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Thread: Screwed up on a 10...again

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    Default Screwed up on a 10...again

    I know I am against stores but yes I just approached a 10 in freaking Wal-Mart of all places. This chick was super tall (I am 6'3 and felt like she was up to me), okay face but slamming body. Had a fake rack and everything. But I opened her all wrong cuz I got nervous and forgot my line so I wung it and screwed up and lost her interest in about 1 minute.

    I find it so interesting the convo develops based on my opener and my mood. Granted I hate store approaches but trying to get better since this would be my 2nd store approach.

    InnateSeduction
    I follow innateseduction on instagram who posts a lot of outcome indendance and high value mindset stuff. So anyway his last post I really resonate with now. Basically I am just saying now I know the difference of what makes a good outcome. It's NOT the results. When I screw up my opener, transition, or closing then I am beating myself up after. It is rarely ever the girl I get mad at for rejecting me I get mad for something I screwed up on. So I strolled up to this 10 (My 4th or 5th in the Game) and at least I didn't say my sticking point 10 opener which is "What's Up" but I said my opener all wrong.

    Was intending to say
    "Hey gorgeous I don't mean to be rude but I would be kicking myself in the rear if I didn't come to talk to you."

    I played it safe instead said
    "I don't mean to be rude but I just had to come talk to you."

    Transition was Poor Form/Weak calibration for a half-assed opener
    "I make it a habit of talking to pretty ladies."

    And just downhill from there and didn't even close cuz I got all the bad vibes and bad signals and we all know I never close unless I get at least 1 IOI.

    So I just posted this on FB since I still felt it was an achievement of moving in the right direction of getting in the habit of talking to beautiful women everywhere I see and not just in the night spots I go to to prevent burn out and being a one trick pony.

    So anyways I am proud of myself for doing it and she was really nice which I wasn't expecting but she said "We work out." right away so I figured yep I screwed up royally that's why she hinted at a live-in BF.

    The Mindset
    So anyway I posted about this on FB and said on some HB8's models FB page since all the guys were feeding her validation and I think she makes me sick. I don't like 8's so just to have fun I said "I approach a 10 last night at Wal-Mart and she had a fake rack and everything!" What happens? She deletes the comment of course! Man these chicks can't handle the pressure of being portrayed her as abundance since I was attempting to lower her value. Anyway she just let's random guys blow up her half-naked pics with

    Gorgeous
    Dam you are so hot
    Take it all off!

    You get the idea it's a freaking turn off for all these guys trying to tap it in such a lame effort. Anyway I didn't resort to that and not trying to raise her interest level but in an attempt to let her know she ain't hot sh!t she proved how shallow she is by deleting my comment which contained a very simple compliment of a more beautiful woman which would lower her value by letting the other guys know there is better women out there. When all these guys are blowing her up she is put into scarcity and gets tons of validation but when put into abundance she obviously doesn't like it. This goes to show I don't need to lower my value for some fake 8 model who thinks she is all that. I can find porn star quality looking chicks at Wal-Mart! Of course rare but I am saying approaching beautiful women everywhere will raise my value as a whole and get me better overall.

    Conclusion
    It was a valuable lesson overall since I learned now it is just about making myself happy and making sure I am having fun. By doing so and opening/closing properly I will not lower my value regardless of the reaction of the girl since this is what we teach anyway to be "drawing state from within". Anyways this is what I think I am learning the most since I have YET to open a 10 properly. I have opened 80-90% of HB9's correctly though. It just seems 10's are on some level I will have to get to someday. This chick was also a cougar by the way. Anyways I learned the girl is only going to talk less or more based on my state so if my state is good and I am coming off high value the convo will go well most of the time.
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    Default Re: Screwed up on a 10...again

    Lol, how can someone with an "okay face" be a 10?
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Screwed up on a 10...again

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Lol, how can someone with an "okay face" be a 10?
    Well that's easy. Okay 10's are subjective to the observer. I have my standards and so does everyone else. What I consider an "8" other people might think a stunning 10. Either way I have my likes and dislikes of certain types.

    So anyways about this girl.

    Super Tall
    Short Blonde cropped hair
    Flat stomach
    Nice arse (slamming had a tatt on her right side I saw by accident when she was bending over)
    Did a double take and saw "the rack" (practically collapsed)

    Man they can have a perfect face but if their rack decides it all almost but not always. Great racks can make me give them a 10 and sometimes less than great and still get a 10. Just depends. Perfect racks don't always get my motor running but this chick had the most out of this world porn star quality rack I wanted to perform a rodeo right then and there. The face was "okay" but her rack more than made up for it. Not all porn stars have perfect faces but would be total 10's to me. Either way the face is not a deal breaker for me but the rack is.

    Like for instance this chick with a fake rack I saw at the Bar and know of on FB. Should be a total 10 w/a perfect rack and she has a better Yasmine Bleeth face than this Wal-Mart chick but still I rate her lower about an 8 because it depends on the whole package deal. I guess the okay face was a turn on with that bod. I am a bod man and it was so well proportioned I think I wanted to choke an elephant.
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    Default Re: Screwed up on a 10...again

    I don't get it..... So if her face was as banging as her body, what would she be then, a 12?

    Yes, a woman's attraction is subjective to the population, and a 10 to me may not be a 10 you. But how in the hell can she have an ok face and still be a 10? That literally doesn't make any sense. Obviously everyone has their flaws, but you yourself said she has an ok face.

    Imagine playing a video game with ok gameplay, but the graphics are amazing so you give it a 10. That doesn't make it a 10. A full cohesive package that presses and excels in all areas is what makes a 10. That's why a 10 is so rare. While I don't personally utilize the "numbers" system, your logic was excessively flawed, and I just had to say something. Other than that, good post.

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    Default Re: Screwed up on a 10...again

    @lilsting, quite the crowd pleaser aren't I? I don't know man it's just subjective. Like I say it just depends on the girl. Girls with better looking faces don't even come close to turning me on. It just depends as like I said subjective. And yes I would still score games with less than perfect graphics a 10. Such as FFXII which is choppy on PS2 and needs a graphical update. But FFXIII had great graphics and less than perfect gameplay. I would take gameplay over graphics just like I will take a bod over a face.

    Either way I am just saying. Sometimes you find a total "stunner". I saw another "10" at the Club the other night checking my diggs but she was with a dude all night so no go but I checked her up and down and her face was okay too. To me there is almost no girl with a perfect face. I have super high standards is all. Let's say she had "everything" and a perfect face. Doesn't really change my feelings about her so she is still a 10 not a 12. Also I wanted to note this is my scaling of 10's. Since 2013 I have approached 110 women and only come across 6 10's so they are very hard to come by to get on my scale. Sometimes I look past the face and give them a 10. Sometimes I see flawless perfection and give them an 8 because they get on my nerves and bug me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and true beauty is not based solely on what I see but what I feel. If I would be obsessed total 10. Same girl as far as looks but not feeling it then she gets marked off.
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