this will be a kind of field report from the beginning.
My problem is to keep myself motivated, so what can you do? Writting to person who have the same goal as you!
Well I am 21 from Germany(so I'll give my best to avoid spelling faults...).
I have no experience with girls in terms of relationship, the only thing I did was to kiss a girl once just once. But just on the cheek. But what was interesting about that was that the two month before I started to greet every woman with a simple Hey. In that time I lost a lost of anxiety for just talking to women I didn't know. Eventually I started twice a converstion with: "I have seen you and think you are interesting.(two times good responses)"
Then I had been one year abroad (in Asia) where I had no chance to get laid.
Now beeing back I wanted to continue from that exact point and it didn't work! I couldn't even say hey!
So two weeks ago I started from the beginning again, going out for one hour every day and it is getting easier now. But to keep myself motivated is quite difficult cause it would be strange for my family and friends to tell what I am doing in that time!
So I try to write as much as possible here. I don't even expect a lot of answers but if you want to tell me something positive, feel yourself free