Basically I'm naturally asshole-ish, specially to this girl, well in a playful way. For example, When we were leaving I held the door open for her then as she was about to come out, I slammed it closed. hahah
I know my funny asshole personality works because she laughs.
I held my game pretty good lots of teasing and bantering and bashing.
Okay, now ever since I started learning the game. I see things differently now. I actually had an awesome time with this girl but on my way home I started analyzing and breaking down our interaction PUA style. It wasn't what I thought it was.
Before tonight, I treated her like any other girl I gamed. But tonight, "I got to know her" and found out she was LISA to my STYLE.
Needless to say, I got sucked in her reality. She talked a lot about herself, Qualified herself too and some ioi's. Asked me a lot of questions as well, teased/bantered everytime I get the chance.. I was so in the moment that I lost LEAD.
As we were walking from work. She asked me which way I go. Turns out we were going different ways but she went my way anyways and asked if there was a McDonald's. I said: "Yeah. Let's go I'm hungry too."
Chapter 1 RONALD MCDONALD
Me: How old are you?
Her: How old do I look?
Me: Well, what's the right answer?
Her: Take a guess.
Me: Just tell me, What's the right answer?
Her: Take a guess. C'mon.
Me: Alright. hmmm. 12.
her: hahaha blabalbal
Her: Do you drink?
Me: No. I used to but not anymore.
Me: It's not fun anymore. (We are both 18 so this kinda made her laugh a bit)
Her: Oh I was gonna invite you to my party.
Her: (gives the date)
Me (Divert, change topic)
CHAPTER 2 MY FIRST AMOG ENCOUNTER.
This is still at McDonald's.
Her: So what are you?
Me: What the fark? What do you mean what am I?
Her: hahah no I mean. Like your nationality.
Her: (She guesses)
Me: yeah I'm part bal bla bla bla How bout you?
Me: (I just stared at her for about 2 minutes without saying a word, just smiling. She couldn't look at me haha. That was pretty funny, because it was so damn awkward, well for her atleast haha)
Me: Just tell me!
Her: I'm russian.
Some russian dude spoke to her in russian. The guy was behind me.
Me: Who the fark is that?! (Like in a really aggresive manner haha)
Her: That guy. Pointing at the guy.
I glanced at him then went back to the girl. She engaged to the russian dude by speaking russian. I was at the middle, as they were speaking some weird shit I don't understand. I know I need to do something because I'm not gonna get AMOGed at farking McDonald's. So I said.
Me: kjsldflksjdfklk (Not exactly but mimicking the sound of russian)
Me: (I started shouting) Da! Da! Da! Da! Da!
Her: haha that means yes
Me: Ha! I'm a linguist you see.
Never heard the guy speak again.
CHAPTER 3 SHATTERED GAME.
As I get to know this girl. I found out she was farking awesome I forgot to eat my food. I forgot everything, I was so in the moment that I started speaking to her in PUA lingo. hahha
Her: Remember the first time we met? (That was a week ago lol)
Me: Yeah. you totally approached me!
Her: No I didn't you did! You asked me this bla bla bla
Me: No I didn't. You smiled at me you totally approached me.
Her: We werk at retail it's normal to smile bla bla bla. You held the door open for me.. kinda... then I said thankyou.
Me: Ha! You totally opened me.
Her: No I didn't you have the worst memory hahaha
Me: Okay Let's break this down. You did your approach, you opened me, casual talk,you asked my name, then you escalated and Number closed me.
Her: No I didn't I don't even have your number.
Me: sure you don't
Her: Check my phone book I don;t
Her: Whatever. I'm not gonna text you anyway. haha
Me: Do you like sitcoms?
Her: What is that?
Me: Oh my god, You don;t know what a sitcom is hahahah!
Her: what's that?
Me: You're adorable...
Her: I'm glad you find me adorable
Me: You don;t know what a farking sitcom is. you're so adorable. haha
CHAPTER 4 THE WEAKEST CLOSE OF ALL TIME. MY 3 MONTH OLD NIECE WOULD HAVE DONE THIS BETTER.
Her: What time is it?
Me: 12 am
Her: What? no way? you're kidding!
Me: It's 12 am
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: Ask someone else. (She did)
Her: OMG it's 12. I have schoold tomorrow and I have home work and i have to read bla bla bla bla
Me: C'mon let's go.
As we walk down the street she figured we had to take different trains. So she was like "aww why ddoes it have to be different"
When we cam to the end. She went to hug me. So I did. I didn't even say my favorite line "Whoa hands off the merchandise". I was so sucked in to the moment. And it wasn;t even a HUG HUG, it was an awkward hug that a big brother does to her little sister when saying goodbye. DAMMIT.
END OF STORY.
I know I could have number closed her but I didn't. There's 50% chance I coulda K-closed. But didn't. I chickened out like a little bitch. All those banters, came down the drain when I farking HUGGED her goodbye.
shitballs. The funny thing is I was having a good time tonight but as soon as I rode the train. My PUA brain kicked in and the first thing it said was "You dumb bitch, you built to much comfort"
I knew! I knew! If I had just gotten her number... I actually thought of something to text her but I figured I don't have her number. Damn you 3 hours ago me!!
I need to reframe this any ideas?. I want to go paintball or something with her. Give me ideas What should I do next time I see her.
Also I tend to over analyze things sometimes. So if that's the case please do inform, otherwise, please be brutal as possible. Don't sugar coat it.
One more thing I figured out was that I'm really good at flirting/bantering/teasing at short periods of time but when I get stuck with a girl for a long time, those seem to go away.
I am so going out and day gaming tomorrow. DAMMIT.
WHY DIDN'T I Number Close HER?! Shit balls!
As Always... Thanks