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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post

    It's possible it has something to do with your socialization in your country. I've watched videos of direct approaches all over Europe and they work there, but China COULD be different.
    Where did you watch the videos of direct approaches all over Europe? Can you give me the links?

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    What do you mean by John Marshal and Sasha get blown out 10-20 times for every girl they do Number Close?
    what he means by this, is that gaming girls is often a numbers game (even for Direct Game experts like john marshal and sasha)

    often times you will have to game more than one girl before you will find someone who is interested, single, and attractive.

    many of the girls you will approach won't be in the dating market, some are married, some have LTR's that have lasted years, some are cold hearted and unfriendly.

    the point is you can't have every girl you approach, and you may have to approach a multitude of women to get a few dates (especially when your first starting out)

    keep approaching, and keep the field reports rolling in.

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    Meteora already answered your question. Go to youtube and type in Sasha daygame and James Marshall daygame and you will find plenty of videos.

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Meteora already answered your question. Go to youtube and type in Sasha daygame and James Marshall daygame and you will find plenty of videos.
    Sasha has the most not give a fuck/unique game approach I've ever seen.

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    9. On the street

    This afternoon I was walking on the pavement, pondering the stuff from the manual: what women want and how to give it to them, I saw a foreign girl walking towards me. As soon as I saw her, I felt that she seemed to be beautiful, young,full of youthful vigor. I knew that I was unprepared, but I knew that she was the right woman I desire, and I was not going to miss out on this opportunity. So even if she quickly passed by me, I immediately turned back, and said "Hello" to her. I said, "Hi, this is XX." She stopped, said to me, "Hi, my name is Mary." Then I asked her number, she hesitated for half of second, and told me her instant messaging number. I talked to her for a while, I got to know that she is from California and teaches English here. It was not difficult, western girls are much easier to approach in comparison with Chinese girls. I was not excited, but I was happy. I didn't say anything very interesting, but I felt that the atmosphere was right. I had some experiences with western girls before, so I didn't feel nervous. If she can become my girlfriend, that's good or even great, but if not, It is still OK. There are plenty more fish in the sea, but I definitely need to be good at relating to women and know what women want and how to give it to them.

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    I followed the instructions given in the book "the manual: what women want and how to give it to them" and did some direct approaches, but it didn't work. Any ideas? What could be the problems?

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    There's two theory, first that might not be your style or you may need to practice going direct for a while until you get used to it.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Approach/open 100 times

    How is your body language during the conversation?

    How is the tonality of your voice during the conversation? Do speak the words quickly? Slowly ? Monotone? All of it will affect your delivery, It's just not what you say but HOW you say it that has an effect on people.

    To figure out what you're doing wrong have a wingman video your interactions with females so you can see what your body language is like. You should also voice record your interaction with females. Review the recordings and critique yourself. Check to see what your body language is like, check to hear the tonality of your voice, check for her facial expressions, body language and see what part of the interaction went wrong.

    Make the proper adjustments to your game and approaches because they are very easy to make. Athletes and entertainers use voice/video recordings to get better at their craft so why can't a PUA do the same?

    Then go practice on some more HBs in the field. With a bit of trial and error you'll do very well.


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