I went out to a co-worker's going away party which was a dinner party at a Chinese restaurant. Before it began, she came into our work which is right next door to say hey. She brought her cousin who's gorgeous and I found out after the fact that she was trying to set us up. So I met them there after work and we had a good time. I completely hit it off with her cousin who's a few years younger (20 and I'm 25) and proceeded to plan to go into Boston to grab a drink with her. By the time people started filing out of the Chinese restaurant though, and there were only a few core people left, it was already 12:30 so I said let's go back to my place and have a glass of wine outside on my patio. She loved the sound of it so we went.
Long story short, we did everything except go all the way. When she'd resist I'd sort of do one-step back, two-steps forward. Correct me if I'm wrong but a girl is much more likely to see you again and also consider you boyfriend material the sooner you have sex. I tried for it but she said because she liked me and didn't want to spoil it and never see me again, she didn't want to go all the way. Funny logic huh? You have sex with the guys you don't give a shit about but refuse with the guys who are "smooth", handsome and leaving her speechless which is what she would say after some lines I'd deliver. Don't worry, had she said "No", I would've definitely stopped. But all she kept saying was, "I should go" because it was getting late.
Earlier in the night she said let's go to the beach tomorrow since it's both our days off. I agreed and then I dropped her off at 3:30 am. I told her I'd call her at 9 am. I got up, she didn't answer my text or call. I wrote a second text saying let's have a picnic instead for noon. She didn't respond until 1pm saying Sorry, she slept the whole day through to 1pm and hasn't slept much in two weeks. I'll text you in a bit she says and right now it's 5pm and nothing.
My questions to you:
The honest truth of what, if anything, did I do wrong?
If so is that why she flaked?
Did I ruin it by pushing the physicality to the point where there's no mystery for her left to want?
How should I respond besides not texting her any more until maybe 2 days from now if she doesn't say anything.
I guess I'll have my answer if she doesn't respond, but she seemed REALLY into me by the way she was speaking and acting. I rarely have a girl this head-over-heels to the point where she gets embarrassed that she can't even formulate a response to my smooth-talking she was so hot and bothered. Not bragging but she literally looked like a 50's girl at an Elvis concert lol. Thanks guys!
P.S. Sorry this isn't very well-written and proof-read. I have to make dinner so I had to type it up quick... and because I'm stumped and kind of feeling down about it. Any meaningful answers would be greatly appreciated.