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    Default *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Wow. I'm just in shock after this one. NEVER has a woman disrespected me like this. A slap in the face couldn't have left me this shocked.

    I went out tonight and played a gig. Caught a buzz, was feelin pretty damn good. I get a text from some friends to meet them at a certain pub after the show. I'm down. So I get done with the gig, which was full of old women I wasn't interested in and moved on to the pub.

    Well it turned out the pub I went too had the same name as the pub my friends were at. I was at the wrong spot. Well by the time I figured this out I was already knee deep in conversation with a FINE blonde hottie. Really hot..

    So we get to talking and we really connect. She's just going on about how amazing it was that she met me by complete random chance, what an amazing guy I am, how attracted she finds me, that we shared the same birthday. After a couple hours of chatting we're DEEP into comfort, this girl is just qualifying herself right and left. She mentions she wants me to take her home after she has a cigarette. I'm like "Hell yeah, game on, bout to fuck this blonde hottie." I even got a kiss close out of the girl out front.

    Well I'm thinking the deal is in the bag. Suddenly, out the door walks this other guy who she was conversating with earlier before I showed up. She hadn't paid a bit of attention all night to this guy, I figured I had her stole from him. He was gaming some other chick the entire time I was there. He had figured I stole hottie from him so he was moving on himself I think.

    Inexplicably, this dude walks out of the bar with this other chick on his arm, but that chick decided she didn't wanna go home with dude and after a chaste hug left him alone.

    Now this blonde hottie suddenly drops me like a bad habit! Suddenly, as soon as other girl was pulling out of the drive, she's suddenly ready to leave with this other dude.

    I'm just in shock. NEVER has a woman just dropped me like that for another dude out of the blue. I didn't even know what to say I was so shocked.

    So she talks to him a minute and then shouts across the lot as she's jumping into his truck to me "Hey will you call me?"

    I said "WHAT? You slapping me in the face by leaving with this dude out of the blue and you expect me to CALL YOU? Are you crazy?"

    She says "Oh.. come on! I really like you!"

    I said "Hey you a free woman, do what you gotta do, but don't even start to think that I'm going to be calling you tomorrow."

    So she left with dude... I'm just in complete and total shock. How did this dude impress her soooo much that after 2 hours of my gaming her, and her wanting to fuck me, that suddenly I ended up just lifting her buying temperature for some other MOFO??

    I'm SOOOO salty! I don't even know what to think about this, because NO woman EVER disrespected me like this. I'm hoping she tries to call(because she has myh number too) tomorrow just so I can humiliate her.

    I'm so angry I could spit. I can stand losing in my game to another dude up front. But this chick never even let on that she was into dude. She completely ignored him to concentrate on me, he completely ignored her to concentrate on the chick he was gaming. WTF???

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Thats pretty jaw dropping. Cant blame ya for not being able to hold back. I do think you did your best to still be polite and honest. I cant help but wonder if there was something else going on between the two. When they left together were thy hugging and kissing? Lots of heavy Kino? Or friendly body language? I have a feeling there is a chance he was just a friend but its probably slim.

    If you think you might still want her later... I'd give her a couple of days and text her mid day or something. I'd make it a point to text not a call. She expected it to be a call... So now you can be a little bit of a wild card. I believe you can hold all the power and get her to qualify herself to you even though she doesnt exactly need to explain herself to you--but you do deserve some strong qualifying points of respect to continue.

    For now just sit back and feel it out. Sleep on it. Dont cut it off just now if you yhink you might still ant her. Thats just my 2 cents...

    On a side note thats pretty messed up. To me it reads as if they knew each other. Him not closing with a girl and her following reads as if she's likely to be her friend or wing? Anyways there is definetly more to the story...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Nah. It was like this. I pull in and see this girl out front next to the smoking bin talking to this dude and several others. She's in daisy dukes and boots. Smoking hot and obviously out to get banged. I take note and go inside. Well I order my drink, some old cat got.his.DOG in there sitting at the bar licking beer out of a mug. Nicest dog imaginable, a rare blue pit. So I see dudes out front come.back in leaving blondie outside alone. Game on. I grab my beer and go out and start gaming her. I had her hooked before we even got back inside. So here is where it gets weird. She separates from me and goes to sit with dude and his buddy while.this other, kinda ugly chick is there. Well I watch a bit and she was obviously kinda into him, but she never gave off the Doggy Dinner Bowl look towards him. No heavy Kino. Nothing to advertise other that she had lightweight attraction towrds him. Well he goes off to play pool. Chick suddenly turns in my direction and sends off the "come.get me player" look so I jumped. Crossed the bar, and restarted the convo.

    After that, smooth sailing, dudes friend left leaving him open with the uglier chick and he never let on or even said a single sentence to her while I was gaming her. No AMOG, no nothing! He had uglier chick on him all night. None of these people met before that night as far as I know.

    It was screwed up. Dude and chick walked out of bar, me.and blondie were already outside by good.15 minutes. She was seriously weighing the ONS option. We all been there, when the.big decision time.comes and they bite their lower lip and get that lost look like "should I?"

    So dude hugs girl and walks to his truck. Blondie instantly starts hollering after him and says "Hey come with me a minute" and goes over to his truck almost at a run. I don't chase, I stayed right where I was and watched her lean in his window, say something, him nod and suddenly she's moving to the.passenger side door.

    There is only one thing I can think of with that kind of power. DRUGS.

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    it sounds like she knows the guy pretty well
    and honestly the bitch sounds kinda crazy
    if anything stay away from her she doesnt make any sense
    and you dont want a girl that cant make sense around you

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Quote Originally Posted by mariocasstro View Post
    it sounds like she knows the guy pretty well
    and honestly the bitch sounds kinda crazy
    if anything stay away from her she doesnt make any sense
    and you dont want a girl that cant make sense around you
    Only way I'd mess with that chick was if I ran into her at random again in the bar. To call her after being brushed off in such a manner violates my principles in the extreme. Besides.. tonight i'll meet another. I always do.

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Well girl called me all honeyed words and apologies. Didn't bother really to explain what she was doing because we both know what she was doing. So I explained that what she did may be acceptable to some sucker in the bar, but to a man of my quality it was kind of disrespectful.


    So she's instantly asking what i'm doing tonight, how cool I am, blah blah. She's trying to play the whole coy and innocent princess in need of rescuing act. Pfft.. such lame beta shit tests. I called her out on it.

    "Listen to ya, with your innocent act, I know better. I can see the hustle behind those pretty eyes. Whatever ideas you got about easily winning me over with sweet words and a sexy body, best think twice. I ain't a sucker."

    Predictable results, "Hell yeah thats what I'm talking about." More qualifying and coos. I know one thing. When I take off my pants to fark her, I'm hiding my wallet. This chick is looking for a meal ticket beta sucker boyfriend. It ain't happening with me. I'm bout to wrap it, tap it, and quit it. Lol

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    The idea of drug dealer makes a lot of sense if she hopped in that quick.... You're right to be weary
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Im not even gonna fark her in my bed. I'm gonna use the pullout bed in the living room.

    I already laid down the boundaries and skeeze or not she finds it damn sexy so I know tonight for the shirt gig i'm doing. I will have a bomb ass, sexy dressed date on my arm and a guaranteed lay. I'd say thats proper for a rock star.

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    Watch you don't get rolled.

    Anyways, I had this happen to me as well. I was gaming this girl and making out with her for several hours. She walks away to grab a drink, and within 2 minutes she's making out with some other dude.

    I was in a foreign country, so I just left. As I was leaving her friends told me that he was some guy she'd hooked up with before. Whatever. I wasn't interested in her after witnessing this shit show anyways.

    Honestly, have some self respect here and just walk away. Flake on her tonight and don't take the risk that you're going to get robbed, or worse, pick up an STD.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: *I* Got Played Tonight Boys..

    From what I read and understand the obvious answer lies in the open, you were too available. Spending hours with a chick without a bounce or pull reeks of needy territory. The other guy ignored her so she felt like he was interesting and maybe you were an easy catch.

    Girls hang out with guys their not interested in all the time. I have learned not to believe a woman's words cuz of stuff like this. Some chick made me "promise" to text her and "begged for me to take her to lunch" then my first text she was yelling and telling me to piss off I have a FiancÚ. I felt so played.

    But the truth is girls are players too only they play dirty and a lot of times their intentions are unclear. I just don't feed the behavior. My current GF has guys after her everywhere I just try to ignore her and hope she comes around. So far it is working great but again all these other guys she may end up playing me too. I mean she hinted at me moving in but I know any second she can run off with some other guy so I never smother her and let her make her own decisions about guys. She hangs out with the guys who may take her from me but says I can't hang out with her friends or she'll break up with me which really sucks.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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