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    Default Year Anniversary of Joining the Forums

    Around this time, one year ago, I had a fateful night in front of my fireplace, where I came up with the idea that there were men out there who had the same problems with women as I did. Throughout the course of the next year, I forced myself down the road of change, facing many hardships and eventually relishing in the glory of success.

    There are too many people to thank for this, and for those of you reading this who have helped me (and you know who you are), thank you for getting me to where I am now.

    Thus, in honor of this great milestone, I really looked at who I was a year ago and who I am now. There are positives and negatives to my current being, but getting it out there in the first place can help me work towards developing efficient solutions to the problems at hand.

    Things I have improved on:

    I am a text and facebook game PRO! Thousands of hours of investment and work have paid off with considerable success in these two areas. I can easily get a girlís number after talking to her for only a day on Facebook, and I easily understand the mechanics of how and when to say and escalate things.

    I am no longer outcome dependent. I only think in the now, and I donít care about relationships or any of that sorts. If I lose a girl Iím interested in, I can now shrug it off, go ďoh wellĒ, and easily move on to the next target.

    I am a far better socialite than I was before. I know how to easily win over and influence people, and I also know how to win the hearts of my friends and my colleagues. This has resulted in me being promoted multiple times at my jobs, being given important leadership positions in various organizations, and often being the organizer and center of any event I plan with my friends.

    Things I need to improve on:

    I need to stop being a pessimistic PUA. Seriously, a good number of the girls I willingly pass over I do so because I see the negatives of the situation more than the positive. I think I am being ďrealisticĒ, but I know having a positive Mindset after doing a pickup would help me out considerably better.

    Iím just not there yet with my conversations. Itís only when Iím intoxicated that Iím at my best with conversing. It's not to say I haven't been successful sober, but I could do a lot better without alcohol. I need to work on and change it so that I donít need an alcohol boost in order to be more successful with women. Besides, too much booze ALWAYS destroys my game.

    I need to stop being so picky. A wise man told me that perhaps I donít know what I really want in this world. In an effort to reinvent myself, I want to push myself as far as I can go with every interaction with every girl. No more picking and choosing.

    I need to continue to reinvent myself. There are some areas of pickup where I think Iím so good to the point of where I decide to settle on it. As 50 Cent says, when you become content with certain aspects or surroundings, then you lose your touch with reality. This is something that can prove deadly to a PUA.

    I need to challenge myself. I realized this recently, and almost all the girls I have been successful with were extremely easy. Most of them were sluts or girls that had no value at all. Although they were fun and entertaining to mess around with, I have to be honest with myself: I'M A MOTHER FARKIN' PUA!!! I can do better than that! I need to set my sights higher, and get with a girl who is of the most successful and highest caliber.

    So as you can see, I'm doing great. However, I can do greater, and I intend on doing that. So until then, keep on playing the game folks. I certainly will be doing the same
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Year Anniversary of Joining the Forums

    Right on man!
    What a difference a year can make. (Heck, even just a couple months can be effective)

    I'm a few months shy of being 2 years of when I first discovered this stuff. And I've gone through sooooo many improvements. Some of them just micro changes, and some of them huge!

    I still notice myself getting aa from time to time. I stopped beating myself up over it though. Because 10 min later, I usually have a chance to make up for it... even if it's not the same girl, I can "redeem" myself in my own eyes.

    It all comes down to realizing one thing: The key component is always "FUN".


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    Default Re: Year Anniversary of Joining the Forums

    My one year is coming up rather soon too. I want to commend both of you on your considerable progress, and can't thank you gents enough for the valuable lessons that I not only learned, but internalized. Cheers to a solid 2014, and may it continue to build all of us up!

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