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  1. #1
    FrankDrebbin Guest

    Default got opened by a 8.5 ...

    Situation:
    Since my car is not really trustworthy I was stuck in my new hometown and so I tried a couple of clubs the last days .. 8 of them were total crap. Way to loud rap music and almost every girl there was obese .. or so it seemed, nutin to game.

    Today I went to a club which was awesome. Since I was new to that club I hat a real high approach anxiesty ( I am a really shy guy and new to the game but I am adapting quickly ). After sitting around for 30minutes and watching peoples bodylanguage ( my primary goal this evening ) I went a little bit around and talked to a guy and we instantly came great along so that I was not alone anylonger and building up some social proof.

    Now the situation:
    I countinued talking to him at the bar where we were ordering drinks. While I was talking to him I noticed that one HB8.5 started looking to us .. but since I was new to that place and just talking with that guy I was just letting her watch and smile .. thought I might open that set ( 2 HB and 2 guys later ) when I might set that aa down. After like 5 minutes of talking that 8.5 was standing next to us and asked us "Why are you not dancing" we started a little bit of talking while I tried to run some routines ( probably a mistake ). After some basic kinoing my "wingman" interfered and asked me a question. After that interference I tried to get back into the talk we got a little bit into kinoing. She introduced us to the other HB7 ... but then I made I think the fatal error ... I tried the Number Routine ( ESP ) from Mystery on her .. I did not get any number right ... after that she lost a little bit of attraction but we were still talking I wa trying to dhv with my phtography and it worked pretty well ... until one guy of that set started to dance with her ... .

    I lost her then ... just before the end of the party I was talking with her again and made a little magic trick which impressed her quite well ( thanks Brad ). Anyway, I #closed with her and let her pinky swear that she is going to answer it ( she got one of my photography business cards in exchange ).

    What I did right:
    I did not let her beauty intrigue me, I had a clear bodylanguage and tried not to answer her questions straigt and to start some kinoing ( high five etc. ).

    What I did wrong:
    Well first of all I should have stacked more, asked her to jump thru a couple of loops afterall she seemed to be attracted since she opened me. And tried to introduce her other HB probably to occupy the obstacle ... my just met buddy. I should have escaleted it a little bit more and not use a canned routine when the thing is already running instead I should've DHVed more with my photography. I should've made more out of that situation. I should have tried to neg her a little bit but as I am still a newbie failing and learning from it is the best thing for me .

    Let's see if she's answering the phone tomorrow in the morning .. otherwise I'm gonna leave her a real short message on the voice mail.
    Last edited by FrankDrebbin; 01-03-2010 at 05:29 AM.

  2. #2
    FrankDrebbin Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    I got kind of enlightment when I was thinking about what to tell that girl when I call her ... I really thought heavily about that, made some serious deep thoughts - and then the drops dropped! I AM THE PRIZE I was reading that phrase all the time .. but then I realized I was putting that girl on a podestal ... just called left a message on the voicemail and I don't expect her to call back - and ya know what? I don't even care there are so many other girls out there .

  3. #3
    BadKarma Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    That's precisely the Mindset you need, gato. They've got to do a lot to be worthy of your admiration, and being hot isn't much in this day and age. You've reached a realisation that I didn't until it was too late for me. Good show.

  4. #4
    Typhoon Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    Good luck in your other targets then, my friend. Show them the confidence in knowing for sure that you are the prize!!! You're the man and they better know it!

  5. #5
    TopGuy Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    Go for it dude!! Show them how an ALPHA MALE does his thing... Good luck!

  6. #6
    Instinct Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    Quote Originally Posted by FrankDrebbin View Post
    Situation:
    Since my car is not really trustworthy I was stuck in my new hometown and so I tried a couple of clubs the last days .. 8 of them were total crap. Way to loud rap music and almost every girl there was obese .. or so it seemed, nutin to game.

    Today I went to a club which was awesome. Since I was new to that club I hat a real high approach anxiesty ( I am a really shy guy and new to the game but I am adapting quickly ). After sitting around for 30minutes and watching peoples bodylanguage ( my primary goal this evening ) I went a little bit around and talked to a guy and we instantly came great along so that I was not alone anylonger and building up some social proof.

    Now the situation:
    I countinued talking to him at the bar where we were ordering drinks. While I was talking to him I noticed that one HB8.5 started looking to us .. but since I was new to that place and just talking with that guy I was just letting her watch and smile .. thought I might open that set ( 2 HB and 2 guys later ) when I might set that aa down. After like 5 minutes of talking that 8.5 was standing next to us and asked us "Why are you not dancing" we started a little bit of talking while I tried to run some routines ( probably a mistake ). After some basic kinoing my "wingman" interfered and asked me a question. After that interference I tried to get back into the talk we got a little bit into kinoing. She introduced us to the other HB7 ... but then I made I think the fatal error ... I tried the Number Routine ( ESP ) from Mystery on her .. I did not get any number right ... after that she lost a little bit of attraction but we were still talking I wa trying to dhv with my phtography and it worked pretty well ... until one guy of that set started to dance with her ... .

    I lost her then ... just before the end of the party I was talking with her again and made a little magic trick which impressed her quite well ( thanks Brad ). Anyway, I #closed with her and let her pinky swear that she is going to answer it ( she got one of my photography business cards in exchange ).

    What I did right:
    I did not let her beauty intrigue me, I had a clear bodylanguage and tried not to answer her questions straigt and to start some kinoing ( high five etc. ).

    What I did wrong:
    Well first of all I should have stacked more, asked her to jump thru a couple of loops afterall she seemed to be attracted since she opened me. And tried to introduce her other HB probably to occupy the obstacle ... my just met buddy. I should have escaleted it a little bit more and not use a canned routine when the thing is already running instead I should've DHVed more with my photography. I should've made more out of that situation. I should have tried to neg her a little bit but as I am still a newbie failing and learning from it is the best thing for me .

    Let's see if she's answering the phone tomorrow in the morning .. otherwise I'm gonna leave her a real short message on the voice mail.

    Doing well, this is the mindset you need, just get going and trying stuff, start going out 3 nights a week, eventually you will automatically calibrate. Reps.

  7. #7
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: got opened by a 8.5 ...

    Quote Originally Posted by FrankDrebbin View Post
    I got kind of enlightment when I was thinking about what to tell that girl when I call her ... I really thought heavily about that, made some serious deep thoughts - and then the drops dropped! I AM THE PRIZE I was reading that phrase all the time .. but then I realized I was putting that girl on a podestal ... just called left a message on the voicemail and I don't expect her to call back - and ya know what? I don't even care there are so many other girls out there .
    Good answer. That's one that I always have to remind myself too when I'm gaming. Once the game goes back and forth for a bit, a lot of us would lose vision and begin putting the girl on the pedestal. Taking her off the pedestal gives other girls equal chance to meet you and also attracts your target more.


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