First and foremost, please let me know if I am posting this in the wrong section...
Brothers.. I need some help..
I've been back on the market and actively pursuing new women for about 10 days... Thus far, I've been hitting up Tinder pretty hard, and it's brought me three dates since Friday... While tonight's date wasn't the best of the three, it was a solid second, and I'm in to her the most as of now.
Meet Christa.. She is a beautiful, 28yr old HB8 teacher who dresses, and holds herself like a lilac swaying in a wide open field. The way the wind blows her, and sun shines on her does nothing but enhance her beauty.
We met tonight at a a coffee shop in an entertainment district near downtown... I played the first 90 minutes (at least I think I did) very well. On a scale of 1-10, I would rate the first 90 minutes a solid 8....
She was running 10 minutes late... So I ordered my coffee, sat down, and checked my email, twitter, and FB.. When she approached, she asked if I was Nathan, which I replied, sorry, I'm not... She immediately blushed, and started to walk away.. After she took a few steps away, I said "Hey, just messing with you.. I'm Nathan", and to have a seat.... She laughed, and blushed, and I could tell that I threw her off in a good way.. She went to grab a tea, and returned a couple of minutes later..
I was happy when she took the lead and started asking me questions as soon as she came back... There was zero awkward silence, we just flowed from the start..
Once I had the opportunity to dig in I started in on some banter, and told her :I can tell that you are going to be trouble".. She smiled, and I added "You're not fooling me for a second... You may dress like this, and give off a sweet, and innocent look, but I can see your devil horns poking out from underneath your little halo." ( I swiped this from the Play by Play attraction Guide).... She smiled more, and said "you know, I hear that more than you think"
We talked more, and I asked her what she had done before meeting me tonight, to build rapport, and we talked and laughed quite a bit more... I honestly don't remember a time that became awkward throughout the entire night...
The coffee shop was closing, so I suggested that we get a drink for the road, and we took a walk throughout the bar district... The weather had turned colder and windy, and she quickly said that we would have to make this a quick walk since she was cold, and had forgotten her jacket (unfortunately, I did not have mine to offer her) We turned a corner, and I asked her to tell me a story... We conveniently cam across a table and two chairs, we sat, and I asked her to tell me a story (she's a writer too)... When she was done, we joked, and I told her that that was a really shitty story... and laughed some more... She asked me to tell her a story, so I did my best to explain to her the story of "On Seeing the 100% Perfect Girl One Beautiful April Morning" as Style told to Lisa in "The Game"... She was super impressed, and hung on to my words...
We restarted our walk, and after a block, I could sense her becoming a little uncomfortable. Maybe it was the wind and chill, maybe it was because we were becoming more isolated, and she suggested that we head back to her car...
That's when things turned a bit... When walking back, we lost a little of the vibe, and made it to her car... I had no time to initiate conversation for a K-close, and I didn't want a weird ending to the the evening... She said thank you, and we exchanged a quick, no-eye contact hug... I told her that we would talk soon, and she said ok..
On the drive home, I was beating myself up a bit, wondering how I could have closed out the date better, and at least ended up with a kiss...
When I got home, I figured it would be cool to tect her to make sure she made it home okay.. Here is the exchange...
Me:Make it home safely?
Her: Yes. Getting serious about packing. I really just want to go to bed.
Me: I'm sure you can make it happen.
Her: Think I can find a copy of that story online (referring to Finding the 100% Perfect Girl story)
Me: I had a really good time with you tonight... Unless you didn't, in which case, neither did I...
Her: Haha. Yes, I did thanks.
Her: I'm excited to explore Westport w nice weather.
Me: [sent her a link to the story]
Me: It will be warmer when you come back from Wisconsin. We can explore Westport then.
Her: Wow, that's a great post.
Her: I won't share it w 5th graders, but it's really good.
Me: Yeah, I knew you'd like it
... Here's my problem... I WANT THIS WOMAN... Maybe not forever, maybe not for a year.. but at the very least, I want to make her a 20 night stand!! She didn't react when I tried to tie her down to the second date of exploring Westport together... Is this a shit test??... She is leaving for the weekend... I'm just not sure where to go next... How can I create more attraction to bring her to me, at the very least to get a second date with her???? If I get the second date, I KNOW that I can run the K-close interaction with her.. Seal that, and at least run a variation of October Man on her... Please know that I do not want to use her at all... If I were speaking in AFC terms, She would definitely be a few steps out of my league, but I haven't totally out kicked my coverage... The way I look at it, if I'm not dating our of my league, I'm not doing my job as a man...
So where to I go from here brothers??? How to I create attraction with her while she's out of town this weekend so that I am the only person (or at least on the short list) that she thinks about when she's gone??
Fortunately, I have four dates between Friday and Monday, so I have things to keep her off my mind!
Thanks for your help,