I have been using the dating app lately called Tinder and it is very addictive. You may have heard of it. People get matched solely on their looks from a few pictures. If you both like each other, you get matched and can start chatting. It is so superficial and I love it lol..
I must admit, I had a lot trouble in the beginning lol... Iíve never done ďonlineĒ dating so this was a new challenge. A lot of people think of Tinder as a hookup app. They may have been the case when it first came out. However, that is not the case anymore. It is actually more used as a form of entertainment for people, especially girls to pass the time, where they may have no intention of meeting up. My profile wasnít great and even on the few matches I did get, I wasnít sure how to progress things to a date online until I got some good advice for Tinder from my good friend and wing, Chris.
I was able to pick out the right pictures for my profile and understand the structure of the messaging game online to get her number and set up a date ASAP. Iíve been getting a lot more success and dates through Tinder since thenÖbutÖjust recently I was able to pull something Iíve never done beforeÖ
I got matched with this girl and I was in the usual process of setting up the date. I got her number within a couple messages and then went on to schedule the date. We got matched on the same day I was flying back to New York from Las Vegas. I wanted to see how fast I could pull before my flight left at 10:45pm. It was around the early afternoon when we got matched. I planned to get drinks with her at a bat near where Iím staying at 7pm for good logistics. I found out she works until 7:30 so then I decided to just invite her over drinks at my place at 8pm. I knew it was long shot to bring her straight to my place as we still havenít met in person, but it was the only option. To my surprise, she accepted!
I didnít have much time. I knew what I had to do once she got here. I had to escalate and bring her to the bedroom as fast as possible for anything to happen before I rush to my flight. I already packed my bags, got the drinks ready in the kitchen, and had the limo ready to pick me up at 8:45 to go to the airport. Now itís just the waiting game until she arrives. It was around 8:05 and she still wasnít here so I texted her to she if she was nearby. She says she is about 15 minutes awayÖ
In my mind I was like, ďDamn, now I really need to push it!Ē I call her to see the situation and I find out she is lost and forgot her GPS. I give her some directions and give the cross streets and tell her to call me when sheís here. I then thought I donít have time to game her and have drinks in the kitchen so I bring the drinks to the bedroom. Itís now 8:25 and Iím sweating a little bit. Then, I finally get a call from her. She tells me she is at the gate and then I instruct her how to get in. I wait a few minutes for her to come up and then get another call from her. She says she is by the pool outside and canít get back in! I tell Iíll come down to get her. I take the elevator down and see her outside. I smile at her and let her in. I do a slight tease at her a bit about navigating here and she laughs.
We take the elevator up to my place. We walk in and I lead her by the hand and do a tour straight to my bedroom. She likes the view and walks to the balcony outside. I immediately pour and grab the drinks and bring them outside to her. We do a toast and I ask her if she can see where she lives from here. She talks for a bit and Iím figuring out ways to escalate with her. I comment about how she didnít lie about her booty on her profile and I smack it. She laughs and says thanks. She then starts talking about herself and I kiss her mid sentence. She says, ďYouíre forward arenít ya?Ē I then lead her to the bed and letís just say that things escalated from there. About 15 minutes later, I was on my way to the airport.
So there you have it. From initially meeting her face to face to my bedroom literally took less than a minute. That was definitely one of my fastest pulls Iíve ever done. Itís interesting the ways you can make things happen when you are constrained for time.