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Thread: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

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    Cool girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    basically, I have this girl who I f-closed a few nights back, and while she was drunk she admitted to wanting a relationship with me (we're sorta friends with benefits)

    so I finally took her out for live music at a local tavern (with the assumption her girlfriends would be with her, but they didn't show up) things were going great till after we finished our food around 8:30 (about an hour into the date) I wanted to leave, but she wanted to stay for more music.

    unfortunately, my food went right through me, I had t spend a while in the restroom. when I came out, she was flirting with some other guys, I amogged a few of them, but then she moved to another group of guys to see what I would do.

    at this point I realized exactly what she was trying to do. it was quickly turning into a game for her. trying to make me jealous by hanging all over other guys at the bar.

    so I decided I would just ignore her for a while. I went back to the table and enjoyed some of the live music and played around with my phone for about a half hour.

    she kept coming back to the table and showing me ioi's, then going back to flirt with other guys. at this point it was starting to piss me off. I kept thinking about ditching her there, and now that I think about it I should have.

    but I stayed for a while to enjoy some of the music. after that musician finished playing, I literally decided I would walk out the door.
    she asked me "where are you going"
    me: "home."
    her: "you can't just leave me here"
    me: "then come with me, i'll drop you off at your place."
    her "ok.... I guess so"

    on the way to her place, she begged me to go to karaoke night at another bar. I knew if I gave in, I would have to deal with the same game over again. I simply told her I would drop her off there (since it would be quicker than taking her to her place)

    when I pulled in, we said our goodbyes and hugged. as I pulled away, she looked me in the eyes and tried to kiss me. I pulled away.

    I could tell she was angry as she left, and mumbled something about me missing the opportunity...

    honestly I was glad to have her out of my car. even if she was hot, I had had enough of her games for one night.

    from now on, I'm not even going to bother amogging other guys, if a girl doesn't want to give me her attention, she doesn't deserve any of mine.

    too bad there weren't enough girls there for me to use her own game against her.....

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    Yeah that's just a bad situation with a shitty girl.

    I would of AMOGGED the dudes too at first, just because I'm an ass hole.
    You needed to just ignore her. Disinterest is key.
    If she flirts with another guy, you don't care.
    Hugs another guy, you don't care.
    Tries to make you jealous, you don't care. You go talk to other girls even just in a friendly way.
    She Kisses another guy, just leave. Like literally leave, because you don't associate yourself with girls who behave like that towards you.

    Then she'll text you, or try and get ahold of you and you cut her loose. I'm telling you, once you get a huge circle of girls YOU CAN be a total ass hole with how you want her to behave, straight up tell her you don't keep girls in your life who behave like she does and why, & if she doesn't like it, there's the road. You have other girls and you're the shit so she'll come back.

    Girls always come back, as long as you're not a little bitch when she leaves/you leave.

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    thanks kyle, I knew not to over- react, but I thought I would share my experience.

    she was trying to get me to come AMOG every guy in the place, but I wasn't going to waste that much energy.

    ignoring her caused her to keep coming back trying to get me back into her game.

    I'm not really mad about it like I was last night after I left. I realize now, that I wanted friends with benefits, while she wanted a relationship. I believe she was trying to demonstrate non-neediness, and trying to gain some power.

    I realize what she was trying to do, I believe she wanted to start a verbal fight that would end with me getting jealous and telling her I didn't want her flirting with other guys, to witch she would then try and get me to agree to her terms that I wouldn't flirt with other girls. but that argument never happened because I'm very good at staying calm. I knew not to play into her game.

    Girls always come back, as long as you're not a little bitch when she leaves/you leave.
    you got that right. lol

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    Haha! Don't you love that meteora?! I posted about a very similar experience about a month ago. (Let's talk about honesty thread) If you haven't read it yet, you will find the scenario to be almost identical.

    I used to let that crap bother me when I was less experienced. Now I find it annoying and I know EXACTLY what they are doing. I don't play games anymore because I know what I want. If you are a real man and know what you want games are totally unnecessary. When a girl does this sort of thing all I can think is "Oh you want to play THIS game. I can clearly see through your mirage and it's a turnoff. Bye."

    It's not worth the trouble and honestly, if she is causing drama like this now, think about the drama down the road.

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    Sweet!

    I've ACTUALLY DITCHED a girl who got waaaay too drunk & was all over everyone at the bar... even though we met up & went together... & things started out just fine.

    And yeah she was freakin HOT!! But waaaaaay too much drama for me to wanna deal with.

    It's funny.... but when you ditch a 10, you're making a statement to yourself.


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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    I love how everything you did tied in with the post you had about your "rules to the game" (again, most influential post I read here).

    I used to be affected by that stuff and tried really hard to get the attention back on me. Definitely worked against me

    I always AMOG when I have to, though. One way I do it is by talking the other "alpha" up ("Awesome, man!" "Yeah, I did something like that before, but that's way better! Tell me more!" etc) and making him my puppet.

    My favorite way, because I'm really lazy, is to physically dominate the other guys by giving firm handshakes. It's very subtle and they almost always comment, but I shrug it off with a simple, "whoops."
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    I used to let that crap bother me when I was less experienced. Now I find it annoying and I know EXACTLY what they are doing.
    yeah, I knew the game she was playing as soon as I engaged the first group (before she moved to another group and I ignored her) I had read about it in a book I have called "the gaggle" (a book written by a woman for how women can succeed in the dating field)

    I saw right through her, she was doing it out of insecurity because she wants a relationship, where as I'm not very interested in anything long term at this point in my life.

    I've ACTUALLY DITCHED a girl who got waaaay too drunk & was all over everyone at the bar... even though we met up & went together... & things started out just fine.

    And yeah she was freakin HOT!! But waaaaaay too much drama for me to wanna deal with.

    It's funny.... but when you ditch a 10, you're making a statement to yourself.
    nice, walking away might not get you laid, but it certainly feels empowering

    I love how everything you did tied in with the post you had about your "rules to the game" (again, most influential post I read here).
    I'm glad you're a fan

    and its been a while since I wrote that one, I have gotten to the point now where I hardly react to any games. in fact, it earned me the nickname "scotty stone cold" (because I always keep a cool head)


    My favorite way, because I'm really lazy, is to physically dominate the other guys by giving firm handshakes. It's very subtle and they almost always comment, but I shrug it off with a simple, "whoops."
    honestly amogging has never been my strongpoint. the way I see it either I have the girl or I don't. there isn't much in between those extremes. I really don't like competing for someone's attention, it just feels kind of beta to me....

    btw, candy needed a ride today. so I agreed in exchange for gas money. the whole car ride, she was acting like a dancing monkey trying to entertain ME. and she casualy suggested that I should take her out for lunch some time (I'm assuming so she can make up for the other night) oh how I love being a pick up artist

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    yeah, I knew the game she was playing as soon as I engaged the first group (before she moved to another group and I ignored her) I had read about it in a book I have called "the gaggle" (a book written by a woman for how women can succeed in the dating field)
    So a woman is giving other women advice to ACTUALLY do this? I can see how it would work on less experienced guys by making them jealous but I've stopped seeing two women because of this behavior. When you can see right through a girls actions, and understand what shes trying to do, it's a big turn off. If you've been with enough women you've run into this behavior multiple times and it will backfire on the girl.

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    Default Re: girl trys to mind fark me, i took the alpha way out.

    So a woman is giving other women advice to ACTUALLY do this? I can see how it would work on less experienced guys by making them jealous but I've stopped seeing two women because of this behavior.When you can see right through a girls actions, and understand what shes trying to do, it's a big turn off. If you've been with enough women you've run into this behavior multiple times and it will backfire on the girl.
    ah, I believe its more of a tactic for girls to use on guys who aren't near as secure as me or you. but yes the book specifically lists it as a tactic to use on the "less committed" types of guys.

    plus it makes perfect sense for her to do it as a test to see if it bothers me. after all the girl is a Stripper lol


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