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    Day 21:

    Late update. Biggest part of this update is I f-closed #40.

    So I used a flirty text to get her over: "I am luring girls to my house with Candy - do you prefer skittles or snickers?"

    We texted some more after that until finally she said she was coming over at around 10pm. But she finally actually started to move her ass around 11pm. The bus here in my city stops around 12:45. Taking that into account I knew I just had to stall around until that time and used that as my game plan. In addition I tried to set my frame as "I am the prize" and that helped a lot. When she came in, I sat her down on the couch and just talked like we would old friends to establish comfort. I didn't try any Kino at this point for about 1 hour or so. Around 12:30 I started to phase shift into more kino and finally we moved to the bedroom.

    After sex the conversation was more open and great. We plan to meet up again Monday for geocaching.

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    The other notable thing that happened today was my frame/attitude shift.

    I have a friend who is in town and he heard about my cold approaches through mutual friends. And he messaged me yesterday to say he wanted to do it as well. So I invited him to come join me in the morning for my run.

    In the morning he didn't show up at the time we agreed to I sent him a text and he replied that he thought he messaged me on fb that he changed his plans and wanted to go to yoga class instead (he did not actually message me). The old me would have said w/e no big deal. But since I started these cold approaches I have begun to think more about how I present myself to the people around me. So instead I said: "Not cool dude. You should have messaged me instead of me waiting for you."

    I hope to continue this frame/attitude.

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    65. HB8: A cashier at a grocery store. Wasn't a direct open, she miscanned an item of mine. I had to go to another desk to get it sorted out, so I kept looking at her and when we made eye she was doing a cutsy frown and I did the same. I guess I should have opened her there, but I lacked motivation this morning after the incident with my friend and the weather was bad outside. Anyways when I left she smiled at me. Maybe try to open again next time since I always shop at this store.

    End of Day 21.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Rad dude. Now im curious--would you mind elaborating on the Phase Shift a but? Just curious myself about other people's escalation journey since a lot of guys tend to freedze right here
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Rad dude. Now im curious--would you mind elaborating on the Phase Shift a but? Just curious myself about other people's escalation journey since a lot of guys tend to freedze right here
    Sure pretty much we were sitting really far apart like 1 arms length apart on the sofa. Then I told her to simply give me her hand. She did and I pulled her in closer, I was kind of at a lack of ideas on what to do now. But because we had previously kiss and made out it wasn't weird.

    She asked me if I was going to read her palms, I said why not and just made up some bs on the fly. One of her lines was really short so I joked and said that was the life line and that she is going to die soon (in a jokingly kind of way). She giggled a lot at this point and asked to read my palm too, so more Kino and we joked around some more.

    About 10 minutes before the last bus I actually brought up the fact that the last bus was going to be here soon and she should get going in 10 minutes, but we should cuddle before then. At this point we already made out on the couch. She agreed and once I got her back to my room, just had to hold her down past the 10 minutes mark so she had a reason to say we hooked up, ie. Oh the last bus was gone and it kind of just happened.

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    Day 22:

    So usualy morning run and opened two sets both of which gave me their numbers. I was going to write this up yesterday but I had a guest over so couldn't use the computer.

    66. HB8: Usual hi opener proceeded by cold reading. I guess she was in law school which was dead on. We joked around a bit about how I stalked her everyday to get to know this fact etc. At one point I tried to Number Close, she threw out she had a boyfriend even though she was giving me her number. So I interrupted her with her script: "Just so you know, I have three goldfish, I hope that won't be a problem." Got good feedback and joked about that a bit. Texted her yesterday but no response, I sent out: "I just made you do something with my mind.... :P"

    67. HB8: Same opener, bantered some bit about her fashion (very hipster), she showed IOI by asking where I was from. She also told me she is a cheerleader, the one ontop of the pyrimid etc. So I used that to pick her up literally with my hands around her waists. She was giggling and it was a good vibe. Picked her up again before I left. For my text opener yesterday I used: "Hey wow who was that cute guy that just picked you up? (literally haha)." It was well received and we texted back and forth all day.

    End of Day 22 (4.91km)

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    nice job with #66 pretty smooth recovery on the BF and transition to non-neediness and lack of intimidation. might have to borrow this routine lol, i promise to replace the gold fish so they don't die.

    looks like you're doing just fine man. keep it up!
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    Day 23

    I was going to post this up last night but forgot. Only opened 1 girl yesterday.

    68. HB7: Went to the bank to deposit a cheque. The counter girl was cute so I opened her by pretending to ask for directions then went into serious question routine then pinky swear. In the end couldn't get the Number Close, but there was good feedback for most of my stuff so I assume its more of a bf thing.

    I also went to a staff party yesterday which is why I didn't write this up in the morning. I used a lot of what I learned so far with body language and Kino with everyone around me and it was a really great time. Usually I hate this type of things, but I was one of the last peoples to leave yesterday. So I am very happy about that.

    End of Day 23

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    Day 24:

    I found a bike in the dumpster that was easily fixable so today I went to the University bike coop to fix up my bike. Here are my sets for today.

    69. HB7: As I was rolling my bike into the coop she was coming out. There was a weird getting into each others way moment. I parked my bike and came out to chat her up. Her body language was open and I tried to Number Close but no number since shes from out of the country. So try to fb close, but she said no internet. So I just dropped it. While we were chatting up about the difference between American and Canadian culture this other chick who was a HB8 joined in the set, she was way more responsive and open than the HB7 but I couldn't think of a way to close her. So we all parted ways. In retrospect, I should have just gone for it.

    70. HB8: One of the mechanics at the shop I took my bike to who was helping me. She is a dental hygienist and we had some banter about that. Unfortunately her hours were up but there was good vibe from the interaction and now that I opened her it can lead to future number close.

    71. HB8: As the shop was closing, there was a massive line to check out. I chatted up this girl from Nova Scotia, she was trying to practice her French since thats the reason she is here this summer so I negged her a bit on her accent. In the end I didn't number close as I felt it would have been weird. But same with number 69 I should have just gone for it. Gotta stop myself with these limiting beliefs.

    End of Day 24.

    P.S. I got a sushi date with #39. Will post later with how it goes.

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    Day 25:

    So update on the date with #39. She cancelled on my at about 4 hours in. Wrote me a long message about her her research company won a prize and they are going out to celebrate. I said no problem but wished she told me earlier. Then yesterday I tried to get in contact with her again, but no reply so far. So I gotta stop contacting her for a bit I think. (NVM lols as I write this she messaged me asking to meet up this afternoon).

    72. HB7: I had to go to a town across the river to see some friends play a gig. I was taking the ferry across when I saw her on the ferry. As I walked into the room, she actually glanced back from her seat. Which was a good approach invitation, but I was too much of a little bitch to take it. And after about 2 minutes of sitting down she stood up and came to the door next to me, again another AI but again I didn't take my chance. There was some people on the boat and I felt weird about picking up girls with other people watching. But finally as we got off the boat I saw her again and went for it. I opened by complimenting her on her summery flats and we walked together for a bit. Got a fb close in the end and maybe try to arrange rock climbing date later.

    73. HB7: I was riding my bike and she was standing at the front entrance of a building so I rode up to her and opened her with the usual direct opener. She was open but her boyfriend actually came out, I handled it pretty well and asked him is this your girlfriend? He said yes, I said oh I am just hitting on your girlfriend. We all laughed about it and parted ways.

    74. HB8: Went to a art festival at night with some friend. We were stuck at the back of the line for an installation and she was standing next to me. I made a comment about how we can almost make out the shadows! To which she laughed and I used that as my opener. Bantered a bit about life in the city, shes from Tennessee, so I told her about the Tennessee pick up line haha to which she has never heard about before. We caught the end of the performance and as she was about to leave I tried to Number Close but she has a boyfriend.

    End of Day 25

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Quote Originally Posted by syntex101 View Post
    ...shes from Tennessee, so I told her about the Tennessee pick up line haha to which she has never heard about before.
    Whats the line? Dont think ive heard it before
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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Whats the line? Dont think ive heard it before
    Are you from Tennessee, cause you are the only ten I see.


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