Re: I got blown out by Lara Croft!
First yes SiliconMagician it is truly heartbreaking but also encouraging. I will open a HB10 anywhere and opened one in Wal-Mart since I will never let it pass me by. But I only open 9's when I am in my element and out sarging. I would say and let me speak plainly here. I would say HB10's are generally the worst to game. For one we know abundance mindset where you can be working a couple HB9's in a room you become less needy by default for building state and having options. Abundance mindset or "warming up" doesn't work on HB10's. I warm up all night and still get tongue tied.
Originally Posted by kylemc
But to get to your statement about negs here in a second. Basically 10's are the worst to play because they buy into my frame completely and because I am usually sucking sh!t it goes to hell instantly. HB9's don't buy into my frame they try to qualify themselves and give me tons of IOI's and validation. The other problem with 10's is they never validate me. My dhv's come off as me qualifying myself. Where I talk to 9's about my tatts and they get all excited. So there are huge differences. The other thing and into the NEGS. It doesn't matter. You can heartless prick open them or hopeless romantic open them and it will only work based on congruence.
One thing 10's do utterly go nuts about is congruence and because I have glimmers of it at times they eat it up then it goes sour by me losing it right when I get a tiny seed of validation. My NEGs are pretty cold like hey nice ass because I am not a nice guy that got a HB10 playing into my frame for 30 min! But I lost due to of course over-qualifying myself. So in the end hb10's are the game winners so going for their number as priority #1 is not going to fly. You have to have to pull or insta-date. Because they are that hot you have to build comfort right away or you will be completely forgotten the next day unless you try and get her number instead.
HB9's always ping well on N-closes and 9 for 9 right now. However again asking for a HB10's number it feels so needy and unauthentic. I haven't tried to SNL game a HB10 but I am starting to feel that is the only way to win with them like they WILL not be long gamed. In fact Lara Croft was completely unphased when I told her let's party tonight! And I NEVER give that much opportunity to a girl. Like let me get your number and walk away. That's how I usually roll out but from now I will have to pull the 10 so I am going to have to put myself in overload jumping around pumping state in the room then approaching with true intention of taking her home. I will stick to my tried and true methods of long gaming HB9's by n-closing cuz it is so easy. But everything is hard with 10's so without overdoing it gonna have to pump state right in front of her then move in for the kill. We'll see how it goes but yeah I doubt I'll see another 10 till next year. So talking to 10's doesn't matter cuz they are more like finding a mythical unicorn and you have to bring your A game plus you gotta be horny as hell to insta-date them or pull or else you'll lose for sure. The 10 I did n-close was horny as hell but it was too much for me so I have to be ready! And yes it was the 10's usually wanting to go home with me but being too stupid like oh play hard to get or go for the number those were the worst loses...
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