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    Default The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    I work out daily at the local gym. Last weekend a random girl entered in the wrong bathroom and I was there washing my hands.

    After a couple of days, I saw her again and opened with the bathroom incident. She laughed and we talked in between excercises.

    I would do a lot of eye contact, most Kino I had from this girl was massaging her arm when I was telling her how I warm up for guitar practice. She let me do it and had a strong eye contact while this was happening.

    That same day I asker her out "Hey I took this dog from the streets and Im trying to make him more sociable with people, wanna join us later?" She said "hmm what time?" I replied "at 4".

    Her answer was "Im gonna do some xmas shopping so Im not sure If I will be around that time, give me your number and Ill talk to you by whatsapp" I didnt remember my number and didnt have my phone (I rarely take it to the gym). So I said "give me your number, Ill call you at 3" I grabbed a paper and a pen from the gyms desk and used her as a desk to write her number.

    Called her at 3:20 and she was clearly outdoors (i could tell by the noise). She said "Im still shopping, Ill see you tomorrow". I was cool with that.

    Today I arrived late to the gym, and she was alredy finishing her routine. After a while I got close and said hello, give her a kiss on the cheek and we talked just a bit. Then she said good bye and left.

    Thing is, I read the gyms list and found her last name (I already knew her name she told me). Just done a quick search on FB and well, she has a boyfriend.

    I thought I was showing my interest. Not sure If I did the right thing. But I guess I wasnt do it right because If she perceived my interest she wouldve told me "hey I have a bf" But she hasnt. Do you think my kino was good? considering that in the gym youre surrounded by people? Any tips for future things like these?

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Chances are

    1. She sees you just as a friend so she didn't worry about telling you she has a bf
    2. She is just waiting to see your actions to decide how to act (cheat or not)
    3. She doesn't care about his bf
    4. She split up with her boyfriend, but the pictures and all the comments are still on facebook

    I would recommend you to act as nothing happened and keep playing your game, otherwise if you tell her "why didn't you tell me you have a bf" (or phrases like this) she will think you are creepy and needy
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    Chances are

    1. She sees you just as a friend so she didn't worry about telling you she has a bf
    2. She is just waiting to see your actions to decide how to act (cheat or not)
    3. She doesn't care about his bf
    4. She split up with her boyfriend, but the pictures and all the comments are still on facebook

    I would recommend you to act as nothing happened and keep playing your game, otherwise if you tell her "why didn't you tell me you have a bf" (or phrases like this) she will think you are creepy and needy
    So basically I should just continue? I thought I had to just go next. But well Im not sure if thats desinterest... should I ask her out again?

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Keep behaving as nothing happened and ask her out again, and then see what happens

    The worst thing that can happen is she telling you she has a boyfriend so I do not see any reason why you should stop your game

    Be sure not to be needy though
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    Keep behaving as nothing happened and ask her out again, and then see what happens

    The worst thing that can happen is she telling you she has a boyfriend so I do not see any reason why you should stop your game

    Be sure not to be needy though
    Well Ive just saw her today just for a while because I arrived late to the gym and she was almost finished with her routine. These are the things I noticed:

    -When I arrived and waited at the door for someone to open it (its a glass door) she was working out and was looking at me, while she thought I didnt notice.

    - I didnt go an say hello to her. After a while, while I was taking some weights she appared at my side and said "hey hello". She told me that she was almost finished and I said "well done girl" and gave her a caress on the top of the head (like when you congratulate a child) she seemed to like it.

    -Then I talked to her for a while and joke around, When she was leaving, she said "hey bye" from near the door and I make her a sign to come to me. She did and we talked for a while, touched her hair while maintaining strong eye contact, she seemed pretty comfortable. Her hair was "up" (im not an english speaker but is when they wrap their hair in something). What I said was "Why you have your hair like this,... I like it the other way" she giggled and continue to talk to me, while her hands were unwrapping her hair.
    Asked her if she wanted to wait for me for a while but she told me she was going to the hair stylist...

    So we just said bye , gave her a kiss while caressing her arm.. the kiss didnt felt short, like "appropiarte" long.

    Any ideas?

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Any ideas on what? lol

    You kissed her (on the lips I suppose) and she let you do that so she obviously feels something for you

    Just one thing...don't ever ask a girl out...tell her you are going out! It shouldn't be a question but a statement
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    no no i havent kissed her in the lips just on the cheeks lol, but yeah I never said "hey wanna go out with me" .Both ocassions it was "Im gonna go this place to do this thing, wanna join?".

    does she sound interested?

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    It's hard to give you a response since I've never seen you both together, but given the behaviour you described I think she (at least) cares about you...be sure to set a date to be sure she is not fucking with you
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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Playing with a girl's hair can be more intimate than kissing on the lips... at least if you do it right. If you do, then you can probably get her pretty hot and bothered, be a gentleman and don't make her 'finish off' herself. Have the balls to escalate into a kiss close before she friend zones you or feels bad about the bf.

    As for the bf... don't worry about it. Ignore it until she brings him up and continue ignoring it after she brings him up. Part of her obviously wants you.

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    Default Re: The 18 year old girl from the bathroom incident... What can I learn?

    Quote Originally Posted by psychoactive View Post
    Playing with a girl's hair can be more intimate than kissing on the lips... at least if you do it right. If you do, then you can probably get her pretty hot and bothered, be a gentleman and don't make her 'finish off' herself. Have the balls to escalate into a kiss close before she friend zones you or feels bad about the bf.

    As for the bf... don't worry about it. Ignore it until she brings him up and continue ignoring it after she brings him up. Part of her obviously wants you.
    Hey man, I would agree with you and the hair thing. I also had a lot of eye contact with her and Im sure when a girlīs eyes are shining.

    But for some reason, she hasnt accepted to go out with me.
    -1st time she gave me her number but told me that she was going to do xmas shopping. I called her and she was.
    -2nd time I asked her out on xmas but she told me she had to go out with her family
    -3rd time I asked her out but she said she had to do a lot of stuff for her new year trip.

    I havent asked her out again or seeing her. We had a couple of texts here and there. However, playing with her hair, eye contact and all that stuff that made me think she was interested still exists.

    Should I just go next? Or take another approach?


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