Re: Bombed it on a store employee
Walked in and made solid eye contact since that was what the Coach said. Well it worked cuz I didn't break the contact and she went out of her way to help me. Then I get my stuff and she asks me to try it on and I don't, I tried that flirting technique before and it didn't work so I said no. Then she starts stuttering "sooo..." Nothing to say so I talked about work in a douchey let me win your affection way, made a comment on her earring then she seemed into me but I left my phone in the car (because I hate store pick up) and FB closed her on her last name.
Couldn't find her on FB in my car so I went back in to order another shirt cuz I wanted to and did it. As I was leaving I asked about her last name and FB again to which she admitted was deleted to which I had no answer. Then the stuttering was on my end and she had the control where I had it when it began and she wanted to know about me. Now that I wanted to know about her she had control and pwned me. She made that comment so I invited her to St. Paddy's and she declined saying she kinda had a BF and didn't feel comfortable giving her number out. At that point she lost my interest so I didn't push it and said well stranger things have happened cuz they have and she ignored that quality of indifference and thought I was still trying so said but you're really sweet! Pissed me off cuz it was like you are really a douchebag get away from me. I mean I know she didn't feel comfortable and if she thought I was sweet she would have accepted instead she decided to just add an overkill to the rejection.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.