for us.

    Sometimes, you will meet that one girl who stands out from the rest. The one that will break your game and make you weak. The one girl you have a special connection to.

    I say don't be afraid to pursue it. But whatever you do just be you. Or better yet...be the best of you.

    In your case, you met her on POF...of all places. Better than not meeting her at all. Let us know how it goes.

    Best of luck.

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    Default Re: What the fark happened last night...

    I see many possible reasons for this panic mode you fell into.

    That night you stepped into unknown territory and you weren't prepared for it or expecting it at least. This is something we try to do in every encounter as PUAs, let the HB get sucked in into your own reality.
    I believe that by inviting you over to her fancy place, and acting the way she did she made you think that she's the prize and that you have to work your way up to her. I mean I'm not used to saying hi to a HB's mom before gaming her, it's just weird and above all unusual.

    Don't over think it yo. And don't go over to her place again have her over or meet up somewhere, that's my take on it.

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    Default Re: What the fark happened last night...

    Thanks for the advice on the thread guys. It helped put me at ease a bit, not used to feeling like that.

    Quick update! I saw her again last night, her parents went out of town so I went to her house again. This time we had a glass of wine and chatted before putting on a movie and it went extremely smoothly. Didn't even make it through the movie, I spent the night. BAM!


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