Re: First time Sarging during the day
Originally Posted by ThtNikkaGP
Sarge like a Boss not a tool
Hey bro sarging doesn't translate well to Malls. Sarging is better for Bars & Clubs. It demonstrates low value when your sole purpose is to go to the Mall to pick up since you have no value and no dhv grounding story. It really shows in the results you got. BUT when I go to the Mall when I am shopping, running errands, getting a haircut, etc and THEN pick up my value skyrockets. Because I am already busy and taking time out of my busy day and they feel appreciation when I come and talk to them. However whenever I went to the Mall to sarge I felt out of place and guilty due to having no DHV grounding story. But again when I approached randoms and I was already at the Mall "IT WORKED" and they let the Sets carry on and on.
Day Game: A Different Animal
Day Game is a little complicated let me explain. These rules don't apply everywhere for instance I have no problem going to the Clubs & Bars solely to Sarge in fact it demonstrates DHV grounding stories since I am a confident man approaching women and come up with value on the fly. However in the Malls when I am sarging I am nervous therefore stuck in my head therefore running sucky game. This is why when I open a female when I am already at the Mall they notice the difference and there is a huge difference because I am like "hey I am busy but, hey I am in a rush but, hey I am on my way out but, etc) they go nuts on that stuff. But in the Mall when you are like "hey I like you but, hey I saw you but, hey you are hot but, etc" it falls flat whereas it would work in a Club to go direct.
Work Hard Play Hard
Lastly Day Game is a fine art. Remember numerous PUA's have been banned from Malls for the sarging behavior. But when you are a customer interacting with the enviornment on your way out or on your way in you look like a normal person. It's just not normal to be sarging the Mall which is why PUA's get kicked out. Also Day Game in general you have to be involved in your enviornment by being a customer and exploring then approaching the ladies just adds to the positive atmosphere. However when you start sarging Malls and Water Parks you will draw unwanted attention (creeper status) this is why it is better to play it cool as you are going in there to DO SOMETHING and not playing make believe on why you are there but really be present. For instance going to the Water Park next year to Sarge BUT I won't be going approach crazy, sarging like a tool (approaching everything on sight, attack mode). I will be riding the rides, getting tan, having fun (presenting a general image of a normal person) then casually work my way over into some Sets with DHV grounding material as in let's go ride some rides, let's go get some food, etc. This is all you need to do "Work Hard, Play Hard". Granted you are working hard son but don't work too hard. You are not playing hard enough dawg. Play harder and then see what results you get. Like following the stuff I mentioned plus sarging your local Clubs & Bars like normal since it is the social norm to be strait sarging there. But Day Game is a different animal so be smart and play it right. Remember it's all about having good mojo. When you are interacting and involved in the enviornment not just with women but all people you are not so short sighted therefore obvious in your intentions. Women can sense this mentality of high value and when you approach not only will they think you are not a douchebag since you are already having fun they will be jumping for joy to come join the fun. But when you are only running game like an assault samari, gung ho, and on a warpath to win HB's then you will DLV yourself and meet your match of total annihilation. So put on a front dude that you mean business and you are there to take of it. If you are a busy man doing big things women will automatically be drawn to you. But when you are dreaming small, you will be working and not playing hard therefore you lose the game for lack of authenticity. Put on a front, make it random, have fun. Work Hard, Play Hard.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.