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    Default Re: Jae102 Field Approaches.

    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    Ok, if you're 5-11 and athletic, then you're not unattractive. You don't really have to be smoking hot for a direct opener to work (although it helps), so long as you're decent-looking. But yes, there are better haircuts than ponytails.
    Thanks man. I've been debating to get rid of my hair had it so long when I was a child but I guess it's fear that I won't look good with a haircut but lets just find out.

    Regaridng point 2, to be fair, energy is not 100% necessary. James Marshall succeeds in daygame with low energy, but your chances of success are still higher *with* energy and enthusiasm than without.
    Yeah, I'm working on it because I definitely feel the girls are mimicking my energy. They're response should be so negative.

    Also, props on not tolerating shyness anymore and being unafraid to go direct. That said, still try indirect every now and then (which you seem to do), just to compare your results.
    Thanks I'm trying every method but I feel direct is the best way because I want to get past the b.s. I will do indirect to work on my conversation skills.

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    Default Re: Jae102 Field Approaches.

    Been a while since I commented.

    Yesterday got my first number. Today I got rejected 8 times. Most girls wouldn't talk to me. I tried to introduce myself and they say their not interested I feel most guys want a fake guy well if that's the case If I do become fake fuck loyalty.

    Anyways just got rejected I approach the I try to introduce myself they all say something that's complete bs like they don't want to meet me. Maybe I need to be more confident and bolder.

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    Default Re: Jae102 Field Approaches.

    Okay I'm going to expand on my approaches.

    6/18
    Approach 1: I saw this beautiful business lady on her way to work.
    Me: Hi my name is
    Her: Sorry I don't give out my name to strangers.

    I got frustrated and left.

    Approach 2: I saw this Asian girl walking through this park
    Me: Are you a two or a one finger texter.
    Her: Two finger
    Me: Nice to meet you I'm
    She keeps walking
    Me: Hey wait I just want to talk to you.
    Her: Sorry I'm in a hurry.

    Approach 3:
    I saw this filipina lady she was just waiting alone I got to close I think or something.
    Me: (I wave a her) Then say Hi
    Her: She just moves out of the way like she was uninterested couldn't get a smile out of her or anything.

    Approach 4: I saw this girl just waiting at a stop light. I came from behind her.

    Me: Hi, my name is
    Her: Sorry I don't give out my name.
    I don't know I just gave up

    Approach 5: It was after work. I saw this beautiful hispanic girl. She was walking towards me and smiled so I walked up to her and said.

    Me: Hey, I just saw you and I wanted to meet you.
    Her: Sorry I have to go.
    (She wouldn't shake my hand or even give me her name.)

    Approach 6: It was at the train station. I saw this other hispanic chick sitting alone.

    Me: Hi
    Her: Hi
    Me: Why do you have such a sad face?
    Her: I'm not I just waiting for someone.
    Me: Wait for who?
    Her: Family so I can see my kids.
    Me: So what do you do?
    Her: A student
    Me: I you could have a choice to be anything in the world what would you be?
    Her: A nurse.
    Me: Why is that?
    Her: because my son died.
    Me: Why not a doctor.
    Her: Nurses are more hands on.
    Me: I can agree with you there I don't like studying too much either even though it's required for my occupation since I'm a computer technician.

    Honestly I don't remember the conversation well.

    Approach 7: There was this chick that was walking from Bart to her car.

    Me: Hi I just saw you and wanted to see if you were a cool person. I'm
    Her: I'm, I talked to alot of people today. I'm tired of talking.
    Me: Wait, I just wanted to see if you were a cool person.
    Her. I'm not trust me.
    She keeps walking off and I leave.

    6/19
    I saw this beautiful girl wearing so this nice tiger pants. I waved a her a few feet away to get her attention.
    Me: You have a very interesting style.
    Her: Thanks.
    Me: I'm, where are you headed?
    Her: I'm heading home from school from the adult school.
    Me: What are you going there for?
    Her: My Ged.
    Me: Ah so what happened?
    Her: I was moving around.
    Me: I see. So where are you originally from?
    Her: SF
    Me: Oh really. How long have you been staying out here?
    Her: A few months.
    Me: Yeah, how you liking this city?
    Her: I sucks.
    Me: Yeah, I've been living here my whole life. I does suck.
    Me: I was running out of things to say I was really nervous but I got the phone number and texted her. It was a really weak text just told her It's me from earlier today. Oh, well.


    6/20/2014
    Approach 1:
    I saw this beautiful brunette walking on her way back to work.
    Me: Hi, I just saw you and you are the most gorgeous woman I've seen all day.
    Her: Thank you.
    Me: So where are you headed to?
    Her: Back to work.
    Me: Are you in a hurry?
    She then starts walking off.
    Me: I'd like to exchange contacts so we can meet and get to know eachother.
    Her: Sorry I have a boyfriend.

    Approach 2
    I saw this beautiful girl wearing this dress and was walking across the street. I couldn't miss out on this opportunity.
    Me: I just saw you and I had to say you look amazing in that dress.
    Her: She laughs.
    Me: I'm...
    Her: I'm....
    Me: So what are you up to?
    Her: I'm heading to Walgreens.
    She starts walking off.
    Me: Wait, let's exchange contacts so we can meet up sometime?
    Her: You a little to young for me.
    Me: Can't you appreciate the confidence I just did to come talk to you. (This was just me rambling I will never do this again.)
    Her: I do.
    Me: How old of do you think I am.
    Her: She said 20's or early 30's.
    Me: I'm 25.
    Her: See you're too young.
    Me: Let me guess you're age 27.
    Her: You're too kind.
    Me: Alright have a good day.

    I felt that approach was coming off too needy and I stopped myself to just learn from it.

    Approach 3: I saw this girl at the train station. We hit it off.
    I approached her from behind. I can't remember this conversation well but I did get a number.
    Me: Hey how's it going.
    Her: Hey.
    Me: So what are you headed tonight.
    Her: To San Francisco to meet a friend.
    Me: So are you going to a club to with your girl friend?
    Her: No just to meet a guy friend.
    Me: A friend you haven't seen for a while.
    Her: No just going meet up.
    I don't remember but then we started talking about she was from colorado then she came to Cali with some guy. They broke up she stayed because she loved Cali she's a technical recruiter. She's catholic. I made a joke that I like like a Mormon because of the job I work for has me dress like that.

    I asked her what the most bizarre thing she has ever done? I can't remember what she said. Then I couldn't remember something for me.
    I told I would like to do skydiving. Eventually getting her number when the train came. Sorry for this approach guys I can't remember my mind is too foggy about this approach.

    Approach 4: I saw this girl walking home from the train station. It was pretty dark.
    Me: Hi, don't be scared I'm not going hurt. I'm not a robber.
    I wave again.
    Her: She takes off her headphones. Hello?
    Me: I just wanted to tell you that you are gorgeous? I'm...
    Her: I'm... (She starts walking off.)
    Me: Hey wait, where are you going?
    Her: I have to go.
    Me: What's your number so we can at least meet up sometime?
    Her: I have a boyfried.
    Me: Maybe, you have some single friends?
    Her: She laughs and keeps walking.
    Me: Have a good night.

    Approach 5:
    Me: Hi I just saw you and I had you're very beautiful.
    Me: I'm...
    Her: I'm....
    Me: That's a very interesting name. I've never heard that before.
    Her: Sorry I have to go my boyfriend is picking me up.
    Me: Have a good night.

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    Default Re: Jae102 Field Approaches.

    I think you're getting better at this dude. your 6/20 #2 approach went better than you think, and going off the cuff like that wasn't so bad. More importantly I really think you made an impression on her, probably made her day. Keep up the good work, you'll get the hang of it.

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    Default Re: Jae102 Field Approaches.

    Quote Originally Posted by daffyff View Post
    I think you're getting better at this dude. your 6/20 #2 approach went better than you think, and going off the cuff like that wasn't so bad. More importantly I really think you made an impression on her, probably made her day. Keep up the good work, you'll get the hang of it.
    Thanks.

    6\22\2014 - Just now!
    Me: Hi I just saw you and think you're absolutely gorgeous. (I stuck my hand out What is your name?

    Her: I don't feel comfortable.
    Me: (I start to walk away because I got scared like a bitch)
    Her: Thank you though.

    How the heck did I make her feel uncomfortable.


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