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    Default Bombed it on a store employee

    Totally just bombed it on a store employee, my first Set of the year. In my hardest venue, the Buckle. Granted I became a PUA partly due to a Buckle girl. Opened another one who was giving ioi's up the yin yang and extending the interaction however it was freaking boring and I got the BF rejection when I closed. Any way to salvage? My guess is not. Granted I closed a hell of a lot faster but it was so freaking choppy and I was so nervous I looked like a school boy up there and totally lowered my value.

    She probably hates my guts and lied to me about being on FB and wasn't so I went back in to N-close and blew it. Should I avoid her? I am afraid to show my face to her again for fear of creeping her out. She already said she is not comfortable giving her number out. Granted I suck big A-holes but this sucks maybe why I may never open another store set again! See I knew I was right. You guys think random one offs are freaking cake and they suck the worst. I hate them. I am sticking to sarging screw this it sucks. I get a number so friggin easy at a bar, club, event, outdoor mall event, that this makes it seem like child's play. The demographic for store Hired Guns is farked up, like a living nightmare.

    Hopefully I never see her again that would be a good thing. Also I think I will just say screw it this my store and she can leave cuz I ain't going anywhere. She played me and I lost so I'll just give up. Well done missy you beat me at my own game. But I am a king of the sarge and I got 30 #'s last Summer so she can take a hike. Like screw this girl's don't want BF's FINE I'll be single then and never ever have hope again. My feelings are strong cuz she is in my head but the next new girl will make me feel different and bright eyed and bushy tailed again. However now I feel like dog crap. Oh well your first Set of the year will always kick you in the rear. Awe rejection something I was so numb to last year been a while since I had a good kick in the pants.
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    Default Re: Bombed it on a store employee

    I want to help you but I don't know where to start because you didn't give any info on what actually happened.

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    Default Re: Bombed it on a store employee

    Walked in and made solid eye contact since that was what the Coach said. Well it worked cuz I didn't break the contact and she went out of her way to help me. Then I get my stuff and she asks me to try it on and I don't, I tried that flirting technique before and it didn't work so I said no. Then she starts stuttering "sooo..." Nothing to say so I talked about work in a douchey let me win your affection way, made a comment on her earring then she seemed into me but I left my phone in the car (because I hate store pick up) and FB closed her on her last name.

    Couldn't find her on FB in my car so I went back in to order another shirt cuz I wanted to and did it. As I was leaving I asked about her last name and FB again to which she admitted was deleted to which I had no answer. Then the stuttering was on my end and she had the control where I had it when it began and she wanted to know about me. Now that I wanted to know about her she had control and pwned me. She made that comment so I invited her to St. Paddy's and she declined saying she kinda had a BF and didn't feel comfortable giving her number out. At that point she lost my interest so I didn't push it and said well stranger things have happened cuz they have and she ignored that quality of indifference and thought I was still trying so said but you're really sweet! Pissed me off cuz it was like you are really a douchebag get away from me. I mean I know she didn't feel comfortable and if she thought I was sweet she would have accepted instead she decided to just add an overkill to the rejection.
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    Default Re: Bombed it on a store employee

    Dude Buckle chicks are notorious for flirting with guys to get them to buy products, and guess what? It worked. You went in and bought another shirt. When someone is selling you something, you can't trust what you'd normally think of as an ioi.

    Also, it's like you think this girl owes you something. She doesn't. You are selling yourself, and you clearly didn't provide enough value for her to purchase. Her #1 priority is SELLING YOU stuff, so it makes it even more of a hurdle to overcome that. TBH I'd avoid game in places like Buckle, simply because if you met the same girl in a bookstore or even on the street she'd be 10x easier to pick up.

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    Yeah true that. Guess I can put that thing to rest. I was too on edge to do anything proper. I am so much better inside my element it's just the super hot ones at Buckle always flirt for some reason, guess it was just my imagination. I'll keep a clean head about it from here on. Got St. Paddy's Parade Daygame coming up in one week and I am really hoping for sunshine.
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    Default Re: Bombed it on a store employee

    Well get this. I can't believe it, nothing spectacular but made me feel insanely good. After that rejection I thought "I ain't leaving that store cuz of her." So I walk in and here we go again.

    I remembered to make eye contact cuz if I just sulk in and looking down away from people they totally ignore me. So I keep my eyes fixed in her direction (confidence I think) so I let her approach me and it was on. At first I was unsure cuz I was like she hates my guts. But I was in such a funk last time trying to impress her and now I was in such a good mood from having an awesome day it just rubbed off on her I guess. So we sit there talking for a minute after I make the eye contact I thought she would walk away but she lingered so I was like okay. I am getting a hat hoping she bites but at least she asked. So she doesn't go over to help me this time but I blurted out in my awesome happy state after she asked "what did you do today?" I told her "I was a good boy" and just left a cliffhanger as she was walking away and then came back playing the emotional high I can start to see she repeats me and says "you were a good boy." All curious like. Again I repeated myself and told her "I was a good boy and did such and such." Man that was a great hook.

    So then we part ways and she doesn't follow so I am like oh crap. Don't want to approach like I did last time cuz I got very needy. So I can't see her anywhere and look around but just head to the register. A girl asks me "you ready to go?" I say "yes" and my target out of nowhere again pops up "You ready to go?" I was like holy crap she is fighting for me. So I oblige to let my target ring me up. We flirt a lot, banter with her about where she shops, and then could see this was taking her a minute. So as I sit there I mentioned "All my friends are in XXX city" and she says "All your friends are in XXX city." This mocking bird of repeating me thing I think is an attraction switch for women and a way to soak in the emotional aspect or something since it was all so intense. Then I pulled a fast one and grabbed her hand which is something flirty me and the Bartender made up and it just is a Kino hand holding move the Bartender taught me. Surprisingly that worked now I know a pretty definite day to go in and talk to her since she told me.

    Conclusion
    Aww redemption tastes so sweet. I told you guys I am the comeback king and this is the kind of comeback I am accustomed to in Bars and such and that winner personality finally came back. Now I have a definite day she told me when she works. I already failed on the N-close so I think I will have to try the long game on this one. She clearly made up her mind to cut that other hot chick off to be my personal attendant and now I finally feel comfortable in talking to her and approaching her for chit chat longer. I will update as it goes along and let you know if I make anymore progress.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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