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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 8:

    So usual routine. Out for run, but it was kind of grey today so not many people out and about.

    26. HB8: First person I opened was like 3km into my run. I honestly didn't see many viable candidates before this mark. Opened a girl who studied medicine, her body language was not receptive so I just dropped it.

    27. HB7: I went rock climbing tonight after only opening 1 person during my run, coming back it was dark and I was on my bike, passed by a girl tried to use the ask for directions opener. She didn't even flinch, very poor reception. Kind of threw me off a bit but w/e not a big deal

    That was it only 2 opens for today, should have had 1 more but I am glad I tried again at night even if it failed. I think part of it was because its dark and girls are more on guard during that time.

    End of Day 8. (8.97km, I literally tried to chase a jogger down to open her but missed the opportunity).

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    Day 9:

    Late update, since the run last night I was really tired so I didn't go for a run today. Instead I went bike riding and rock climbing at night. Here are my 3 sets today.

    28. HB8: While going grocery shopping saw her sitting on a bench. Went up and did my usual opener. Tried to create rapport with guessing her school and what she studies. Tried to set up a date for next time when she tried to guess where I was from, so I said 3 guesses if you guess wrong you will buy me coffe. She guessed wrong, got her number. I also tried some kino by touching her lips with my hands since she had a lip ring.

    29. HB9: Man this chick was gorgeous. Usually I have a limiting belief on sets higher than 8 but this time I let go of that and just went for it. She responded well and gave me her number.

    30. HB8: I was rock climbing and saw this chick running around the track, since she already saw me up on the high walls there was instant dhv. She actually said: "Wern't you just rock climbing?" I ran 1 lap with her set up for a date next time for monday at 7:30 for rock climbing. And I saw her again as I was running home from the gym and she was waiting for the bus. So I tried to text game her a bit, here is what has been said so far:

    Me: So you took the bus to (gym) to run? Lols why not just run to (gym)? I can't even talk to you anymore :P
    Her: You are not only straightfoward, ur also dramatic
    ME: Haha ok ok you don't have to sing all my praises like that save it for the date
    Her: Oh.... that date can't happen, I am already seeing someone.
    Her: There is a misunderstanding
    ME: That's cool me too. I am in a relationship with my goldfish. We are very committed.
    Her: So...you are a gold digger?
    Her: ok bad joke, there is no more witty in me after 10pm
    Her: Anyways good luck to you, enjoy your last days in (my town)
    Me: So you are going to end our interaction on that gold digger joke? At least pay me first for that
    Her: lol
    Me: So you must study medicine or law (name). Don't ask me how - I am psychic
    Her: Good night jack you're so silly
    Me: No seriously try thinking of a number between 1 and 10
    Her: Don't text, I am hopping in the shower and I don't carry my Alcatel with me.
    Her: Man you answered b4 I press send
    ME: Haha
    Me: I work fast
    Her: Ok don't text I am going to the bathroom now
    Me: Ewww Alcatel lols what are we in the 90s

    Ok thats the full extent of the convo so far. I am posting this up because I need tips on what I can improve in terms of my text game (please help as my text game needs lots of work). And what my next steps should be. The span of our text convo was almost instantaneous so I think the bf bit was just a shit test.

    End of Day 9

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 10:

    31. HB9: Usual opener, and tried to guess what she studies, I find this helps a lot to prolong the conversation. Got number, tried to set up date, she keeps giving out excuses. So in the end I left.

    32. HB8 Chinese: Usual opener, she asks me if I speak Chinese I said no and continued in French and English switch between the two. Finally when I revealed I did speak Chinese it was a good playful vibe and she went to hit me. Gona use that to my advantage next time (aka don't reveal your hand too soon). Got fb close and got her to agree to buy me coffee for next time as she failed to guess where I was from.

    33. HB7: Got number, she said she just got out of a relationship, used the gold fish diffuser and continued on my run.

    34. Ok not really a new opener but saw one of the girls I met way back in like day 2 or day 3. So I played the conversation off of that and got her to give me her fb contact info again since I didn't put it in my phone properly last time. Also set up solid plans for rock climbing date next week.

    End of Day 10 (5.19km)

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    Day 10 night + Day 11:

    Day 10 night:

    Last night I got #33 to come out for a walk with me around my house. She actually took a bus to get here. It began to rain a bit and so I suggested we take it back to my place. I had some guests over in the living room so that gave me the perfect excuse to bring her to my bedroom where we talked for ages. I built rapport with her and did some NLP stuff mixed in with kino. Learning from the mistakes of last time where I k-closed too fast and then the girl had buyers remorse. So I didn't try to push for k-close too hard. I suggested her to leave around 11pm and walked her back to the bus stop. We made plans to go on a second date next week Thursday.

    Day 11:

    35. HB8: I was riding my bike to go to the mall to sarge cause it was raining the whole day. While on my way I meet this HB8 and chat her up a bit, do a bit of push pull and got her number, I tried to arrange a date for monday night on the spot there but it wasn't a solid close as she said she might have yoga.

    36. HB8: The mall was closing in like 10 minutes when I got there so I didn't actually get to sarge at all. Just rode my bike back and sat on a bench for a while when I saw this HB8 walk pass. Tried to use a new opener but fumbled over the words then tried to recover with the 5 questions - with a bit of cold reading I was able to guess almost everything spot on. We sat on that bench for something like 30mins. This was my longest set and I feel like the rapport was good I just needed to do more kino. Anyways got her number and plans for a run date since she is also a runner.

    That was it for today, I have mixed feelings about today since I was being a little bitch at the mall as there were many opportunities. But I am happy about the progress I made in day game and running longer sets especially with building rapport and comfort.

    End of Day 11.

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    Day 12:

    I only did one set yesterday, it went from great to weird to I don't know. Well here it is:

    37. HB8: I was out on my usual run and I saw this girl who just got off the bus looking around like she was lost. So I opened with the are you lost routine. I then transitioned to something which I been using fairly often to great success -> the opinion transition (maybe I stole it off of here or somewhere else). Basically I set it up as really a big deal that they say the correct response. So I said to her: "Ok I am going to ask you a question, it's super important you answer correctly or it could be the end of our relationship so make sure you think hard before you answer ....... (usually they are curious at this time, pause for dramatic effect) whats your opinion of (insert random thing - for me I use boat shoes). She actually didn't know what they were and tried to google it up on her phone but didn't know how to type it, so she gave me her phone. At this point I tried another thing on her that I saw on Stuart Edge's video from youtube. I used her phone called my number and pretended to be speaking to my mom and said: "Hey mom, I just met this cute girl etc." That of course got a laugh, and I told her I will text her later.

    Fast forward I am done my run finished shower and start text game with her. Get her to agree to meet me at the mall to go boat shoe shopping with me, when I met her I told her she was going to be my girlfriend for a day. I was actually already thinking of buying boat shoes which is why I been using that opinion transition. So we hopped around the mall trying on shoes, the vibe was very playful.

    She threw at least 2 shit tests at my when we were in the mall.

    Shit test #1: talking on the phone when I arrived. I think I defused this one by physically taking it away from her and told her friend who sounded very AFC that I was borrowing her friend and he can talk to her later. I then put her phone in my backpocket and kept it with me for the whole time in the mall.

    Shit test #2: She went to say to one of her female friends who worked at the mall at a cosmetic place. I defused the situation by being confident and acting like I already met the friend.

    Once we were out of the mall I tried to get her to come back to my place. She said she wants me to meet her friend, and asked if he can come over to my place. I think this was another shit test and I simply didn't handle it well in retrospect. I said sure why not. He came by apparantly the reason why is because they work together and she wanted him to sell me internet for my home(wtf lols).

    At this point I got a massive boost in social proofing because 4 of my female friends came by to pick me up for a BBQ. So I went to the BBQ and said goodbye to the HB8 and guy.

    While I was at the BBQ I asked her what she was doing later tonight. She said she was going to a bar with a friend and invited me. We text game some more.

    In the end my BBQ finished really late and I didn't get back in time to meet them at the bar.

    Thing to note is that she actually was suppose to leave today to go back home for the summer. But apparently she changed her plans and is staying here one more week because of her friends.

    So that's it for day 12. I tried to invite her out to lunch today to which she rejected and said she was meeting the guy who came over yesterday so I simply cut communications. I think the best option now is to give her a Freeze Out - what do you guys think?

    End of Day 12.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    sounds like you're doing well. don't over think it. it didn't come across that you guys had any Kino. she hasn't earned enough of your attention yet. maybe invite her to something that's pretty easy going--maybe something with a lot of your friends. then maybe see how she reacts. so far you've met some of her friends while she hasn't really met yours--by introducing her to your friends might balance things out a bit for comfort but it doesn't sound like it's needed for attraction. if you invited her to something and she doesn't know that you're having friends tag along too that might build tension while you can probably ignore her through most of it and then at some point where you can tell she's starting to turn sour you ditch your friends and Isolate her for the k-close. you have many options really considering she seems pretty attracted to you already by inviting you out. don't spend too much time in your head when she brings up the other guy. think of him as the guy in the friend zone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    sounds like you're doing well. don't over think it. it didn't come across that you guys had any Kino. she hasn't earned enough of your attention yet. maybe invite her to something that's pretty easy going--maybe something with a lot of your friends. then maybe see how she reacts. so far you've met some of her friends while she hasn't really met yours--by introducing her to your friends might balance things out a bit for comfort but it doesn't sound like it's needed for attraction. if you invited her to something and she doesn't know that you're having friends tag along too that might build tension while you can probably ignore her through most of it and then at some point where you can tell she's starting to turn sour you ditch your friends and Isolate her for the k-close. you have many options really considering she seems pretty attracted to you already by inviting you out. don't spend too much time in your head when she brings up the other guy. think of him as the guy in the friend zone.
    Thanks for the advice bro . We had some kino in the mall but it wasn't very continuous cause she kept recoiling back at them. The best one was that we were talking about fashion and she said I must be gay since I liked fashion while we were in the mall. I said: "I am super gay and slapped her ass "

    So I should invite her out in a group setting but should I tell her there will be other ppl around or let that be a surprise? Also the problem is she is leaving in a week so my time options is kind of limited.

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    in my opinion it depends. if you don't think she's fully head over heels for you then don't tell her that friends are going to be there. make it seem like its almost a date and give your friends more attention. AFC Adam London did this to a girl once in one of his seminars. within 10 minutes after his friends (whom were all girls) left he kissed closed her and later ended up f-closed. it depends on the girl and your game. remember you want to evoke her emotions so she gets more invested into the game than you do. treat everything like its fun, normal and a good time. when showing your dominance your goal is to look out for the group. that's the logic behind your friends and her being out and about. be keen to sensing how much she can put up with--don't ignore her but don't give her more attention than your friends.

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    i guess if you're short on time... call her up and ask if she's got like a pot or pan or something to cook in... if you can cook tell her you'll be over in "X" minutes with ingredients. it's spontaneous--then you're there already sharing a meal and at her place--she doesn't have to go anywhere and you can seal the deal.

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    Day 13:

    So after the missed opportunity yesterday to meet up with #37. I was feeling like shit today. I didn't go for a run or try to run game in the day time and since I only approached 1 girl yesterday that made me feel more shit. So I decided to go rock climbing to lift my mood. Lucky for me there was some opportunities at rock climbing and I actually kiss closed someone from today

    38. HB10: Hot cheerleader who was getting her picture taken at the front desk walked into the gym just as I was getting in too, so I walked pace with her and chatted a bit. Unfortunately her cheerleading practice was in another room and I didn't get the chance to Number Close with our interaction being so short.

    39. HB7: While I was rock climbing I saw this girl run around the track. So I let her pass me one lap and took off my shoes and ran pace with her. I opened with a simple hi and transitioned into: "want to be my run buddy?" She is from France and so doesn't have a cell phone so I facebook closed and will try to set up rock climbing date at a later time.

    40. HB7: Same deal as #39 in terms of opening. I challenged her to a race with loser buying tea. Of course she lost and we left to get tea. She said she forgot to bring her wallet but will go back home and come back again. I knew I couldn't let her leave if I wanted to close tonight. So I bantered with her a bit and pretended to forget she didn't bring her wallet. We went to this tea place and sat down for 30 minutes building rapport and comfort. She was telling me a lot of stuff. I did the cube test and her horse matched me almost to a T. So we joked about that some more. Finally when it came time to leave I negged her about having me pay for it and she promised to pay for the next one.

    She told during tea about one of the student film projects she did. I used that as an excuse to get her to come back to my place to watch the video together. In exchange I said I was going to show her one of my stand up comedy videos (which I wanted to do anyways to show dhv).

    We get back to my place, watch some videos, kiss close on the couch and take her hand and lead her back to my room. Tried to f-close but there was too much resistance and so we set up to meet again on Wednesday for 1/2 a day. She is very receptive and I think the chance of f-closing on Wednesday is about 70% at this point.

    End of Day 13.


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