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  1. #1
    Retrospective is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Contiued field report for all pick up I attempt

    I'm still a newb and I want to start sharing my field reports in the hopes of getting my thoughts out there to people doing pick up too. Bare with me, I am shy and my accomplishments may seem miniscule to your accomplishments.

    I may sound like a wuss in here but I want to be honest about how I feel in pick up situations.

    I went out on Friday and Saturday. On Friday i was sober and very scared. I had a wingman and we went to two bars. We were in one bar for a while and i just stood there and didn't move much for about 20-30 minutes. I wanted to approach but I just was too scared. I don't have an excuse although the music was very loud. I wonder if I am afraid I won't be heard?

    Anyway I should have tried at least one approach and I didn't, so that's something I need to work on is approaching more.

    On Saturday I approached one girl by myself and I will count it as an approach. I may start counting hi's again as approaches to try and give me more confidence. I said, Hey I just wanted to say hi, that's all. Hi. and that was the interaction.

    I think that approach may have worked because she stopped with her friend out in the open near me as if she wanted me to approach her and actually converse with her. I still have problems with shyness and I failed to go up to her again. I just need to learn to let go and risk failure more.

    I had been drinking and i think that did help a little as far as SA goes.

    This other set my friend opened but I was by his side and said something about directions or whatever.

    So i'll say i did 2 approaches.

    I have done 40 total approaches

    I should start setting goals again. I'm working on things to say because my game right now is terrible after the opener. Terrible in most cases.

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    Retrospective is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Contiued field report for all pick up I attempt

    I know I skipped a bunch of days but I've done 69 approaches now. Lately I've just been doing solo day game, today went to campus and did 3 sets. I had two conversations with a church girl and a girl who had a b/f. The other girl didn't seem like she wanted to talk. All one-sets.

    Weekly approach goal=9 approaches
    Approaches completed on week=5

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    Retrospective is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Contiued field report for all pick up I attempt

    As for today, today was a big momentum day I thought. I approached 4 one-sets, two warm ups and and two where i tried to get the number. The last one blew me out pretty hard. She was very receptive in the beginning then she said she didn't like my smile, that i smile like a girl. There's not much i can do about that so i'll just move on, it's ok.

    Total approaches: 76
    Approaches on week: 4

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    Mingo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Contiued field report for all pick up I attempt

    Seems like you are putting quite of bit of pressure on yourself.

    To get your confidence up, try this. Go up to a cute girl, look at her for a second, and just say, "You have a very pretty smile / beautiful hair / cute dimple / ... And then wait another second, smile, and walk away.

    Don't try to get a number. Don't expect anything in return. Just practice on being a gentleman, and increase your confidence. The outcome is not important. Drill this into your head.

    You'll see her smile naturally, like you just gave her a super real compliment, and not some stupid pickup line. She'll then wonder why you just walked away instead of hanging onto her, She's used to guys saying something nice, and then start a conversation, and try to finish with a Number Close. Don't do this yet, but work up to it.

    Once you find a girl that is super responsive, then take the next step by starting a conversation.

    baby steps...


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