So I haven't yet opened anyone today. But I did go out for my morning run. I was gaming #45 for a couple of days over text and it was very fun and flirty vibe. I told her I was a drug dealer and we agreed to exchange her teas for my drugs. LOL obviously she knows I am not a drug dealer, but I used that as a guise to get her to come over to my house.
Learning from the mistakes from before I took things slow. First I was just doing my thing when she showed up. I was cooking lunch and later after we were lying in bed she told me specifically that was a big thing for her (cooking healthy). So since she already ate we sat down and talked for about anything, sharing stories and building rapport and comfort. What also helped me was that two people showed up (both girls). They were my airbnb guests. This provided social proof even though it was the first time I met them. And finally we chatted all together for a while again me sharing my dhv travel stories etc.
Finally my guests left and I got her to come to the sofa to sit down with me. The whole time I was thinking of a way to kiss close her there so I can move her to the bed room. So finally I came up with a plan. I got her to sit close to me and said I wanted to try something on her. Of course at this time she was already in a trusting mood with me. And using a variation of the mystery method I got her first to hold my hands while I put my shoulders around her. Then I asked her to imagine her most relaxing place, and asked her who was there with her. She said her mom and dad etc. Finally I asked: "Are you sure there is no one else there? Someone who is in this room?" She smiled and said of course: "you". I knew at this point I was in, so I just asked her: would you like to kiss me? She actually leaned in for the kiss there.
Perfect time to move to the bedroom, I said something about cuddling her. Got her back to my bed, used reverse psychology: "We can't have sex tonight". etc. Finger banged her to completion, cuddled for a bit more, she was giving just a little bit of LMR when I tried to take off her shorts. But I felt like this was a sure thing and I actually might want to date this girl rather than just a One Night Stand. So I sent her away to meet her friends, and we might meet either tonight or tomorrow night to finish the deed.
End of Day 18 (4.11km).