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Thread: F-Close on Separated Woman

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    Default F-Close on Separated Woman

    Met a 42 yr old on Match (I'm 42 also) who was recently separated. Txt one week and setup dinner date. Date started bad, she was kind of distant, wasn't feeling well, didn't drink anything so i thought it was check and over. Afterward walk her to her car, pass an improv theater that I mention is starting a show and she suggests extending the date. Show went well, and then ended up talking in her car for 2 more hrs but she refuses to kiss me.

    Next day she txts and wants second date, suggests going somewhere to spend the night. I setup everything pick her up the next week, once were in hotel, proceed to F-close immediately. Next day had a good time at a resort, and back at her house, F-close again. Shower at her house and then immediately off to meet a new first date.

    Here is where it gets interesting. That night i get a txt saying she needs to talk asap. She calls and tells me her husband has a security system that he can access the cameras remotely that she didn't know about. He had their kid and was supposed to bring over that night, and was apparently monitoring the camera's, saw us get out of car, and me grabbing her ass in the house. He showed up 5 minutes after i left and was pissed off. And he's a cop to top it off. I remember thinking while i'm in the shower that this lady's husband is going to show up so my intuition wasn't far off.

    Anyway, anyone got any tips or experience with separated women. Not sure i'm going to mess with her again, at least not at her house.

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    Default Re: F-Close on Separated Woman

    Jealous guys to stupid stuff. Jealous guys who have access to guns are bad news. It just takes one nutcase who is insecure to take your life. he may or may not go over the edge but is it worth taking that risk?

    My suggestion is that there are LOTS of other women out there for and you need to let this one go.

    If you still want to see her then get her to come and see you at your place or some other neutral place. Encourage her to report that stalking behavior of her ex. It's for her safety even if you aren't going to see her anymore.

    This cop has oneitis. Even if he was trying to win her back this loser is just pushing her away. This is total AFC.

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    Default Re: F-Close on Separated Woman

    Yea, I'm with you.... I asked a lot of questions before seeing her on status of relationship, etc... but this was definitely not expected. I told her last night that she needs to talk to her attorney and just take care of herself making sure she doesn't get screwed in her settlement or her safety.

    She's been txting me tonight and i'm planning on ignoring for a bit then will respond that we need to take a step back while she gets everything in order with divorce. I'm supposedly the first guy she slept with since separating so I think there is opportunity for future contact if i really want it down the road.

    I'm seeing other girls so its no issue. My first date with the new one went pretty well...even though it was kinda weird that i just f-closed some other girl right before the date....Good news this one is single...
    Last edited by icall2000; 11-18-2013 at 10:44 PM. Reason: missed key part

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    That's great! You're doing well with women and continued success to you at doing that.

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    Default Re: F-Close on Separated Woman

    He could be harmless or he could be dangerous, and there's probably no way of knowing. I wouldn't even have her come to you - if they are "recently" separated and he now knows she's been with someone else he could follow her or have her followed. Do you want this guy knowing where you live? At the very least it could probably f*ck up her situation / divorce if he gets photos or video of her with you.

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    Default Re: F-Close on Separated Woman

    Dont shut her out but avoid meeting at place.hers.best to keep in touch here as friends even.

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    I would recommend staying away from her. When the divorce is final, then you may want to reconsider, but you will have probably both moved on.
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    Default Re: F-Close on Separated Woman

    Be careful. Especially if he is a cop. He can mess with you more than the average person and have the law on his side. I've been with women who claimed to be in an open relationship, only they never told their husband. It can be very dangerous. Yes the woman is the one making the mistake, but the husband loves her, not you, so he will take his anger out on you. Not worth it. I'm SO glad you have other women in your life and have an abundance mentality.

    Great work, btw on sleeping with her on date #2
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