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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 18:

    So I haven't yet opened anyone today. But I did go out for my morning run. I was gaming #45 for a couple of days over text and it was very fun and flirty vibe. I told her I was a drug dealer and we agreed to exchange her teas for my drugs. LOL obviously she knows I am not a drug dealer, but I used that as a guise to get her to come over to my house.

    Learning from the mistakes from before I took things slow. First I was just doing my thing when she showed up. I was cooking lunch and later after we were lying in bed she told me specifically that was a big thing for her (cooking healthy). So since she already ate we sat down and talked for about anything, sharing stories and building rapport and comfort. What also helped me was that two people showed up (both girls). They were my airbnb guests. This provided social proof even though it was the first time I met them. And finally we chatted all together for a while again me sharing my dhv travel stories etc.

    Finally my guests left and I got her to come to the sofa to sit down with me. The whole time I was thinking of a way to kiss close her there so I can move her to the bed room. So finally I came up with a plan. I got her to sit close to me and said I wanted to try something on her. Of course at this time she was already in a trusting mood with me. And using a variation of the mystery method I got her first to hold my hands while I put my shoulders around her. Then I asked her to imagine her most relaxing place, and asked her who was there with her. She said her mom and dad etc. Finally I asked: "Are you sure there is no one else there? Someone who is in this room?" She smiled and said of course: "you". I knew at this point I was in, so I just asked her: would you like to kiss me? She actually leaned in for the kiss there.

    Perfect time to move to the bedroom, I said something about cuddling her. Got her back to my bed, used reverse psychology: "We can't have sex tonight". etc. Finger banged her to completion, cuddled for a bit more, she was giving just a little bit of LMR when I tried to take off her shorts. But I felt like this was a sure thing and I actually might want to date this girl rather than just a One Night Stand. So I sent her away to meet her friends, and we might meet either tonight or tomorrow night to finish the deed.

    End of Day 18 (4.11km).

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    Day 18 cont.

    So after the date I went out to do my rounds.

    58. HB8: As I was riding my bike I saw her. So turned around and did my usual opening. Somehow she was very perceptive of what was going on and said out right she had a bf but with a kind of sympathetic look. I probably should have pushed further with bf destroyers. But instead I left it at that.

    59. HB6: She was sitting alone in a bus shelter. Again went in for approach, was very shy and timid. To the point where she was even hesitant to give out her name.

    End of Day 18.

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    Day 19:

    So today I met up with two girls (separately). I am really starting to see the seeds I plant coming into full plants....almost.

    So I woke up as usual and did my morning run, didn't open anyone because now I feel without rapport its difficult to get them to come out on a date. So I try to game while I am not running when I can or when I can actually sit down and have a 20 minute conversation with them.

    After the run I went outside to read a bit and go play some ultimate frisbee with friends. While taking a break I opened a girl who was sitting and watching us play/relaxing in the sun.

    60. HB7: I simply said hi, it was well received because my body language and the dhv in playing frisbee prior. Chatted a bit, I fucked up by saying that I was dared to come say hi to her even though I wasn't. After that it was harder to Number Close. I was about to leave and she asked me what I did here for job, which I took as IOI, but since she was leaving next week I didn't really try to follow up on that. So no close. I need to work on going to it without thinking about the consequences if nothing out but to help my game.

    So after the frisbee game I met up with the first girl.

    Date with #39:
    She had booked the squash court the day before and so we played squash together. I am pretty decent at it and lost on the first game to her barely. On the second game it was near dinner time I figured out logistics first by asking her what she was doing after. She said nothing. So I said lets bet, whoever wins this game gets a free dinner from the loser. She was game, of course I won. I didn't want a free dinner though, I needed to get her back to my house and so I told her to buy the groceries and I will cook at my house. So that's what we did, I cooked some asian food complete with candles and shit. She was really surprised by that and I think that made gaming her a lot easier.

    So again as last time I did the cube test, trust test and talked some more to build comfort and rapport on the sofa. I k-closed her there, pulled her up to her feat and was trying for a f-close. So I cavemaned it and carried her to my room, but at this point she was starting to freak out a bit. So I apologized and brought her back to the living room again. Again talked some more re-establish comfort. Because I was dead on with the cube test, I played off my actions like it was a test and she totally bought it.

    Eventually I did get her to my room, by simply leading her by her hand. Made out some more, but no f-close. I was also thinking logistics because I was suppose to meet the second chick at 9 and it was almost 8:50.

    So I actually told her she should leave and got her out of my house. But we made plans to see each other again and there are a lot of good feelings from this encounter.

    Meet with #45:
    So about 20 minutes after #39 left, #45 showed up at my door. She actually worked today and just finished and came to my place. So I figured the f-close was in the bag. Especially since she was leaving for Europe for 2 weeks tomorrow. But alas I suck at LMR and so that didn't happen. HJ and finger bang were the order of the day. Fuck I need to work on LMR. I leave them with good feelings after though but I just can't bring myself to push through their objections.

    Really need help, since this is the second or third time this has happened.

    End of Day 19 (4.85km)

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    #60 you should have still shown interest in her regardless of her leaving in a week. tell her she's interesting and you want to know the rest of her story (this could mean many things--the stuff you guys already covered--or some of the extra details she might have left out). i just like the idea of there always being some kind of door open.

    #39 sounds like fun --how did you caveman her besides picking her up? did you litearlly just go from kissing to picking her up? lol. i think you should have just tried to lift both shirts to touch stomachs--that would have made her feel like things were going to move that way--let her pull up shirts... if that doesn't work maybe try push and pull with Kino.

    #45 how did LMR happen? you know you can do the count down method right? (This was actually AFC Adam London's method) when she says "we're not going to have sex" say... "we'll see. I'm going to keep going and count to 5, you can stop me at anytime before i reach 5." as you say all of this you mix it up with kissing, touching maybe even a little heavy petting. try kissing in between every other word. remember your goal is to take off one piece of clothing off of her, once its off give her time to adjust and be comfortable for a minute or two before you escalate to the next piece of clothing. if she reiterates again --just rinse and repeat this process until she's naked or has pushed you off. DO REMEMBER you start kissing as soon as you start saying it... but the idea is you're distracting her after acknowledging it IF she hasn't pushed you off of her. if that's the case then start all the way back from comfort and no sexual escalation. Another way you can break through LMR is to escalate verbally while making out. if you're standing or laying on top of each other one good method is to slide your kneed up and down her crotch--you're basically getting her ready without using your hands so she can't really complain--its more like dancing than a sexual act at this point. lol, if she soaks through you know you're good to go.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    #60 you should have still shown interest in her regardless of her leaving in a week. tell her she's interesting and you want to know the rest of her story (this could mean many things--the stuff you guys already covered--or some of the extra details she might have left out). i just like the idea of there always being some kind of door open.

    #39 sounds like fun --how did you caveman her besides picking her up? did you litearlly just go from kissing to picking her up? lol. i think you should have just tried to lift both shirts to touch stomachs--that would have made her feel like things were going to move that way--let her pull up shirts... if that doesn't work maybe try push and pull with Kino.

    #45 how did LMR happen? you know you can do the count down method right? (This was actually AFC Adam London's method) when she says "we're not going to have sex" say... "we'll see. I'm going to keep going and count to 5, you can stop me at anytime before i reach 5." as you say all of this you mix it up with kissing, touching maybe even a little heavy petting. try kissing in between every other word. remember your goal is to take off one piece of clothing off of her, once its off give her time to adjust and be comfortable for a minute or two before you escalate to the next piece of clothing. if she reiterates again --just rinse and repeat this process until she's naked or has pushed you off. DO REMEMBER you start kissing as soon as you start saying it... but the idea is you're distracting her after acknowledging it IF she hasn't pushed you off of her. if that's the case then start all the way back from comfort and no sexual escalation. Another way you can break through LMR is to escalate verbally while making out. if you're standing or laying on top of each other one good method is to slide your kneed up and down her crotch--you're basically getting her ready without using your hands so she can't really complain--its more like dancing than a sexual act at this point. lol, if she soaks through you know you're good to go.
    #39: I moved from kissing to standing up with her then just grabbing her ass with both my hands and carrying her to my room. But yea next time definitely I will try to stomach thing.

    #45: I will try that next time. So let say I take off her top once I am at five, do I keep counting from one again for the next piece . And how fast should these counts be spaced? Sorry for the noob questions. Is there a video of this?

    So pretty much the first time we met I tried to prevent LMR by physically saying that we are not going to have sex before she did. And so she was thinking about that for LMR. She is comfortable having me finger bang her (with panties on) and it was like niagara falls down there but I just couldn't get her clothing off.

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    Day 20:

    So today I felt really tired from all the sports I did yesterday. So I did not run. Instead I did some errands and went to the park to go approach. Here are my sets.

    61. HB8: I went to a radio station to pick up some vouchers that I bought. She was the receptionist, so I chatted her up a bit, went in for the "serious questions" routine about coffe vs tea after we pinky swore to be truthful. She had a bf so I asked her if she had any single friends, that was actually really well received and she took down my number then gave me hers and so she is going to set me up (still not sure if she is going to do it or not). But I guess I number closed her albeit indirectly.

    62. HB7: Coming out of the radio station I saw a girl from across the street. She was waiting for the light to turn green, I walked closer to the intersection and waited as well, when she came closer I started to wave really enthusiastically. She ignored me so I didn't pursue.

    63. HB8: Went to the park, saw this girl sitting alone and approached. Opened with "I promised myself to talk to the most beautiful girl in the park". Well received. Sat down to talk to her a bit, she laughed a lot but other than that no other IOIs. I kinoed her and she was ok with that as well. But she didn't show any interest in me, she also was leaving the next day to go back to France. Her English was not that good so that could have been the reason as well. I tried to fb close anyways in the end but she said she did not have fb.

    64. HB8: Also a girl reading in the park. Ran cube test and "serious question" routine. She said neither for coffe or tea. So I didn't try to Number Close. Also she wasn't interested in the answers of the cube test. Not enough IOIs to try to close.

    End of Day 20.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    #61--wow that's an interesting turn of things. i'd like to hear how this turns out if she ever responds lol.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    yho bro can you share the serious questions with me

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    Quote Originally Posted by minghus View Post
    yho bro can you share the serious questions with me
    Sure its pretty much taken from a text game routine that I saw and modified it for real life. Basically you interrupt her or when the conversation is dull and say:

    You: "Hey I gotta ask you a serious question."
    Her: "ok...."
    You: "Ok but I want you to be honest with me, can you promise me that?"
    Her: "ok. (more curious).
    You: "Ok, but I just want to make sure you will tell me the truth before I ask this, even if you think it's going to make me mad etc."
    Her: "ok, giggling and stuff (she should be really curious at this point).
    You: "Ok lets pinky swear it (do the pinky swear with bow and KISS with your thumbs)

    Finally after you built up all this curiousity ask your question with a really serious look on your face until you reveal the punchline:

    You: Do you prefer coke or pepsi? (big grin)

    And then just proceed to either bust her balls or build rapport. I tried it also with coffee or tea (sometimes if the attraction is enough you can Number Close after that and it is pretty natural, but as I found out the hard way, if there is not enough attraction and you spring this on her it comes off weird and is hard to recover from).

    Also tell her to give you her hand while you are running this for free Kino.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    btw:
    @45 min 30 seconds on this video clip for LMR... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS0kEBmPXvY

    & at 52 min he demonstrates a few examples of how you can turn a yes into a no or a no into a yes.

    and lastly for the countdown method...
    PUA Adam Lyons | The World's #1 Pickup Artist | Full Length HD - YouTube
    @40 mins on another LMR technique..
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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