Decided to submit a different report... about my ex-girlfriend with which I had a six month relationship.
Because I found out that when you do not understand PUA techniques correctly this ruins all. Else said: calibration is very, very important.
We had a really nice relationship, this was the first girl which arouses my this much sexually. And I also like her personality.
Unfortunately the last month of our relationship I acted bad, because I had personal and financial problems, which changed my mood and high-energy state.
Here is the place to mention that the rapport between us was really bad at this times, since I constantly played other girls during our months together, rarely gave her any validation and had a bad attitude.
Eventually we broke, I acted really needy, begged and cried... the usual AFC sh*t. I did love her.
I decided to fix my life and went full no-contact for 2+ months. Dated other girls, started working out harder, bought a new motorbike and got promoted. Felt so good.
We did met by a chance and I re-initiated contact. For some time we chatted through FB, but it was going on and off.
She was giving me a lot of IOIs and then she would get on the opposite and act bitchy. I told that she was playing games on me, but I realised that she has no comfort and rapport with me and this causes so much problems, since I never validated her at all.
Actually what I did was to surprise her, without calling or arranging a meeting. I just went straight to her, apologised for the times I have hurt her and I told her what I want. 100% direct approach.
At first she tried to dominate: "I got used to live without you and I do not want to try again", but actually I did not step back from my frame and just told her that I didn`t come for excuses or refusal.
Actually, after holding on my frame and having a decent body language, I kiss closed her and we had only a 15 minute conversation. She actually asked me out before I did.
We went on a date and it was pretty awesome. At first it was somehow confusing and the conversation did not go well. However I was positive about me being there with her and having a wonderful moment and it worked out.
I did a lot of kino, did not fall for her shit tests. At the end she was trying to avoid the moment when the date will end and have more time with me.
Eventually there were a lot of kisses and fun. I could have f# closed her, but there was no place to do it at this moment.
Just wanted to share this and that I feel grate. Just stay positive and hold on your own frame.
What I know now is that everything depends on me and if I feel good about it, I will arrange a next date.