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Thread: Flirting with the hired gun, while on a date.

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    Default Flirting with the hired gun, while on a date.

    Here's a fun one gents

    Out on a 3rd date last night with a HB8(F-Closed every date, including last night). We went to a local bar near her place. I noticed right away our server was smoking hot and decided pretty much on the spot I wanted to make her want me a little, lol.

    She was the strong type; talked loud and firm and made direct, sustained eye contact while speaking. My date and I both made small talk with her and I kept noticing the way she made eye contact with me and kind of leaned in close while talking (it was kind of loud in the bar, could be partly the reason for this).

    After she left, my date told me she knows who she is and her name etc, and basically started shit talking her, so I played along just to throw her off. I thought she was way hotter than my date to be honest haha.

    So, I asked my date how old she thought the girl was (she knew who she was and her name, but not her age.. Met her through a friend or something), and we made a friendly little bet so that I had an excuse to neg her about her age. The next time she came to the table I asked right away while looking her right in the eye "How old are you?", and she immediately responded that she was 25.. Long story short, I told her what my guess was and my date told her what hers was. She guessed that I was 23 and I told her I'm 29 and we had a bit of a laugh and I teased her a bit. We talked about how we both get ID'd still and she mentioned that her EX bf was 35 and that he used to get ID'd as well.

    I could tell I was breaking her down a bit because she started making little stutters while talking and didn't seem quite so confident like before. I could tell when we left that she was into me.. My date knew her first and last name so in my head I thought I'd for sure be looking her up on FB the next day, which I did this morning lol!

    What do you guys think about her mentioning her EX? I feel like this was her way of letting me know she's single. And possibly to let me know that she dated an older guy.

    Would you guys message her on Facebook if you were me? What would you say?

    Have a great Sunday!!

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    Default Re: Flirting with the hired gun, while on a date.

    Excellent moves there my good sir! She was definitely giving out some strong IOIs, and if you wanted to you could easily re-initiate contact with her.

    I would not read into the comment about the EX too much. You are right in that she probably brought it up to show she was single. Another reason was that she was also trying to contribute to the small talk. The idea that the purpose of pointing out her more mature EX could be a sign that she usually goes after more mature men could also be a possibility. However, if you play your game well, you could easily bypass this preference (If I am assuming you are around her age lol... no joke intended ).

    I don't even need to ask whether you want to go after her or not, considering you graciously pointed that out in your post. I would highly recommend to message her on Facebook. To open, reference back to that fun night that you met her. Your first message should bring her back to that enchanting moment where you nearly brought her down to her knees in amazement. If she asks how you know who she is, tell her that the lady you were having dinner with knew you. From there, you have multiple interesting topics to go off of.

    Overall, fantastic game. It's not surprising, since the content of your posts and your advice are of a high caliber. Have fun with this one!
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Flirting with the hired gun, while on a date.

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    She guessed that I was 23 and I told her I'm 29 and we had a bit of a laugh and I teased her a bit.


    Thanks Swag, just about to send her a message. The feeling is mutual by the way!


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