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    Default 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    So I am just finished my work in Quebec and since I have my apartment until the end of June I decided to set a new goal for myself of cold approaching at least 3 girls/sets a day. This started yesterday. This will be where I write down my experiences and hopefully get some feedback/ keep myself on track.

    I am doing this while I go for my daily run, so it kills two birds with one stone, and I actually run further since I can't come back until I approach 3 sets.

    Day1
    HB7: saw her waiting for a bus, approached used a generic line (I saw you sitting here and looking cute so I wanted to introduce myself). Some small talk and sat next to her. Her body language was closed, talked some more tried to get a Number Close. But she said she didn't know what my intentions were, I said I am going to make you my girlfriend lols. She said she had a bf. Anyways so I bid her farewell and went back to my run.

    Room for improvement: Instead of sitting down next to her, I should be have been jogging in place to place time constraint on it.

    HB9: Saw her sitting outside a building, used familiar face tactic. Basically I ran up to her all smiling and waving. She said I must be confused since we never met before. I said sure we have, just now. That brought a smile, so I sat down with her to chat. But the dumb part was my first question was so who are you waiting for your boyfriend? To which she responded yes.
    Me: Probably should not have opened with that one haha.

    Room for improvement: Don't ask about her bf duh lols

    HB6: As I was returning to my house from my run I was desperately trying to open someone, so I saw her and simply told her I liked her outfit and parted ways.

    Room for improvement: I like this set because I came in with no intention of any result and as a result I think she really appreciated my comment. But I think I am ok with opening but have trouble carrying on a conversation so I need to work on that.

    End of day 1. 6.68km ran, I usually run only 3km. So I am pretty happy about that. Please give me tips and feedback as I am still a newbie and would love to try new openers or techniques.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 2:

    I watched some youtube videos to get me pumped and headed out for my run.

    HB7: A girl who was walking across campus, I used the lost opener where I basically asked her about a building but interrupted her and told her my real intentions of coming up to her. Small chatted a bit, she actually works at the gym where I go rock climbing in the evenings. I number closed and continued in my run.

    Room for improvement: better flow in the set, there were some weird pauses I felt. I also tried to Neg her when she continued to try to give me directions which I don't think she fully understood it as being a Neg. So better delivery of Negs.

    HB8: Not really a full set but pretty much just complimented a girl on her looks while she was at a bus stop. The same bus stop where I got rejected yesterday lols. She actually was very receptive so I probably should have stopped and worked out the set more.

    HB7: Opened with where you from since this girl looked asian. The city I am in is like 95% white. Anyways she is from France but actually Vietnamese. Small chatted some more about being a minority here and went to Number Close. She doesn't have a number but gave me her facebook.

    Room for improvement: Making sure the contact info is in before leaving. AKA double check you got the info. I just kind of gave her my phone and then left. So I don't know if she added her on my fb or not.

    General lesson from the day: always double check to make sure the info is in before leaving lols.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    End of Day 2 and Day 3:

    Yesterday I actually completed my goal of 3 and wasn't trying to game. But I needed some coins for laundry. I actually tried really hard to not leave my apartment and knocked on all the doors of my neighbors to see if they had change. Finally after no luck and my cloth being in the washer for 5 hours I decided to go to the grocery story and get some change.

    While checked out I met the cashier (HB8). Explained to her I needed change, she asked me if I was a student. Usually when I am asked this question at the cashier I just answer no because the store I shop at has discounts for students. But this time I assumed interest and told her I was working in the city. So we talk some more, she gave lots of IOIs asking about me so I number closed her at the checkout line.

    Today

    1. HB9: Ran past her came back and said Hi. First question was if she went to the university, no she said she goes to the Cegep which is like a high school/technical college. I didn't try to close but said: "you are a very cute girl but you are too young for me (smile)" and jogged off

    2. HB7: Totally struck out on this one, opened with "Hey do you have an Asian friend?" She said no. I offered my hand and said "well now you can." She started to walk off. I think it was my delivery, I wasn't really fully into it. But I am going to try this one again sometimes.

    3. HB7: Jogged past her and came back again took off my headphones and opened with: "Hey I saw you walking slowly so I thought this would be a good time to say hi". This time I used the twirl technique where I offer to shake her hand but then hold it up so she has to twirl. This WORKED really well. Like more than I imagined it would, instant smile and attraction. Number closed and finished off with twirl again.

    4. HB8: I was feeling good so decided to go for one more. Ran past a hipster chick and came back again and opened with: "I am doing this thing where I compliment everyone I like, so I really like your glasses." She smiled said thank you and kept walking, I think if I pushed harder she would have been receptive but I did not.

    Room for improvement: Past a set where there was 2 girls in the set, I need to work up the confidence to open multiple girls instead of just 1 girl.

    Lesson: Assume interest, use the farkin twirl technique.
    Finish of Day 3, 4.7km.

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 4:

    Finished goal for today. Noteworthy things, tried to get Instant Date, gaming outside of running.

    Today my friend had a Game of Thrones boardgame party. So I spent most of the day at their place playing this amazing boardgame. But I wasn't about to give up on my goal. So when I came back home I went out for a run again but before I got back I was actively scouting for pick ups while I was riding my bike back. So..

    1. HB7: Rode past her and came back around again to open with the generic smile + you look nice. I think I am really starting to get this down, this opener works really well especially if you qualify it with "Hey I was just (activity)" So that she knows you are not some creeper. And also having a genuine smile. The type of smile that you give to your long lost friends.

    Me: So where are you coming from
    Her: My parents place right over there
    Me: I got to finish my bike route but maybe let me get your number for coffee sometimes
    Her: Sure, so are you from around here? Do you speak French?
    Me: Well you just gotta find that out at coffee (flirty smile)

    Said goodbye.

    2. HB5 The girl was much older (probably 30-35ish) than I expected as I was running and so instead of trying open I simply pretended to ask for directions.

    3. HB6 Chinese: It was super easy to open, just asked where she was from. Some light banter in Chinese then she said she was also going for a run so we ran for a bit together, but she was actually pretty slow and couldnt keep up with me. I tried to get an instant date, but I needed to reward her for it and not simply give it out. So I told her if she can run to the end of an intersection I can cook some dinner. She was down for the idea but I think I set the marker too far, lols she gave up half way there. We said goodbye but I number closed nontheless.

    Lesson: Put the carrot infront of them but not too far that they give up lols.

    End of Day 4.(5.43km)

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    what you are doing is great. but I would suggest that you do not limit yourself. pick up women wherever you go, work, school or whatever you do, do not go for a run because you set a target for yourself to meet women, go for a run to keep fit, and u might as well pick up a girl while u at it. try going out more, or expose yourself more in the social arena to improve your game or places where there are lots of beautiful women around, and you will see the impact it will have on your game when you pick up a girl while running

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    Day 5:

    I had a frisbee game today, and I was tired from running so instead I just went outside to read in the park where there was high traffic.

    1. HB6: She was humming a bit so I used that as an opener. Tried to build a longer set, this was probably the longest set I ran and got a Number Close.

    2. HB7: She was part of a 3 set that I opened, while sitting on the bench the HB7 was pointing something out to her friends in my direction so I waved to them. Used this as an opener and they were very receptive to it, I tried to move for the isolation too fast by saying: "Hey I am just going to borrow your friend for a bit and physically turning the HB7 towards a bench, she got kind of scared and said ok let my friend come too and literally grabbed her friend by the arm." I wasn't sure what to do so I said ok but if you are going to bring her then bring the other girl too. So all 3 of us went to the bench and the HB7 sat down. I told her she looked nice so I wanted to talk to her and she said she's gotta go lols. So they headed out. I coulnd't think of anything witty to say so I said: "So it's going to be like that" Pretty lame. But this was probably the worst rejection I got since I started this challenge and it wasn't even that bad. So lesson of the day is embrace rejection and learn from it.

    I only opened these 2 sets today, but I got my first date since I started this challenge with the girl whom I twirled from day 2 I think. Been text gaming her sporadically since the day we met with long breaks before I respond to her messages. I got her to buy groceries with me and we cooked dinner at my place followed by sexy time

    End of Day 5

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    Day 6:

    I had only 5 hours of sleep last night. But I went out to do my usual thing today again. I am trying to build longer and longer sets but still need more work.

    1. HB8: Usual opening, ran past and said hi. Some small banter tried to go for Number Close she said she has a boyfriend. Used the I have a gold fish routine, got a laugh and said goodbye.

    2. HB7, 7 and Gay guy: They were walking infront of my the gay guy was talking on the phone and really excited about something so I used that as an opener to open the gay guy first and they were all very receptive, I didn't know how to isolate/judge for interest from the 2 HBs. Being a little pussy I didn't try to go for a number close but simple said goodbye after. But as I was running away one of the HBs said hey whats your name, which I took as an IOI and went back to number close her. Although she was a bit reluctant she did give me the number.

    3. HB7: Sitting on a bench eating a sandwich I simply went up and said can I have a bite it looks tasty. She did, small banter a bit found out she was a vegetarian. Tried to push pull with the line: "I have never dated a vegetarian before, but I am a good chef." In fact now I think about it that was probably a pretty weak line. Anyways I number closed nonetheless.

    4. HB7: Usual opening, tried to guess where she was from, got number close and did some kino with the French kiss for goodbye where you kiss on both cheeks. Since she wasn't from around here she did it only once and we tried again with me showing her how to do it properly with some small teasing about that point.

    5. HB8: At this point I already reached my goal but was feeling pretty good so I tried to throw an extra one in, she was listening to headphones and wasn't very receptive so I just dropped it.

    I am going on a coffee date now with the Asian chick from Day 4. Will report back after.

    End of Day 6 (5.17km)

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Nice Work Man!


    Looks like your gaining momentum!

    Way to go !

    I'm going to have to try that twirl technique, I haven't read about it yet.

    good luck!

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Quote Originally Posted by rawks View Post
    Nice Work Man!


    Looks like your gaining momentum!

    Way to go !

    I'm going to have to try that twirl technique, I haven't read about it yet.

    good luck!
    I don't know specifically where I read it from but it was probably form the forums here. Basically you hand shake not in a business style manner but in a flirty manner where you hold out your hand with your palm facing up. She rests her hand on yours and at this point hold it for a long period of time maintain eye contact and lift it up, most girls will have the natural tenence to twirl.

    When I tried it for the first time with the HB she was bad at it so that opened up room for teasing. And I used it also in my text game with Push Pull when I sent her this text: "Hey half and half we gotta work on your twirling skills if we r going to make beautiful mixed babies " I also gave her a nick name since she was half french and half anglophone.

    Good luck try it sometimes

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    Default Re: 3 cold approaches / day challenge

    Day 6 update and Day 7:

    So I went to coffee with the asian girl yesterday in the afternoon. The date was going well but I tried to bring her back to my place with ice creme as an excuse. We were speaking Chinese the whole time and my Chinese game is not as smooth as my English game since its been a while since I used Chinese. But I am going to keep working her.

    Last night I also went rock climbing with the HB7 from day 2. (From now on I am going to number the HBs so it is easier to refer to them for updates). We had great chemistry at rock climbing because it was her first time and I go like 2 or 3 times every week. So immediately dhv and I did Kino Escalation at the gym by grabbing her butt and pushing her up some holds etc. Anyways got her to come back to my place for ice creme. I used the Mystery Method to try to Kiss close. She said not right now. So I said do you want to cuddle which she said yes, and so we cuddled together on the couch for a bit. I said it wasn't so comfortable on the couch and grabbed her hand and lead her to my bed where I got the kiss close. But no f-close ... yet.

    End of Day 6.

    Day 7:
    Same routine as before quick run and used my natural openers.

    22. HB7: Nothing notable other than she said she had a bf I said I have 3 gold fish which got a laugh. Tried to Neg a bit by asking her if she rock climbs and reframed it as : "Hey its not looking so hot for you right now seeing you don't know how to twirl (did the twirl opener) and you don't rock climb". More laughs. Number Close.

    23. HB7 & 7: They were doing some sort of sun dial experiment in the quad area. Opened with whats that, some light banter on how they were trying to call down aliens. Wasn't enough rapport or comfort to move in for number close so I didn't even try but I know they will be there along my run everyday so could try to go again now that initial contact has been established.

    24. HB8: From Toronto here to study French in the summer. Tried to kino close by asking her if she knew how to French kiss. Which didn't turn out so well, next time instead of asking just DO. Number closed.

    25. HB7: Girl carrying a gym sack. Natural opener followed by qualifyer: "So you must be an atheletic girl huh." Tried to get date for the night to go rock climbing to which she said today is not good. So got number close to a later time.

    End of Day 7 (5.77km)


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