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    Default FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    So i go to school in a university town in Canada and im 21 years old. I was at the bar last saturday and i met this HB 9 girl, we immediately hit it off and were were dancing and making out all night. She did not come home with me because she said she wasn't that type of girl but i got her number. I texted her the next day and told her it was really nice meeting her, she gave me plenty of ioi's in the text messages.

    Didnt message her again until wednesday regarding her plans on thursday night. She agreed to meet me at the bar which she did and we picked up were we left off she didnt want to come back to my house but i convinced her it would be ok because i just wanted hang out and order pizza. She came over after the bar ordered pizza put on a flix and then went to bed. In the morning she asked to borrow the track pants i let her borrow, which i agreed to and i droped her off in the morning

    I messaged her the next day and made plans for her and her friends to come over on saturday to my house to pre drink before we go to the bar which she agreed to. She seemed interested in me at the pre drink but as soon as we got to the bar she gave me the cold shoulder, she then left to go to another bar where here friends were at .

    later that night i saw her at the other bar dancing with another guy, as soon as she saw me she left that guy to come talk to me, i asked if she wanted to come hangout and her friend THE MOTHER HEN said that she was coming home with her that night blah blah blah, before she left i got a kiss and we decided to meet on campus for lunch on tuesday

    i texted her the morning after that saying "hey thanks for coming by the pre drink, hope you had a good rest of the night" (sarcastically of course). She replied a couple of hours later saying " sorry for just peacing, somehow got like blackout drunk and it was stupid."

    i chose to not reply to that message

    This girl has a reputation of being a good girl who doesnt go home with many guys and she is also shy

    what do you think

    Side note: I was talking to other girls at the pre drink and at the bar and kind of ignoring her for the first little while

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    You have lunch with her on Tuesday right? Don't do anything. Take it from there. She's already invested in you a little bit & she's clearly still interested.

    Yeah it sucks that she just left you like that but girls obviously aren't thinking clearly when they're drinking. Don't get mad or "sarcastic" with her. Shes just trying to have fun.

    Listen to me. Don't EVER get verbally/physically mad at a girl unless she cheated on you or something along those lines. Act like you don't care. Always be indifferent. ALWAYS.
    Getting angry just makes you look bad. It's either your way or the high-way, & you should sub-communicate this so she clearly knows without you having to ever say it.

    You should of either won over the "mother hen" and tried to bring her back or tried to Isolate her at the bar.
    I would of hooked up with her the night you had pizza. She clearly wants you & likes you. Probably could of F-closed honestly.

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    yea, from what i hear shes a really good girl so i dont know if she would have banged on the first night. I never got mad at her but i feel that not texting her back after her apology message but i will message her on tuesday regarding lunch.

    were snapchat friends, is there anything i can do with snapchat

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    Honestly, if you would of pushed it, she probably would of. You just would of hit LMR if she's really shy. Look up how to beat it on the forums.
    Yeah, don't snapchat. It's lame.
    & yes, message her Tuesday morning.

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    sweet thanks guys, your advice really helped. Im new to PUA and just finally got my confidence up to where i want it to be in the last couple of months so gaming is still relatively new to me and its been going well so far.

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    I agree with Kyl3. You could have probably got laid. You got her back to your house and you didn't even try?? You should have escalated.

    Stop telling yourself you can't do things because she is a "good girl". That's a limiting belief. I don't believe in such a thing. Girls want sex too. You can sleep with a "good girl" the first time you meet her if you know how.

    Your questioning yourself too much. This girl is into you. Believe in yourself and everything will be fine.

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    well my birthday is coming up this weekend and my roommates are throwing a big party at my house, im planning on inviting her. The problem i have is that i always start off great with the girl chasing me but i always become the one doing the chasing, how do i go about fixing this?

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    "Good girls" always end up being freaks. Trust me. Treat every girl the same. Bad girls, crazy girls, good girls, they're no different & echoing what Direct said, want sex so don't ever think you're not good enough or she won't **** on the first hangout. NOW if you don't want to bang her on the first hangout or want to take things slower for ethical or future reasons, then that's different..
    (Example: she's a co-worker & the first time you hangout you get her in bed & she gives you massive LMR, then yeah, pushing the issue of having sex or acting like a Dbag isn't a good idea. But neither is messing around with co-workers. Lol.)
    Birthday party this weekend? Awesome. Invite her. Tell her to bring her friends. Just text her the invite a few days before the party if you know she won't be busy.

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    Wouldnt i look like a dbag if i invited her to the party and ended up hooking up with another girl because i know she would do me,
    i cant go a birthday without birthday sex

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    Default Re: FIRST POST - Hot and cold vibes from HB 9

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnn1pop View Post
    well my birthday is coming up this weekend and my roommates are throwing a big party at my house, im planning on inviting her. The problem i have is that i always start off great with the girl chasing me but i always become the one doing the chasing, how do i go about fixing this?

    Well done on the progress so far dude. The reason you're having this problem is because you're coming from a scarcity Mindset. You've got to remember that YOU are the prize, she's lucky if she get's any of your attention. Don't play the "let's just hang out" card. It will put you in to the friend zone sooner or later. Plus it sounds desperate and needy. Be 100% forward and direct with your intentions, if she doesn't like it, she knows where the door is.
    Invite her to your birthday, text her once with information regarding it. Don't text her a day before or on the day something like "So you coming 2moro/ 2nyt?" after you've already told her about your birthday. It's your birthday, it's all about you, if she goes or not won't affect how great your night is gonna be.
    Be a boss, be the man!


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