Hired Gun Pick Up- Bar
What did I say, what did I say, and again what did I say?? Does anyone remember? Cuz I remember!!! Yes granted I get a lot of heat on here at times cuz I can be controversial but my advice is usually pretty solid and my game is just getting ironclad mates. Here's the story prepare for a rough ride like always
Yes I know but let's start here. And for the last time no I am not dumping her. I decided she has treated me so bad she is not WORTH dumping that would give her too much power over my emotions and would show she meant something to me. We have been seeing each other for two months going on 3. The needy texts didn't get her to dump me only forced her to the bar (likely in frustration). So I went back to being myself again. Again this current girl I call my girlfriend to her face, call her baby all the dang time and get away with anything. I put up photos on my FB of HB10's and still can't seem to piss her off. So then I just decided to give in and see where it goes. So no we are not technically in a relationship but we are it's complicated. She sees other people and so do I.
Anyway my GF pissed me off again! Said we were gonna go hang out at a fun plex and her platonic guy friend feel asleep so she said we "can't" go right when I left which pissed me off cuz everything to her is a fvcking group date and we could have gone together but NO. So I was like ahh Hell nah well I am going anyway. Oh that got her insecure alright. She started texting me oh I feel bad where are you all worried. Look bvtch I am a fvcking pick up artist you dang player. No I didn't say that I was like oh baby sorry to hear you had a rough day (like fvck off) no I didn't say any profanity. I was thinking she would get jelly and she did blowing up my phone and I was like I am going to the bar. Then she was checking up at the Bar like trying to get me to leave to pick up her friend (likely worried about me meeting other chicks) well I actually did meet a chick so I was like no sorry I gotta leave soon.
This is where the fun started!!
Hired Gun Pick Up
Obviously feeling like a stud I am on a mission to find new girls for obvious reasons as I just stated about my GF being dumb. So I am not that cool in just "any venue" I have a certain affinity for certain spots. Sometimes it is just one in an entire town or one Club I love in the big city but I own it in these places. So by going to my favorite bar in thus small town since I visit the big city in the Summer I decided I needed a drink after the fun plex ALONE. I figured I need dis. So I went there and of course as soon as I walk in what do I run into? An HB9. Here's where it gets interesting. I saw her apron so I knew special rules for gaming them. I have a certain way of handling hired guns which is different than regular targets.
Well I wouldn't really call it an approach she was just kinda "there". So I didn't make a big scene just said hey grab me a drink. Introduced myself, got her name. She is not a girl I have seen before but there is another 9 I am working on there I am FB friends so the new girl HB9 Hired Gun was covering for her I found out. Night got going so I told her I went to a fun plex cuz I decided to just talk what I wanted to talk about. So no IOI's. Seen her checking me out. Good sign but still not an IOI in my mind cuz maybe she was bored.
My GF was interrupting me at this point so I lost track of thought when my target came back. Texted her to take care of that then back on my girl. She walked away I was like fvck! So then I "approached" and used my "opener" or what you would call a re-opener of you will where I was fully present and actually making an effort. My target was talking me up like crazy so I finally got to blurt out "As luck would have it I found you here...at my favorite bar."
So then she finally PINGS afterwards on my third round and says "what are you doing here on a Thursday?" I am eating it up cuz first for sure IOI. So I told her the fun plex thing again and said I needed a drink (obviously pissed over my GF but never mentioned her). And told her it was cuz I work a lot.
So then got my third round and she took off! I had so much more planned. But I bait and switched her and told her I was coming back. So I ditched my beer and took off after her. Did a running opener and she was not nervous at all just sad her restaurant closed. She left early cuz it was dead. So I could have eaten with her but the place was closed. Stupid logistics!
I never and I mean never N-Close a Hired Gun unless extremely rare circumstances where it is hard to get at them like a store. But bars are easy to revisit so I decided to FB close her. Got her last name. My social proof with the other 9 who works there helped me cuz I talked about knowing her to dhv and my target said "you are friends with her right?" "Find me through her." So I got it no resistence and no BF rejections sweet! So not going to add on FB yet going back tomorrow and next weekend to build comfort, take her to that restaurant she was going to since they were closed and get at her number when we are sitting down eating and set up a "real" future date.
I already love this new girl cuz things are easy with her and is eating alone tomorrow or next week will be a lot more than I got that soon with my current girl. And I think by doing that I will be experiencing a lot of secluded dates which I love. Going back to the bar tomorrow and next week to say hi to the other HB9 Hired Gun along with the new one who I'll ask out to eat. Then getting pics with them both and posting them on FB regardless of what my GF thinks since she posts her dates on there too and flirts with a million guys so now it will be time to get a taste of her own medicine!!! So with my current girl, the new Hired Gun, and the hairstylist who is due in a week that would put my rotation to 3 HB9's which I already said I am good at and gonna fly with the Hawks first before I soar with the Eagles. Anyway lots to do!
I find it funny though my GF flakes on me so I raise my value by going out anyway and she texts me like crazy like WTF invite me over or come hang out and yet you worry about me meeting other people well I did! That's what happens when she flakes. I don't get pissed I get other chicks!!
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.