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    Default Date #4 Flake

    I met this girl at an event I attended with a friend, we spoke, flirted, connected and I took her number. A few days later I called and we spoke for a while before setting up a date. Date night came and what I thought would be a quick coffee date turned into 4 hours of drinking and eating ending with a short kiss at the train station. Half way through the date she was already planning date #2, suggesting we see a film. I was having fun, connecting with the girl and agreed! A few days later we met up for dinner and then saw the film before ending the night with a drink, plenty of kissing and a train journey back home. On the train home I suggested that she came to mine for dinner on date # 3. Again she seemed genuinely thrilled when I asked her and set a time and date then and there. A few days later and after picking her up from the tube station we were sharing food and drink and again connecting in a way I had not experienced with a girl in a long time. That night she cancelled a taxi she had pre booked and ended up staying the night (no sex, just lots of kissing and so on). The next morning as she had work we got up early and I dropped her off at her place. That day I was heading back to my parents for Christmas, so I would be out of London for 8 or 9 days, but we agreed to meet up in the New Year.

    From there, everything seemed on track, she sent me a message thanking me for the night before and over Christmas we preceded to email each other every couple of days, flirting and teasing each other. I was obviously naturally delighted when one email she sent was an invitation to dinner at hers in the New Year. Giving it a day or two, I replied saying yes.

    I write this story now some 6 days after saying Yes (I also sent a brief text on New Year’s Eve wishing her a Happy New Year) and I have heard nothing back. This therefore concludes me to think she has flaked!

    But why?

    Everything was going great! She seemed really into me, initiating most of our email exchanges. She even set up a date for me to come to hers and have dinner which now just happens to be in 2 days!

    Please pass on some advice, What should I do?

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    Default Re: Date #4 Flake

    Woman tend to flake, on friends ,family and potential lovers all the time. They may have something that has more priority or just simply don't feel like it. Don't stress to much woman cherish bonds and connections very mucht, if you 2 connected well she will reply. Be unaffected and throw in some persistence and keep it fun and playful if she does flake, it's really not a big deal. Still 2 full days hang in there!

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    Default Re: Date #4 Flake

    The reason she has not responded is because you waited two days to respond to her invitation ..... you don't have to respond right away like you have nothing to do but you should respond after an hour or so especially to an invitation to her place ... that is a big thing !!! .... this waiting a day or two is not a good idea makes it seem like you don't care and makes her think why isn't he responding, I thought he was into me ????, .... in America we have a saying, strike when the iron is HOT !!!!


    By the way you guys have made some nice connections so don't get all crazy about her not responding .... she will

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    Default Re: Date #4 Flake

    Please pass on some advice, What should I do?
    she didn't flake. she canceled her own plan. (there's a difference)

    I would only consider it a flake if you make plans and she doesn't want to go.

    there could have been any number of reasons she got second thoughts about having you over to her place for new years. don't worry about them.

    the best thing you can do is pretend she never asked you to her place and keep working on her. she'll probably still keep seeing you.


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