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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Man it's crazy...same thing is happening to me

    Met this girl at a club, Kissed her
    Went on a date a week later, kiss and holding hands

    Since then (almost a month ago) she refused (finding excuses) to go to another date with me

    In the last 2 weeks We exchanged some texts but nothing more (she texted me first only once and got mad because I texted her back 3 days later)

    If she flakes on you 3 times in a row and doesn't try to reschedule it means she is not that into you
    From my experience 90% of the time this means she has lost interest

    It hurts but it's the true
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    hey psiconauta,
    I have a general rule regarding showing your intentions.
    always, always, always! verbalize your intentions.
    tell her "you seem cute, we should hang out together".
    if you feel as if she is still confused, tell her "you understand I'm attracted to you, want to get to now you, right?".
    most of the times there will be no need for this second thing though, but you must understand wether or not she understand why you are there.

    but never! assume she understands what you want just because "you are talking to her, and its weird to talk with no reason so she much understand!"

    don't waste time! you will just feel more frustrated if you build something in your mind and then because lack of understanding from the girl side-you miss it.

    another thing that can happen is that she has a boyfriend but the relationship is not 100%/she is a free spirit Lol.
    Then just decide if you are up for it morality wise.
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by tal pergricht View Post
    hey psiconauta,
    I have a general rule regarding showing your intentions.
    always, always, always! verbalize your intentions.
    tell her "you seem cute, we should hang out together".
    if you feel as if she is still confused, tell her "you understand I'm attracted to you, want to get to now you, right?".
    most of the times there will be no need for this second thing though, but you must understand wether or not she understand why you are there.

    but never! assume she understands what you want just because "you are talking to her, and its weird to talk with no reason so she much understand!"

    don't waste time! you will just feel more frustrated if you build something in your mind and then because lack of understanding from the girl side-you miss it.

    another thing that can happen is that she has a boyfriend but the relationship is not 100%/she is a free spirit Lol.
    Then just decide if you are up for it morality wise.
    I don't want to be rude but this is a really bad advice

    NEVER tell a girl she is cute, gorgeous, beautiful etc... (only if she is your gf)

    Usually HB 8-9-10 girls are really confident about their beauty, so telling them they are pretty will just reinforce their idea that they are better than everyone else (you included)...lowering your social value
    They will perceive you as "beta", as another idiot trying to f*ck them, and they will start using their "anti-pick up-shield", avoiding you! The point is to get girls interested in you without directly telling them you want to bring them to your house!

    The whole game (If you read The Mistery Method you'll probably already know) is based on make you seem better (higher social value) than the other males out there. What's the point of using negs, False Time Constraints, and other "tricks" if you tell her you are attracted to her?!

    Don't tell her you like her, and do never mention his boyfriend

    Try to freeze her out for like a week and see if she writes you first...if she doesn't, try to set another (the last one) date...if she finds and excuse never write her again

    Do never let a girl run your life...if she wants you good for you, if she does not, move to another girl

    99% of the time you are more successful with women you don't care about so ALWAYS have this "take me or f*ck you" mentality...it's the only way not to be needy

    Remember she should see you as the price and not vice versa

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    I don't want to be rude but this is a really bad advice

    NEVER tell a girl she is cute, gorgeous, beautiful etc... (only if she is your gf)

    Usually HB 8-9-10 girls are really confident about their beauty, so telling them they are pretty will just reinforce their idea that they are better than everyone else (you included)...lowering your social value
    They will perceive you as "beta", as another idiot trying to f*ck them, and they will start using their "anti-pick up-shield", avoiding you! The point is to get girls interested in you without directly telling them you want to bring them to your house!

    The whole game (If you read The Mistery Method you'll probably already know) is based on make you seem better (higher social value) than the other males out there. What's the point of using negs, False Time Constraints, and other "tricks" if you tell her you are attracted to her?!

    Don't tell her you like her, and do never mention his boyfriend

    Try to freeze her out for like a week and see if she writes you first...if she doesn't, try to set another (the last one) date...if she finds and excuse never write her again

    Do never let a girl run your life...if she wants you good for you, if she does not, move to another girl

    99% of the time you are more successful with women you don't care about so ALWAYS have this "take me or f*ck you" mentality...it's the only way not to be needy

    Remember she should see you as the price and not vice versa

    YOU ARE THE PRICE

    Hey dude, thanks for the advice. I really appreciate your time.

    We only had a couple of texts on xmas and that was it. So I havent see her since dec 31. I was definetly going to meet her at the gym yesterday or today, but for some reason I just felt like meh and went on another hour so I didnt see her.

    By cooldown you mean stopping talking to her? or just keep "gaming" her but just not asking her? I mean for her body language I could say she was attracted. Eye contact also told me the same. but the 3 times I asked her out she already got plans (xmas, new years) so they were like "legit" excuses. But ofc I shouldnt be chasing her.

    What should be the next step? Or should I just go next. I have 3 other girls Im sure I can bang, already banged 2 of them so Its like I have my supply just in case. But I have to admit, I really wanted this one but I dont want to get one-itis.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    lol my bad-i responded to the wrong thread.
    sorry about it
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    To "Freeze Out" a girl means to stop contacting her for some days (might be 2 days or might be 6 months depending on the situation). It is used to correct a girl's bad behavior towards you...but it is only useful when you know she is at least a little bit attracted to you

    If you use it when you know she feels something for you, you know she will probably miss all the attentions you were used to give to her and will probably think: "What have I done wrong? Is he angry with me? maybe I should contact him"

    If you use it when she doesn't feel anything about you she will just don't care and move on with her life...so be careful

    If you decide to use it...do not text her, do not like her status/photos on facebook, don't call her and so on

    I've done it with the girl I'm "dating" and she texted me after 3 days...I responded her 3 days after and she got mad lol (you kiss me, then don't want to go to another date, then you got mad because I don't text you back?! Crazy girl)

    I am in the same situation as you are, and although we went on a date, kissed, holding hands etc.. I am losing faith since she refused to go on another date with me for 3 times in a row (she had good excuses though)

    What I am doing at the moment is waiting for a party or a cool night to ask her out in order to be sure she will accept, and in order not to seem needy asking her out repeatedly

    I'm sending her like a text every 4/5 days just to keep in touch with her (our conversation are pretty flat though)
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    To "Freeze Out" a girl means to stop contacting her for some days (might be 2 days or might be 6 months depending on the situation). It is used to correct a girl's bad behavior towards you...but it is only useful when you know she is at least a little bit attracted to you

    If you use it when you know she feels something for you, you know she will probably miss all the attentions you were used to give to her and will probably think: "What have I done wrong? Is he angry with me? maybe I should contact him"

    If you use it when she doesn't feel anything about you she will just don't care and move on with her life...so be careful

    If you decide to use it...do not text her, do not like her status/photos on facebook, don't call her and so on

    I've done it with the girl I'm "dating" and she texted me after 3 days...I responded her 3 days after and she got mad lol (you kiss me, then don't want to go to another date, then you got mad because I don't text you back?! Crazy girl)

    I am in the same situation as you are, and although we went on a date, kissed, holding hands etc.. I am losing faith since she refused to go on another date with me for 3 times in a row (she had good excuses though)

    What I am doing at the moment is waiting for a party or a cool night to ask her out in order to be sure she will accept, and in order not to seem needy asking her out repeatedly

    I'm sending her like a text every 4/5 days just to keep in touch with her (our conversation are pretty flat though)
    I get that, thing is we dont txt. We did like a couple of txts and that was it.
    Only thing I would say was good was at the gym. She lets me touch her hair, and when I kiss her on the cheek its almost like im hugging her. She would have this strong eye contact with me. She even gave me her number but thing is she told me "i might be doing xmas shopping but call me and if it doesnt work Ill see you tomorrow"

    How do I "Freeze" her if I see her almost everyday at the gym? I havent see her for 2 days tho, due to my schedule. Should I stop seeing her? Or just go , work out and act like I dont care shes there? Thats my question.

    Btw I havent told her "youre cute/beautiful/awesome" nah nothing like that. But I told her when she had her hair wrapped "Why do you have it like this... I like it the other way" she laughed, and while we were talking she started unwrapping her hair.

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Ok obviously you can't ignore her if she says "hey"...my advice is to act as if she was a normal girl at the gym...don't give her attention and see how she reacts

    This doesn't mean you need to be rude or to look at her as if she has done something bad...just treat her like any other girl you see at the gym
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Hey Lad!

    I once read a guys post on a forum (not quite sure it was this one) where he devided girls into two groups, the ones who's been hurt before and takes time to build up rapport, but once enough rapport is build, they will stick to you where the get all the satisfaction they need. The other group was girls who got various emotions from diffrent guys, like, she has 10 guy friends where she seeks diffrent values in each of them, these girls are unstable and i've learned that i should never chase these girls, they should chase me. ( I forgot to save the link to that post so if anyone knows it, please share! ) I usually friendzone these girls, atleast i dont show her any interest but still behave as a dominant male should, then i take a couple of them with me in town with a pal or two, boom, increased social value there!


    Anyways, you did your part mate, debatable whether you did it good enough to is a diffrent case, you should just ignore her. By ignoring her, I mean, dont write to her, call her or anything, but if you see her, you can say hey, in a friendly way, smile and continue doing what you were doing. Don't go over and talk to her unless she comes to you, but still you have to act like she was a female friend you dont see as sex potential. Either way she will hunger for you cause you are "ignoring" her, or nothing will happens, and if nothing happens, shes just a douche, keep talking to other girls, that will keep your mind off it all, and make it easier to act more relaxed infront of her the next time you guys talk.

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Man took a break from the forums and it seems this thread is lacking some perspective.

    Lead. You're confident for the most part and pretty good in terms getting her to be comfortable. But I think you need to lead a bit more with smaller goals that ultimate sum up a date. Know what I mean? In other words get her to commit to a conversation much like your bathroom inside joke where she feels you two have something in common. The reason for this is that you two can build upon a thread of short memories together while camping this up. Your comfortability seems pretty well grounded. If you haven't gotten her number do so by just being cool. You don't need a actual reason to lead her just be forward.

    Something like "hey, you don't seem crazy and you'rd pretty fun to hang out with. Can I get your number?" If she needs a better reason be forward or be light hearted and crack a small joke that leads to a flirtatious response. You seem clever enough not to need me to tell you what to do.

    Just remember what we think of the ideal goals in dating or getting dates are actually hundreds of small little goals. Aim for the smaller ones so in the end they can be summed up to a big goal of getting this girl.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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