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Thread: First time Sarging during the day

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    Default First time Sarging during the day

    hey guys so yesterday was my first day sarging and doing day game. I meet up with a wing I met from a different forum and we went to a mall and did some approaches. At first I was nervous and kept talking myself out of approaching. So I told my wing to just point out any female and I'd approach them. At first I kept striking out, I was going indirect for the most part at first but kept getting blown out so I said fark it and went direct for my last few approaches nd ended up number closing this hb7 that said she had a boyfriend. Lol but I think it might have been a fake number nd I had a serious AFC moment where I didn't even get her name when we left, lesson learned for next time. All in all I did around 11 approaches in about 1 nd 45 mins. After the 5th or so approach I really didn't care weather or not they stayed to talk to me and I felt alot more confident on my ability to talk to random Hb's. Well that's my first field report hopefully many more to come.

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    Default Re: First time Sarging during the day

    Just keep at it man, the more you do it the better you become. Try and relax as much as possible, relaxation exudes confidence. Stand straight, keep eye contact, smile. If the conversation is going well throw in some terrible jokes to see if she laughs, also stay alert of any IOIs.

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    Default Re: First time Sarging during the day

    Yeah, daygame is such a different animal. Just keep going out there man. I've found that going direct works a lot better for daygame(at least for me). I've actually found that doing daygame has helped my nightgame a lot in terms of aa. Keep posting! I've posted a bunch of FRs for night and day game, you might be able to find a interesting thing or two in there.

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    Great job bro! Yeah, daygame can be as much as getting a number and go as far as sleeping with a girl later that day. All about what you make it.
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    Default Re: First time Sarging during the day

    Quote Originally Posted by ThtNikkaGP View Post
    hey guys so yesterday was my first day sarging and doing day game. I meet up with a wing I met from a different forum and we went to a mall and did some approaches. At first I was nervous and kept talking myself out of approaching. So I told my wing to just point out any female and I'd approach them. At first I kept striking out, I was going indirect for the most part at first but kept getting blown out so I said fark it and went direct for my last few approaches nd ended up number closing this hb7 that said she had a boyfriend. Lol but I think it might have been a fake number nd I had a serious AFC moment where I didn't even get her name when we left, lesson learned for next time. All in all I did around 11 approaches in about 1 nd 45 mins. After the 5th or so approach I really didn't care weather or not they stayed to talk to me and I felt alot more confident on my ability to talk to random Hb's. Well that's my first field report hopefully many more to come.

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    Hey bro sarging doesn't translate well to Malls. Sarging is better for Bars & Clubs. It demonstrates low value when your sole purpose is to go to the Mall to pick up since you have no value and no dhv grounding story. It really shows in the results you got. BUT when I go to the Mall when I am shopping, running errands, getting a haircut, etc and THEN pick up my value skyrockets. Because I am already busy and taking time out of my busy day and they feel appreciation when I come and talk to them. However whenever I went to the Mall to sarge I felt out of place and guilty due to having no DHV grounding story. But again when I approached randoms and I was already at the Mall "IT WORKED" and they let the Sets carry on and on.

    Day Game: A Different Animal
    Day Game is a little complicated let me explain. These rules don't apply everywhere for instance I have no problem going to the Clubs & Bars solely to Sarge in fact it demonstrates DHV grounding stories since I am a confident man approaching women and come up with value on the fly. However in the Malls when I am sarging I am nervous therefore stuck in my head therefore running sucky game. This is why when I open a female when I am already at the Mall they notice the difference and there is a huge difference because I am like "hey I am busy but, hey I am in a rush but, hey I am on my way out but, etc) they go nuts on that stuff. But in the Mall when you are like "hey I like you but, hey I saw you but, hey you are hot but, etc" it falls flat whereas it would work in a Club to go direct.

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    Lastly Day Game is a fine art. Remember numerous PUA's have been banned from Malls for the sarging behavior. But when you are a customer interacting with the enviornment on your way out or on your way in you look like a normal person. It's just not normal to be sarging the Mall which is why PUA's get kicked out. Also Day Game in general you have to be involved in your enviornment by being a customer and exploring then approaching the ladies just adds to the positive atmosphere. However when you start sarging Malls and Water Parks you will draw unwanted attention (creeper status) this is why it is better to play it cool as you are going in there to DO SOMETHING and not playing make believe on why you are there but really be present. For instance going to the Water Park next year to Sarge BUT I won't be going approach crazy, sarging like a tool (approaching everything on sight, attack mode). I will be riding the rides, getting tan, having fun (presenting a general image of a normal person) then casually work my way over into some Sets with DHV grounding material as in let's go ride some rides, let's go get some food, etc. This is all you need to do "Work Hard, Play Hard". Granted you are working hard son but don't work too hard. You are not playing hard enough dawg. Play harder and then see what results you get. Like following the stuff I mentioned plus sarging your local Clubs & Bars like normal since it is the social norm to be strait sarging there. But Day Game is a different animal so be smart and play it right. Remember it's all about having good mojo. When you are interacting and involved in the enviornment not just with women but all people you are not so short sighted therefore obvious in your intentions. Women can sense this mentality of high value and when you approach not only will they think you are not a douchebag since you are already having fun they will be jumping for joy to come join the fun. But when you are only running game like an assault samari, gung ho, and on a warpath to win HB's then you will DLV yourself and meet your match of total annihilation. So put on a front dude that you mean business and you are there to take of it. If you are a busy man doing big things women will automatically be drawn to you. But when you are dreaming small, you will be working and not playing hard therefore you lose the game for lack of authenticity. Put on a front, make it random, have fun. Work Hard, Play Hard.
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    Default Re: First time Sarging during the day

    Thanks for all the great advice and encouragement guys, especially you noctis, that's really good advice and i did notice that the two times i approached and said i was there looking for a Christmas gift more my sister and the two or three times i asked where some good places to eat where, i got pretty good responses and talked for around 4 or 5 mins with most of them. and i feel like for the first few approaches i was definitely nervous and i think it showed in my body language and in my game, also i just want to point out that the approaches where i got good responses happened AFTER the first 5 or 6, when i started to feel like w.e i dont care weather they talk or keep it moving. my best approach that day was probably this black girl that i wasn't very attracted to and that was on the phone when i started talking to her, i told her i'd ask someone else but she told me one sec finished her call about 3 seconds after that and when i asked her where some good places to eat where she actually walked me over to the food court and asked me some questions like if i was new there and if i was Spanish and some other sh!t i don't recall. in hindsight i know i could have number closed her but i guess the AFC got the better of me again. i plan to go to another mall next week when i get paid to shop and sarge again this time i hope to get better results because ill actually be there for something other then sarging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThtNikkaGP View Post
    Thanks for all the great advice and encouragement guys, especially you noctis, that's really good advice and i did notice that the two times i approached and said i was there looking for a Christmas gift more my sister and the two or three times i asked where some good places to eat where, i got pretty good responses and talked for around 4 or 5 mins with most of them. and i feel like for the first few approaches i was definitely nervous and i think it showed in my body language and in my game, also i just want to point out that the approaches where i got good responses happened AFTER the first 5 or 6, when i started to feel like w.e i dont care weather they talk or keep it moving. my best approach that day was probably this black girl that i wasn't very attracted to and that was on the phone when i started talking to her, i told her i'd ask someone else but she told me one sec finished her call about 3 seconds after that and when i asked her where some good places to eat where she actually walked me over to the food court and asked me some questions like if i was new there and if i was Spanish and some other sh!t i don't recall. in hindsight i know i could have number closed her but i guess the AFC got the better of me again. i plan to go to another mall next week when i get paid to shop and sarge again this time i hope to get better results because ill actually be there for something other then sarging.


    Now you are getting it. PUA's will continue to get banned from Malls for the sarging behavior and will come to tell us about it. But being a high value man is about evening the playing field and there is a proper way to sarge the Mall by "knocking out two birds with one stone". When you are doing your regular shopping and eating food or whatever you are a customer therefore not drawing attention to yourself when you just invite a girl to be apart of that. Also I once heard that when you go about your business as normal "things happen" when you make PICK UP apart of your life and not just a past time. By this saying giving yourself a little more leway to be late for something when it includes Picking Up a chick you happen to fall upon in the Mall. This means not rushing around but taking a breath of fresh air when you see an HB and approach casually in a day game enviornment. This helps to create more serendipitous moments that women love. Professional douchebaggery begins and ends when your sole purpose is out sarging and women can sense that. But when you are carrying about your business as normal and picking up in the process the serendipity flows like never before and your nervousness becomes the farthest thing from your mind. When we put all this pressure to "just sarge" doing Day Game it backfires but when we "Pick Up" while in transit it has a greater impact. Look forward to improving my style over time.
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