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Thread: Should I have tried an f-close?

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    Default Should I have tried an f-close?

    OK, bit of a strange situation the other night, and left me wondering if I should of gone for the f-close...
    I am a fairly proficient solo dancer, and among friends have a bit of a reputation as a good dancer.
    I was at a fairly good friends pub, and their sister was there. Having heard I was a good dancer from my friend she asked me to dance. I wasn't looking to game her, just looking for a bit a laugh and a bit of fun.

    Nothing really unusual there, bit of casual dancing with a friends sister. Later on as she got a bit more drunk, the dancing got a lot more sexual, and I started to pull a bit of dance floor game, I mean it's pretty damn fun XD

    Later on in the night a few opportunities arouse where we could of been alone, and a f-close would of been a good possibility. But I chose not to, since her sister was there, and her parents own the pub and obviously wander about there, serve drinks etc, and I was too scared to annoy my friend and her parents, even though she was up for it?

    Don't know if that made sense, it was quite hard to explain, but I'm just looking for a few different perspectives on this one.

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Should I have tried an f-close?

    Well did you at least Number Close? Not having sex right then and there is your choice. Some guys would have gone for the close, others would have played it more neutral like yourself. Realizing the circumstances I would have ramped up the sexual Tension as fast as possible, through dance game like you did. I would then get the kiss, make out for a little, and then dial things down a bit and try to establish a connection. From there depending how the night has gone (are her parents getting pissed, is her sister tripping, etc), and how compliant she's been, I would A) ramp the sexual tension back up transition to a place for sex, or B) set up a date for the next day or sometime in the near future.

    It's a judgment call. Based on the circumstances you have to make a choice in the moment. That's why I can't give you a solid answer.

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    Default Re: Should I have tried an f-close?

    Later on in the night a few opportunities arouse where we could of been alone, and a f-close would of been a good possibility. But I chose not to, since her sister was there, and her parents own the pub and obviously wander about there, serve drinks etc, and I was too scared to annoy my friend and her parents, even though she was up for it?
    you should have bounced from the club with her if you wanted an f-close.
    all you had to do was build some comfort, get a kiss and tell her you want to show her your pet turtle at your place. (easy way to see if she wants to be alone with you)

    once she's at your place you can easily escalate (she would have already decided she wanted to sleep with you if she accepted your invite.) (girls can be dumb, but they usually have a good idea of what's going on. especially when it comes to romance and sex)

    btw, its great that you know the owners of the club. that alone almost gives you vip status there. maybe it was good that you didn't do anything that would upset them. (though kissing their daughter wouldn't have upset them that much, pulling her would.)

    I think you should have kissed her, got her number and set up a meet somewhere other than the club for an f-close.

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    Default Re: Should I have tried an f-close?

    I should mention that a Number Close would've been pointless. I'm leaving the country for sometime in a couple of days, and any spare time I get I'm spending with my friends and family. You know, Bros before Hos. This means no time for dates. If I wanted to do something, I'd have had to do it on the night.

    Plus she'll be there when I go to the pub again as a welcome home party, so I wasn't too fussed about the number close, seeing as the outcome would be the same no matter what, it just seemed like a pointless way to risk rejection. I've added her on facebook, not that that really means anything, I do f all on there lol.


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