So, I have a higher class girl I went on a date with a few months ago that led to nowhere because I did some AFC moves, like asked her to be my significant other (similar wording to that) in an awkward way and wasn't able to give direct eye contact or Kino (shes still a virgin and all my friends who grew up with her say shes a prude, all she does is kiss, which I and I told her I smoke pot, which she said was a deal breaker, so she went to another guy that was interested. Hopefully she forgot about that and if she asks again I'll tell her no and keep it a secret until later on. Long story short, they broke up, she got another boyfriend who comes across to me as total AFC and I think shes the only girl hes had. I think what brought them together was that they are both in band and they were friends for a long time, so I'm possitive that if she meets someone else more attractive (myself) to build rapport and personal attraction, she'll leave him for the better man haha. Normally I don't do the girl stealing thing, but the pride I'll get by dating her (not only is she attractive, but her family pretty much runs my city) is so overwhelming.
I believe this new attempt is different because I have regained my ability to talk and pick up women that I lost with my ex. Also, I've started training mixed martial arts training along side track (I normally play sports all three seasons, football, wrestling, track) and I've gotten much more attractive than I already was, especially with muscle toning and size. Anyway, onto the journey:
So I spent a long evening at work with her there with me throwing little flirty quips at her with her reciprocating with quips. Eventually as the night progressed, she seemed more and more interested in talking to me and I just felt the attraction growing throughout the night. I ended it by using what I considered some really good kino. We have an inside joke about pissing our manager off by calling ourselves a clique and I told her since shes apart of it she has to learn the handshake (I never did kino to her before) so I did an extensive handshake where I touched her arm with both hands (one was to "correct her movement" and the other was doing the handshake). This was right before we were leaving to go home (I was also with my buddy) and we all walked out together, so for some reason she decided to walk side by side with us as we leave and we only parted as we walked toward our respective vehicles, teasing her about her plates and her teasing me back about not having a car. Now I thought our interaction was over there. However, she drove her car up to us which I jokingly told her to leave cause nobody likes her and she followed us around the parking lot until we made it where we almost hit (which we weren't going to let happen) so she stopped and my friend and I left.
Overall I think this was really successful. I would love to hear some feedback. I don't really text her anymore, because I don't know how I'd start texting her again without coming off too strong (because of the boyfriend) or being friend zoned but I do send her Snapchats that I send to everyone else, which sometimes she replies to. I plan on next time we work together starting out with the hand shake and smoothly get her to give me a hug and from that point on I feel I'll be free to do whatever non-sexual kino from there, I'll grab her by her arm and waist and such to take her to show her things, and always neg her in the process. Thats the plan so far and I'll adjust as needed down the line. Can't wait to hear some feedback. I do have a question, what should I say to initiate us texting again but in a way to not get friend zoned?
Now, to those of you thinking I'm trying too hard for one girl, shes not the only girl I'm currently gaming. I have a FWB (that is from my hometown so nobody who goes to my school knows about it) and another potential girl (who I just want to fuck, but may not put out without any strings so I'm undecided with her). Theres just something about the girl I really like and I actually get those butterflies of joy when I'm interacting with her. She's also the only girl I talk to who seems up to my girlfriend standards (isn't easy, shes still a virgin, so I'll be the only to do it if it goes anywhere), she's an 8 (sometimes 9 when shes wearing preppy clothes), she seems emotionally stable (I've had too many of those crazy girls), she has her own money and job, she has goals, shes athletic and into exercise, shes smart and can have intelligent conversations. I'm going to game her until I either find someone else or I know for sure it's not going to happen.
Anyway guys, waiting patiently for your feedback.