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Thread: Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

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    Default Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

    Hello Gents! Swagman here with a field report of the long and amazing night. So what kind of grandeur and success did I have? You will actually be quite shocked to know that the answer is... nothing! I had no number closes, no kiss closes, not even a dance with a lady. So why is it then that I am still energized and happy?

    Let me teach you all a lesson that you should never forget.

    Recently I have begun to change my preference for the game. No longer do I feel the urge to go out and game girls often, nor do I go out simply for the desire to get some girls. I've migrated away from the physical, and now I long for the emotional side to things, where I can express myself and bond with a person without feeling like I'm running game anymore.

    My night went much like this: Went to the hookah lounge, sang Tiny Dancer for the first time ever on the open mic, and I did so while hilariously cradling myself in the lap of my best friend in my Fraternity (Note: my knees were SHAKING when I started because I don't sing in front of people). Then I went to the bars where I did more singing, took some pictures, and congratulated two birthday girls and had a great time with my friends.

    I did talk to a few new girls, and I had a fun time socializing with them, but I didn't get any numbers, I didn't get anywhere with them, simply because I chose not to. So what is the whole point of me telling you that I did not hook up with any girls whatsoever? It's a matter of understanding that it's not all about the girls.

    Having confidence, being successful, and being happy does not all rely on being able to go out and pick up any woman you please. In fact, it is just about the wrong way to do it. Yes, I do know that it makes you feel great to know that you can go out and get any girl you want when you're really good at the game, but that's not the whole picture. Trust me, I've been there and done that.

    True confidence, true happiness, everything necessary to having a healthy psyche all lies within you. Tonight, I did things that I never do, and all I ever wanted was to have a great time with friends, both guys and girls. Once you understand that life and the game is not about one thing, and you learn to live for yourself and love yourself with every ounce of your being, then you will become far more confident, happy, and successful than you could ever be focusing on only the ladies.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

    @Swagman...that's really well put! This is why I got into the game in the first place, it truly is a lifestyle. New guys will (and maybe rightly so) be intrigued at first because they can now pick up women they never would have had a shot with before. But as you become better and better at the game, you realize that it's all about making yourself happy and that's a hole no woman can fill (no pun intended).

    I'm glad I got to read this, good for you, man!

    -Shoreguy
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    Default Re: Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

    Its great to see someone come around like this. I've dated quite a few women, slept with quite a few and still have my random flings and f-buddies, but guess what? I was still unhappy after the interaction.

    I took the risk to fail, started chasing my dreams and that makes me much happier than any single woman can. Even in relationships I always felt unhappy and like something was missing, now I know why. It was because I had no accomplishments, no legacy. Only after these things fall into place can you truly begin to find happiness, and that is when you will find women of quality and value.

    Some of us are able to make a career and lifestyle out of pickup, but those are far and few between. Really being happy is about having something in your life to be proud of, rather than a person to fill that void.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

    Exactly my thoughts. I hanged out with 20 new people last week. I did get the number of tbe girl I liked in the group. But it wasn't anywhere near being my primary target.Until I met her....

    Story shortly. I opened a random group of people behind me at a bar. I hadn't even looked at them, only while I was opening them I noticed they were 7 birls and a guy. Nothkng more than a single number from an amazing girl. Still my best night out in my life.

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    Default Re: Swagman's Field Report: It's not all about the women

    Lol good shit brotha. Im proud.
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