general question for everyone

Now, I know that everyone of us has passed thru something similar.

You are interested in a girl, but she is being teased by some of your friends. They accuse her of liking one of the guys in your social circle.

Is it appropiate to ask her, while i am talking to her over msn or facebook or whatever, if she likes him (in a playful way)..?

thanks!

Haha. I am more likely to tease her too. If she likes him, I think she'd be all laughing and giggly but if she doesn't, she'd be annoyed. Of course, I don't want her being annoyed with me but then, it means she might like me instead. But I wouldn't harangue her about it. I mean, so what if she likes him, she can still switch and like me instead right? So i should just focus on gaming her... right?

I wouldn't even mention it unless she mentions it. She might think you're concerned and use that as a weapon against you. Better she sees you unfazed and just cool and having fun with her.

Try to neg her a bit.. Like " (Guy's name) doesn't know how to swim. You'll drown when are are swimming with him"...in a funny way.

A wise man once said, "If everyone is doing the same joke, it ceases to be funny." Actually I just made that up, but it's still true. If everyone is teasing her about this, stay out of it. Nothing good can come of bringing it up unless she does it first.

It will be harder for a girl to gauge if you're interested in her if you're teasing her to someone else. Just don't bring it up, unless she does (her liking the guy or the teasing from the friends), and when she does, listen to what she's saying and NOT saying... and don't dwell on it. Instead, ask her out for some alone time, far away from the teasing crowd. Do something fun!

What do you care? Get her to like you more.