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    Default Drunk on a first date

    Hey guys so I went on a first date with a girl I met online. There was lots of attraction on her part, she intiated convo and exchanging numbers, and we texted a lot for a week before meeting.

    We met up at a bar, had a few drinks and the bartender gave us shots. I got pretty loaded.. We ended up at another bar closer to her place and it's pretty much a Blur from there on. I remember kissing her at that bar and after that I don't really remember much haha. I woke up at her place in her bed, both of us fully clothed (hate that feeling!). The morning wasn't too awkward, and it kind of seemed like she wanted me to stay when I told her I had to go. A big hug as I was out the door and that was it.

    So yea.. That day I texted her saying if she wanted some company tonight to let me know, she replied with "okay ". Didnt hear fromn her that night. We've texted a bit since then but not nearly as much. I did say "Let's hangout again, next time with slightly less alcohol though" and we laughed about it. She agreed to it but we didnt discuss a date. I think I said "what are you up to this weekend?", and the next day she said she might be headed out of town, to which I didn't reply.

    I don't really care if I don't see her again, but if I can than I would like to, she's pretty hot.. And cool. Also I know she thinks I'm really attractive, but that may have diminished a bit seeing me so drunk already.. I should mention that I'm not sure how drunk she was, definitely not as much as me though.

    How should I go about salvaging this one?

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    Default Re: Drunk on a first date

    What's there to salvage? Plan another date with her and hopefully you don't get so wasted If you texted her saying "if she wanted some company tonight to let me know", "Let's hangout again, next time with slightly less alcohol though" and "what are you up to this weekend?" all in the same day that probably came off as pretty needy. So depending on if she's still in town then I'd give it a shot and go out for coffee or something. Try to avoid the bars as she might think you're trying to make up for your drunken self last time and actually bed her.

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    Default Re: Drunk on a first date

    I learned the hard way too about staying way away from alcohol if I want solid game that night. 1 drink sometimes, just to sip on over the course of the night.

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    Default Re: Drunk on a first date

    Alcohol and I don't mix well together. I like to try and control how much I take in, but sometimes it's just too much and I end up getting sick or black out. If only my best friend didn't tempt me into playing rum blackjack every time we party lol

    Anyways, you're trying to push for a meetup far too soon. You constantly asking her to hang out is coming off as needy. Wait a while before pushing for the next meetup, and then try to do so in a context that involves minimal to no drinking. Show her your sober side, and really show her that you don't need alcohol to be amazing. In the meantime, flirt with her and relax a bit.
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    Default Re: Drunk on a first date

    Be more forward when asking for a meetup. 99% of the time, The girl will not reach out to you if you text something like "text if you wanna meet later" because it makes her too vulnerable. If you wanted to see her, saying "let's hang out soon ?" Would have been a good start then if she said okay, you'd say "Cool when are you available ?" And she says when. Very basic flirting if anything until meet up
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