I know I am against stores but yes I just approached a 10 in freaking Wal-Mart of all places. This chick was super tall (I am 6'3 and felt like she was up to me), okay face but slamming body. Had a fake rack and everything. But I opened her all wrong cuz I got nervous and forgot my line so I wung it and screwed up and lost her interest in about 1 minute.
I find it so interesting the convo develops based on my opener and my mood. Granted I hate store approaches but trying to get better since this would be my 2nd store approach.
I follow innateseduction on instagram who posts a lot of outcome indendance and high value mindset stuff. So anyway his last post I really resonate with now. Basically I am just saying now I know the difference of what makes a good outcome. It's NOT the results. When I screw up my opener, transition, or closing then I am beating myself up after. It is rarely ever the girl I get mad at for rejecting me I get mad for something I screwed up on. So I strolled up to this 10 (My 4th or 5th in the Game) and at least I didn't say my sticking point 10 opener which is "What's Up" but I said my opener all wrong.
Was intending to say
"Hey gorgeous I don't mean to be rude but I would be kicking myself in the rear if I didn't come to talk to you."
I played it safe instead said
"I don't mean to be rude but I just had to come talk to you."
Transition was Poor Form/Weak calibration for a half-assed opener
"I make it a habit of talking to pretty ladies."
And just downhill from there and didn't even close cuz I got all the bad vibes and bad signals and we all know I never close unless I get at least 1 IOI.
So I just posted this on FB since I still felt it was an achievement of moving in the right direction of getting in the habit of talking to beautiful women everywhere I see and not just in the night spots I go to to prevent burn out and being a one trick pony.
So anyways I am proud of myself for doing it and she was really nice which I wasn't expecting but she said "We work out." right away so I figured yep I screwed up royally that's why she hinted at a live-in BF.
So anyway I posted about this on FB and said on some HB8's models FB page since all the guys were feeding her validation and I think she makes me sick. I don't like 8's so just to have fun I said "I approach a 10 last night at Wal-Mart and she had a fake rack and everything!" What happens? She deletes the comment of course! Man these chicks can't handle the pressure of being portrayed her as abundance since I was attempting to lower her value. Anyway she just let's random guys blow up her half-naked pics with
Dam you are so hot
Take it all off!
You get the idea it's a freaking turn off for all these guys trying to tap it in such a lame effort. Anyway I didn't resort to that and not trying to raise her interest level but in an attempt to let her know she ain't hot sh!t she proved how shallow she is by deleting my comment which contained a very simple compliment of a more beautiful woman which would lower her value by letting the other guys know there is better women out there. When all these guys are blowing her up she is put into scarcity and gets tons of validation but when put into abundance she obviously doesn't like it. This goes to show I don't need to lower my value for some fake 8 model who thinks she is all that. I can find porn star quality looking chicks at Wal-Mart! Of course rare but I am saying approaching beautiful women everywhere will raise my value as a whole and get me better overall.
It was a valuable lesson overall since I learned now it is just about making myself happy and making sure I am having fun. By doing so and opening/closing properly I will not lower my value regardless of the reaction of the girl since this is what we teach anyway to be "drawing state from within". Anyways this is what I think I am learning the most since I have YET to open a 10 properly. I have opened 80-90% of HB9's correctly though. It just seems 10's are on some level I will have to get to someday. This chick was also a cougar by the way. Anyways I learned the girl is only going to talk less or more based on my state so if my state is good and I am coming off high value the convo will go well most of the time.