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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    I like your courage and will power..trust me..you gonna see the fruits of your efforts down the road..keep on coming and post your progress log here..focus on balancing details of the game with bigger picture..Thats how you tighten your game..I also like your persistence..Remembe r persistence is to man as carbon is to steel..cheers and happy gaming
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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Quote Originally Posted by Vere View Post
    I like your courage and will power..trust me..you gonna see the fruits of your efforts down the road..keep on coming and post your progress log here..focus on balancing details of the game with bigger picture..Thats how you tighten your game..I also like your persistence..Remembe r persistence is to man as carbon is to steel..cheers and happy gaming
    Thanks bro it's really a big energy/ego booster when everything goes right And I am learning to not be so result oriented which paradoxically has actually made me better at game I feel.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 14:

    The weather was perfect today for a run. And I was on top of my game, I really felt on form today.

    41. HB8: Ran up usual opening. Some banter, did the boat shoes transition and finally number closed. Her English was not so great so I had to compensate with lots of French and kino. Like I would push pull her saying we can't be together when she said some answer to my question and also hug her at the same time.

    42. HB9: She was wearing one of these pink tops with yoga capris. OMG so hot. Anyways did usual opening and she told me she was a cook, so I did some role play and asked her what she was going to make me for our first date - to which she complied and told me some dish. Got her number and tried to set up date right there, but too much resistance so will try later in text.

    43. HB9: A nerdy type of hot. But hot nontheless, I actually ran past her earlier but didn't open her cause she was with another girl and a bunch of people waiting for the bus. She actually saw me talk to #42. But I was feeling good so I opened her with my usual smile. Did some stupid cold reading with the school she goes to. She played along sarcastically saying: "you must be psychic! WOW!" So I played it up even more by responding: "Wait don't be impressed so fast, I am sensing you also like cute puppies etc." We banter in this fashion for a while, did some kino with an opinion transition. Tried to Number Close but she said she has to go to school. I think part of it is cause she saw me picking up the other girl lols. But I am just enjoying it at this point to even care whether I number closed or not haha.

    44. HB10: This tall model type was sitting on her second floor balcony when I ran past so I waved to her, she waved back and I took that as my cue to open. So we talked a bit, I tried to get her to come down to which she said she is only wearing pyjamas. And then I tried to invite myself up. To which she said no haha. At one point she tried to shoo me away by telling me I should go finish my run. Of course I couldn't let her destroy my frame so I said: "Whoa are you always this demanding? We just met and you are already giving me orders." I felt this was not going anywhere after like 10 minutes of conversation, and so I tried to exit on my own terms by asking her about the places she traveled to. It is mainly resort destinations so I negged her on that and said I can't even talk to you anymore (in a playful way) and continued my run. I think there is still the possibility of trying to game her if I see her again. But I would like to know what else I could have done in this situation.

    45. HB9: She was sitting on her front lawn reading something. I ran past and came back to sit with her.
    Her: What are you doing?
    Me: You know just out for a run and talking to pretty girls
    So we bantered some more and I sat there doing the cube test with her. Except this time I only explained the first 2 things and did not explain everything (always leaving them wanting more ) She actually number closed me, she has a philosophy exam and she said to give me her number and she will text me later. So we exchanged numbers and maybe I will meet with her in the afternoon.

    46. HB6: She was standing near the intersection, I ran back to talk to her but her body languge was closed and the interaction was poor so I just said good bye.

    47. HB8: I already reached my goal for today of at least 3 but I was feeling so good that by the time I got home I decided to run a bit more. So I did the usual opening with this girl, some banter and tried to number close, but it didn't happen. Oh well, can't win them all

    End of Day 14 (6.74km)

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    Day 15:

    So today was the day I was suppose to meet up with #40, but yesterday she flaked over text saying her work called her in. It seems the attraction is still strong though since she proposed we meet tomorrow and added me on facebook. Or it could be she just wanted to make sure i wasn't going to kill her lols. Either way I played it cool and agreed for date tomorrow.

    At the same time I tried to get #37 to come out today. After much negging in text and finally showing up here is what went down (I copied and pasted what I was telling my PUA friend in Japan):

    Lols this chick. So I negged her in text. Arrived late. She said over text if I do that next time she won't meet me. So I said: oh so we are going to meet next time :P

    We were walking and she was trying to lead me through this shortcut so I was like No walk on main road. So we parted ways and then joined up again. I made a really big show of walking slowly as I was coming close to her. Joined up again. Body langue noticeably different than before. More submissive. I asked her what was the happiest time in her life. She said she doesn't know. I negged: wow it's like I'm talking to a truck in reference to earlier texts. So she said do you want me to leave? I said: yea if you are not going to talk then maybe that's better. So she left.

    What's my play here? I think I can't message her anymore or its going to be super weak. And move on to the next one or wait for her to message.

    Once I parted ways with #37 I proceeded to go on with my normal routine for the day since I couldn't let her destroy my frame. I was going shopping at the mall and so thats where I went.

    48. HB9: She was eating an apple, as I was walking past her I used: "An apple a day keeps the doctor away" to open. It worked pretty well. Transitioned into "I am a psychic" routine where I try to guess where she studies and stupid obvious stuff. Tried to Number Close but she said she couldn't so we said goodbye.

    49. HB8: While walking inside the mall I saw her at the checkout of one store and when she sat down on a bench I took my chance and said hi. She was very obviously startled so I reassured her that I was not going to kill her lol. Transitioned into guessing game. Then to cube test. Tried to dangle the carrot infront of her with the final two analysis, but since my beginning analysis wasn't super on the mark she was not as interested. So we said goodbye.

    That was it for today, no number closes and a new situation in terms of shit tests. But overall still a good day. Learn new things and try new things everyday.

    End of day 15.

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    Day 16:

    Excuse the late report. I actually typed this up yesterday but my computer froze

    So today I had my second date with #40 who I k-closed the other night. But more on that later first I went out for my run and did my 3 approaches.

    50. HB7: She was sitting on a bench waiting for the bus I jogged past and came back and tried a new line I read somewhere: "Hi, I am here to flirt with you." Not a very good response from her: " No thank you I am married." I think the problem was also my delivery - it was weak and not full of conviction or confidence.

    51. HB8: Same deal as before tried the new line. Again poor reception: "No thank you I have a bf." But I adjusted my delivery to be a bit better this time.

    52. HB8: Coming back almost to my house had to open at least one more, I tried the usual Hi but her body language was closed so I just complimented on her shoes and went back home.

    Ok now for the actual date I went on today. We agreed to meet up to go bike riding into a nearby park. As soon as I met her I made a fatal mistake that would haunt me for the rest of the date. I rode my bike to her and it was difficult to do any sort of kissing or Kino/hugging. So we just said hi. But that first interaction set the tone for the date, and for the rest of the date we didn't have a lot of kino. We still had good conversation/rapport though.

    Anyways after the park we went back to my place where I cooked her some dinner with candles and shit. It was well received but trying to get her to come back to the bedroom was more of an uphill battle. So we sat in the living room for a bit. But she was sitting on the computer chair instead of the sofa. So that decreased the opportunities for kino which I knew could ruin me. So I used a text game routine on her. Basically it went like this:

    Me: Hey I gotta ask you something.
    HEr: What??? (all curious and stuff)

    Basically I get her to come sit next to me on the sofa. Play the question up like I been dying to ask her since I met her. Pique her curiosity until she can't take it anymore then look her in the eyes and asked:

    "Do you prefer coke or pepsi?" LOLS, it worked like a charm, now I was in. Used that to tease her and kino her now that she is sitting next to me. Also did some NLP hypnosis kino stuff. Finally got her to come back to my room.

    Unfortunately she was on her period and I had a couple of people staying at my house so no f-close again. But she gave me a hj and we made plans to meet again on Monday.

    End of day 16 (5.96km)

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    Huh.. Hj no bj? She didnt want any bloody action?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Huh.. Hj no bj? She didnt want any bloody action?
    Yea honestly after thinking about it some more I think I am just bad with LMR and moving it to a close in general. I need help in all aspects of game to be fair but LMR in particularly.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Did you get one finger in? Well AFC Adam london had a story where you could use to your advantage. Basically picked up chick from club he said he was too tired to drop her off and would do that in the morning. To throw off her LMR he preped his bed for her and the couch for him. He'd tuck her in and talk and then escalate. Eventually one finger led to another but would never let her climax. Because he did that for 20 mins she was ready togo and no LMR.

    Another story of his was he was under a time crunch and got her to the bed and puahed her on it. She said he wasnt going to get laid. He said "im going to count to 5 and if you push me off i'll stop" so he kissed between counting and at 5 a piece of clothing came off. Now she would basically stop him at every piece of clothing but repeated the countdown. Because he distracted her with good feelings he eventually broke through the LMR.

    You should look up the Kino bombshell btw
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Day 17:

    So I got a date with #32 whom I fb closed the other day. But more on that later. Here are my approaches for today.

    53. HB8: She had really interesting hair color - it was purple and so I used that as an opener. Then did some cold reading about her natural hair color. Went in for Number Close, she suggested fb and so I went with that. Honestly it was so weak but I didn't know what to do at the time. Thoughts?

    54. HB7: She was jewish and super religious, when I approached her she was so happy and smiling but as soon as I started to run kino game on her she told me how religious she was. And so that lead into a discussion about religions and such (not the route I wanted to go). But number closed and don't think anything can come out of this.

    55. HB7: Did the text game opener about pepsi or coke with added in kino. Her body language was closed so I didn't even try for number close.

    56. HB9: Ran past and said hi, very weak reception so I just dropped it.

    57. HB7: Tried a new line: "Are you good at receiving compliments from strangers?" Her English was not that good so I had to explain which took the magic out of it. And in the end she didn't play along.

    Date with 32:

    So we agreed to meet up today for coffe and she was going to buy because she lost a game we played on our first encounter. We had text gamed the day prior about me being an axe murderer since I kept bumping into her once at the mall and once while I was on my bike with #40. I don't know if that helped me or not. But we had a great conversation and chemistry while at coffee.

    I did my usual rapport building set with the cube test, some cold readings and she was very engaged in the conversation. Made some BS up about ESP and testing for 6th sense. We went back to my place with that as the guise (more quiet etc). Once we were inside I showed her around the house and took her back to my room for the test.

    She was sitting on the edge of my bed, I eventually got her to simply lie down facing up with her eyes closed. So I went in for the k-close. I did kiss her but she recoiled I didn't want to push to hard. She said she has to go. I think I pushed too fast being the problem. From her getting inside my house to my trying to kiss her was in the span of 15 minutes.

    So after that I was in damage control mode, I just played it cool and said hey lets sit in the living room then. We talked some more, did some smaller kino in the living room. Finally she was about to leave and went in for the k-close again, she was more receptive this time. And we agreed to meet maybe Sunday.

    Need advice.

    End of Day 17 (6.06km).

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    for the kiss i think you can't pull any tricks to get a kiss. even though there are some routines--most of them are pretty straight forward. if the kiss comes off as deceptive it reads as disingenuine, too forward, too soon. she needs time to back out. if she's given time to back out usually she's more inclined to kiss because you've given her the option.

    as for the girl with the hair color thingy--you didn't give a lot of details to give any real advice other than maybe keep pursuing..? i think with this day in age of technology we have to start accepting the fact that a FB close is still a close. FB has all of the same rules in gaming as Texting--keep everything short simple, fun and have everything always leading up to meeting up so more comfor rapport and / breaking rapport can be established.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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